All I can say is that Pandian-Gomathi come across as illiterate, ignorant dimwits who think they have better solutions for all the problems than anyone else in that household. This is not even patriarchy, Pandian is a dictator while Gomathi is his accomplice
True, you'd expect them to be smart and mature considering all they had to go through due to their elopement. But here it is the opposite. Pandian's character is inconsistent, he didn't want to spend money on food but spent money on alcohol and then had to pay so much for the hospital treatment. He is usually good towards Raji but then commented that she is a dandam. He was okay to elope without caring about the Vel's feelings but unhappy that his sons eloped. He wants Saravana to get married but refused the girl whom Saravana liked. He tells Palani to be patient but he himself is hurrying to perform Saravana's wedding.
I don't even want to discuss Gomathi, she is really irritating. I don't know why an actress like Nirosha is doing those appavi with fluttering eyes and shy expressions. If she watches the serial, she can see how she looks with those expressions. I expect better acting from a movie actress. 


Appo thaan avaluku nyavagam varum.. nammaku oru purushan irrukaan nu.. 
I did not notice that!
Will go back to this episode! Gomathi's cooking, I saw that! 
