Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 11th Mar 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 40

Originally posted by: Trina2021

I agree but if Arman acts upon his guilt where’s his guilt for being the reason behind Abhira losing her mother ? He knows Ruhi s marriage to Rohit wasn’t his fault but still she guilt trips him every day and night and also try to get physical with him and demands him to be his priority over his family and Abhira and he obliged but his guilt trip vanishes when he sees Abhira even tho he knows her mother lost her life to save his . That’s hypocrisy or selective guilt trip if you ask me . Sorry but that’s what I feel

Well that is because Abhira never guilt trips him or blames him for her mothers death! She did that only once when Akshara was fighting for her life in the hospital. That was also in the heat of the moment. Armaan kind of exercises a haq on Abhira and therefore takes her for granted. He definitely deserves to be called out for this. We have always called out this behaviour if Armaan. What baffles me is people accusing him of ema. On the other hand he has tried to make Ruhi understand that nothing can ever happen between them. He cannot be as firm or rude with Ruhi because the last time he did we know how that ended up. On the top of it he blames herself for Ruhi's condition.

It looks like this week we are getting angry armaan with abhira and next week guilty armaan for abhira

Kal armaan ki bashing kyu hogi uska trailer precap hi mil gaya hain

Originally posted by: MeghaBis

Well that is because Abhira never guilt trips him or blames him for her mothers death! She did that only once when Akshara was fighting for her life in the hospital. That was also in the heat of the moment. Armaan kind of exercises a haq on Abhira and therefore takes her for granted. He definitely deserves to be called out for this. We have always called out this behaviour if Armaan. What baffles me is people accusing him of ema. On the other hand he has tried to make Ruhi understand that nothing can ever happen between them. He cannot be as firm or rude with Ruhi because the last time he did we know how that ended up. On the top of it he blames herself for Ruhi's condition.

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Originally posted by: Dk_2024

I love armaan equally. Itna sensitive ML Maine ni dekha.

Ruhi is making his life hell but he was not angry with her when she proposed EMA. He said to abhira ki ruhi is angry, not armaan. She is harrassing him but the guy wants the best to her.

He can easily get rid of her by approving Manav and even Goenka will be happy with him. But he is worried about ruhi future.

He did many things for Abhira for just as a nice person. No friend ship, no family, no bonding was there between them . But still he did a lot to her.

He is a gem. And I think koi AA armaan ko replace ni kr skta.

Koi uske liye acha bnke aaye, that's our abhira. She will provide him the Sukoon he doesn't have. She will love him genuinely.

A few days back I was thinking ki abhira is not doing enough for armaN and only armaN is doing much to her. But since yuvraj track, they both came too far with their relationship.

I love them both equally.

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I just tend to feel a bit sadder for Armaan because of all the baggage he has n he's truly a bechara. And he needs more defending than Abhira.

Kl morning me aaega hospital scene

Bashing k sath sath happy hone ka mauka bi dega.

After all wo abhira ka sach ka pati hai.

Originally posted by: Trina2021

I agree but if Arman acts upon his guilt where’s his guilt for being the reason behind Abhira losing her mother ? He knows Ruhi s marriage to Rohit wasn’t his fault but still she guilt trips him every day and night and also try to get physical with him and demands him to be his priority over his family and Abhira and he obliged but his guilt trip vanishes when he sees Abhira even tho he knows her mother lost her life to save his . That’s hypocrisy or selective guilt trip if you ask me . Sorry but that’s what I feel

The fact that there is no blame game or guilt is what makes their relationship healthy and beautiful. So they don't do things for each other out of guilt.

Whereas with Ruhi, the entire relationship is built on guilt, so whatever Armaan does for her is out of guilt. Its not healthy. Its toxic.

For any relationship to be longterm and good it needs to be healthy and not based on negative emotions like guilt.

Therefore Abhimaan is the superior healthy relationship and will weather the test of time because the roots aren't poisonous.

With Ruhi, the root is poisonous n based on negative emotions like guilt. Nothing can survive that level of toxicity

Originally posted by: Dk_2024

Kl morning me aaega hospital scene

Bashing k sath sath happy hone ka mauka bi dega.

After all wo abhira ka sach ka pati hai.

Hospital scene ko koi nahi mention karega agar precap ka scene aaya to

Sayad kal manav ko milne jayega aur behosh ho jayega

Precap me Jo suit shirt hain same hain

Precap scene is from tuesday to thursday so definetely not coming tommorow...

I have fear of editors...

Aur pata lage saare pati vle dialogue kaat diye

Abhira doesn't manipulate him or guilt trip him so he takes her for granted to the extent that he has amnesia about why she's in his life in the first place. He seems to have forgotten that Abhiras pain, trauma and loneliness is WAY more than anyone else- especially him and Ruhi.

He seems to have forgotten that she still doesn't eat at the table, is treated badly, doesn't have a family, and is lonely AF. He seems to have forgotten that nothing can numb the pain of losing your parents especially when thats all the family you have. She has no friends, no family, no one! She's recently been molested/harrassed again by her mothers killer and the man is not even dead. Only in jail.

So all this considered its kinda ridiculous how his guilt for Ruhi never fades but for Abhira he thinks him and his gfsaken family have done something out of the way. He's not doing her a favor by giving her "panah" in her house and if that's how he feels he can ask her to live in a hostel or make her a PG. She doesn't deserve the accusations of being selfish or thankless or being unethical/chor etc.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

It looks like this week we are getting angry armaan with abhira and next week guilty armaan for abhira

Kal armaan ki bashing kyu hogi uska trailer precap hi mil gaya hain