Anupama is so lucky - Page 12

During the first divorce ,V and Anu were in India and Anu was Staying at SH. So she was well aware about the insecurities children were facing during divorce.

But during the second divorce ,she left Km immediately and right after the divorce Anuj had shifted to U.S. So Anu wasn't aware about Ca's mental. condition .She thought Ca just hated her.

During the first divorce she had moral support from Bapuji and Samar which helped her to continue to stay at SH. But at KM she had support only from Anuj. So when he blamed her she had to leave the house immediately.

Originally posted by: Paru...

During the first divorce ,V and Anu were in India and Anu was Staying at SH. So she was well aware about the insecurities children were facing during divorce.

She was well aware of insecurities children face after parent's divorce, faced it and saw it too, then why didn't she think of it during her 2nd divorce???

But during the second divorce ,she left Km immediately and right after the divorce Anuj had shifted to U.S. So Anu wasn't aware about Ca's mental. condition .She thought Ca just hated her.

Why did she leave the kid, during the first divorce she didn't leave her 20-30 plus kids then what made her leave an 8 year old kid?

During the first divorce she had moral support from Bapuji and Samar which helped her to continue to stay at SH. But at KM she had support only from Anuj. So when he blamed her she had to leave the house immediately.

Moral support???

Why bapuji didn't support her the n number of times she was being humiliated by vanraj Or baa, why he didn't scold or slap vanraj for ousting anupama out?? Bapuji was in no way a support system for anupama

Why did samar let dimpy take his mother's dance academy, why he didn't object when she commented on his mother's broken marriages??

Originally posted by: Muskie

Moral support?

Leela-Hansmukh are support system. Sure.

The support system that gives her nightmares?

Did she NOT run to her birth mother's place when she had no place else to go, infact, wasn't it shown she stayed with her. The same woman who she ran to at her convenience only to forget her every other time.

Post divorce He and CA had left India and she wasn't aware about their whereabouts. how could anyone contact without knowing the whereabout?.I guess the custody of Ca went to Anuj with mutual agreement.(this part need more revelation which hasn't shown).

In the first case i think children were adults ,so the custody of children were out of question and it was a mutual divorce.

Post divorce Bapuji had supported her and gave her karghana to start her dance Academy. I am not the one who should explain why Bapuji had not supported in other times. Either Bapuji or Cv's should answer.

Originally posted by: Paru...

Post divorce He and CA had left India and she wasn't aware about their whereabouts. how could anyone contact without knowing the whereabout?.I guess the custody of Ca went to Anuj with mutual agreement.(this part need more revelation which hasn't shown).

In the first case i think children were adults ,so the custody of children were out of question and it was a mutual divorce.

Post divorce Bapuji had supported her and gave her karghana to start her dance Academy. I am not the one who should explain why Bapuji had not supported in other times. Either Bapuji or Cv's should answer.

You mean to say she mutually agreed to give the whole responsibility of a child to a father and not have anything to do with her?? Not meeting her, not talking to her? Not knowing what's going on in her life??

Does that make her a good mother??? NO

giving karghana doesn't add in the supporters list. Even after divorce he manipulated her to live with them where all she did was their seva and kavya was put down by baa. Where was he when everyone including his wife character assassinated her.

Giving the karkhana was a package deal for all her insults in the house so that she never leaves

Blue: dear you were the one who wrote babuji was her support system that's why I asked when did he support her

Originally posted by: Muskie

You mean to say she mutually agreed to give the whole responsibility of a child to a father and not have anything to do with her?? Not meeting her, not talking to her? Not knowing what's going on in her life??

Does that make her a good mother??? NO

giving karghana doesn't add in the supporters list. Even after divorce he manipulated her to live with them where all she did was their seva and kavya was put down by baa. Where was he when everyone including his wife character assassinated her.

Giving the karkhana was a package deal for all her insults in the house so that she never leaves

I think Anuj got sole custody of the child post divorce. That is why he could leave India with the child post divorce. I have already explained what could be the reason why she couldn't meet her post divorce.

She was labelled as a bad mother by Anuj and Ca. That is why divorce happened.

I feel her first divorce matter is out of topic to discuss.

Originally posted by: Paru...

Post divorce He and CA had left India and she wasn't aware about their whereabouts. how could anyone contact without knowing the whereabout?.I guess the custody of Ca went to Anuj with mutual agreement.(this part need more revelation which hasn't shown).

In the first case i think children were adults ,so the custody of children were out of question and it was a mutual divorce.

Post divorce Bapuji had supported her and gave her karghana to start her dance Academy. I am not the one who should explain why Bapuji had not supported in other times. Either Bapuji or Cv's should answer.

After divorce or after she lefted the KH it was Anuj who tried to locate her not the other way around. She was the one who left first and hide. It was always Anuj who wanted and wants to work on there relationship. Anupama never took initiative to reach out or work on there relation. She always give up on that. How was it’s always Anuj duty to understand her but when Anuj wants her to understand him she just gave up.

In her first divorce she never left SH so there was not a point of custody anyways. In the last when she left she didn’t let Samar go with her even if he wanted to go with her.

She didn’t let Dimpy leave that day also and now see what’s happened to her. She literally became second Anupama for SH who doesn’t have a say in her or her kids life.

Originally posted by: Muskie

You mean to say she mutually agreed to give the whole responsibility of a child to a father and not have anything to do with her?? Not meeting her, not talking to her? Not knowing what's going on in her life??

Does that make her a good mother??? NO

giving karghana doesn't add in the supporters list. Even after divorce he manipulated her to live with them where all she did was their seva and kavya was put down by baa. Where was he when everyone including his wife character assassinated her.

Giving the karkhana was a package deal for all her insults in the house so that she never leaves

Blue: dear you were the one who wrote babuji was her support system that's why I asked when did he support her

@bold,I said Bapuji gave her moral support post divorce..It is hard for me to explain the times he couldn't support her during her marital life period with V.

Originally posted by: Paru...

I think Anuj got sole custody of the child post divorce. That is why he could leave India with the child post divorce. I have already explained what could be the reason why she couldn't meet her post divorce.

She was labelled as a bad mother by Anuj and Ca. That is why divorce happened.

I feel her first divorce matter is out of topic to discuss.

As far as I remember anuj's exactly words were: mai tumhari mamta pe sawal nahi utha raha hu, mai yeh nahi keh raha hu k tum ek buri maa ho

Originally posted by: Paru...

@bold,I said Bapuji gave her moral support post divorce..It is hard for me to explain the times he couldn't support her during her marital life period with V.