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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

@tgota92

Ayra was resisting him for her own selfish reasons. Not because of principles. Also no one really respects someone who is actively engaged in a relationship with a married man or married him inspite of it.



she was not engaged with him post his marriage. She made that very clear and Zaid did eventually back off. It was Asif who didn’t leave her alone and created the messy situation. If he hadn’t been so cruel, Zaid would not even have went back there. And seen everything that had happened, which eventually laid the foundation for the second marriage. He’s righting that wrongs his father did.


nobody is black and white in this except maybe Asif who’s pure evil lol. They’re ALL a little to blame for the second marriage happening but the important thing is that they ALL had “better options” but chose this. And now they’re bearing the consequences lol. Zaid juggling two wives, MJ struggling with jealousy, Ayra stuggling with position and Asif struggling with having a low born daughter in law lol

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_


If Ayra had any principle then she wouldn't even join ready made office position. Now she is even crying for someone else's property smiley29

In tv shows, generally the lesser class female lead has more khuddari. Here Ayra didn’t seem to have that. If she was a self respecting person, she would have never married zaid & I agree, not got a ready made position at work. She is actually trying to fit in in their world by being like them.
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Memu1

I don’t understand just because MJ yells at her staff she is evil .. Is that how we classify people as good vs bad . She has been running home , taking place of her mom and making people around feel she is in control.


Zaid , just think what zaffar said — you are clearly telling her dad that she is okay with these 2 things, but her dad said tolerance of such level is a great thing .


What is MJ facade here.

Zaid instead of intimidating her from day one with his rudeness, not showing on walima with MJ did you had a healthy conversation with her. After she did what you wanted you are showing nice .


were these 2 fools considerate on MJ .

From what we have seen of her till now. She has behavioural issues and doesn’t know how to talk to people. She’s rude and blunt, has a bad temper. She needs therapy and some counselling to change her behaviour. It’s not evil but not good either. Zaid might not be rude to his staff, but he behaved the same way when he didn’t get what he wanted.
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Posted: 2 years ago

@tgot92 he legit dumped Ayra and left her alone. He is not righting anything . He’s just making things more messy

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

Any father in this world could be happy with son-in-law's 2nd marriage? Seriously how can even anyone expect Jaffars to be okay with teddy bears smiley smiley face in front of his daughter!!! smiley29



I want Mubashira to get divorce and move on but that doesn't make jerk Zaid a gentleman who treated her like garbage before without her any fault. So, yeah Mubashira should make Zaid life hell with her scheming then she can get divorce, not before.

The sadistic me also want Mubashra to make Zaids life hell. She should try to convince her father in law to give zaids part of property to herself and make these two love birds without property. Then move on. Btwn initially they showed a friend of Mubashra who was divorced himself. What happened to him? I felt the guy was good and understanding of Mubashra.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Virgo27

Its an unpopular opinion but i like Zaid and ayra togather. Fans of ayeza and wahaj are not liking them because they we're promised something else by promotions.

Zaid and ayra both have cute moments though no high romance or chemistry. This types of scenes look good to me. After terebin all fans expect sizzling romance between couples but simple things also matters.

One thing which making me sad that how people are normalizing Mean and bullying behavior by MJ towards Ayra. People are only concerned with how she looks cool, stylish boss lady but ignoring her intentions which are demeaning. I hope our dramas don't romanticize or fantasize these things. How does it feel if you are at ayra's place smiley19 I am writing which I have seen till now maybe story changes so my point it view too

If you are not agree with my point of view then simply ignore. smiley31



totally agree with you. MJ is a fascinating character to watch and her mind games are fun, but the writing definitely is not meant to paint her in a good light. You’re supposed to question why she doesn’t just walk away from such a marriage. Why go to these extremes to make a man yours who doesn’t even want you? Is a man really worth it in the end? Zaid definitely is NOT. His priority since day 1 has always been Ayra.


the song ost video did everyone dirty but I feel the actual teasers were very accurate in portraying the story. Even the cover they have MJ and zaid looking away from each other. Very “bad decision from both sides leading to an incompatible marriage doomed from the start” vibes. How parents pressure and egos can mess up kids lives. This is definitely a lesson story and not a love story at all.

I also feel people confuse heroine as the woman who ends up with the guy. That is simply not true. MJ is a heroine of this drama and it’s about her journey and growth. In no way does that mean she will end up with the hero at the end. It’s her story against Zaid’s.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

In tv shows, generally the lesser class female lead has more khuddari. Here Ayra didn’t seem to have that. If she was a self respecting person, she would have never married zaid & I agree, not got a ready made position at work. She is actually trying to fit in in their world by being like them.



She is very self respecting. Remember she refused to take any favours from zaid before just because she was his girlfriend. She didn’t use him for anything. But now he’s literally her HUSBAND. And he runs the company. Of course he would hire his wife! Lol what’s the big deal in that? Them working together? He said he knows about her experience and she would be asset to them. He told her before too in the very earlier episodes that the job would be given to her not because she is his girlfriend but because of her qualifications and capabilities. This is an established thing which happened.


As for marriage, yes ideally she should have run away to sukkur and taken some time out. But did you see Zaid? Despite turning him down many times he was always at her door. Even in one scene when she turns him away she feels bad and comes out running after him. It’s obvious she doesn’t want to be involved but she of course still has feelings for him. It’s natural. The fact that she’s a self respecting girl is why she was shown to drive away Zaid multiple times. She didn’t actively seek this marriage. HE did. And eventually she gave in.

Ideally zaid should have given her some time away from this mess. Apologised to MJ and parted ways with her amicably. And maybe down the line he and Ayra could have reunited. But then what would we be watching ? Lol. Drama would have ended. So this was a writing choice which I don’t like but at least in my head the writer had Ayra turning down zaid multiple times. So I was okay with her level of resistance. Even right before her Nikkah she asks MJ explicitly that hey are you okay with this? This won’t be easy. And MJ was like I’m good with this.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

@tgot92 he legit dumped Ayra and left her alone. He is not righting anything . He’s just making things more messy


yep that was him letting his ego get the better of him which led to a very bad decision: Marrying MJ. Which he never could have made work. We have yet to see him formally apologize to the women for that. But not sure if Zanjabeel will have him do that. It should have happened by now.

Of course he’s making things messy. Everyone in the drama is. They’ve all got their priorities wrong. That’s what the drama is about. Even when they get what they want , it’s not an easy ride. Because they’ve all got their agendas.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: mala06

The sadistic me also want Mubashra to make Zaids life hell. She should try to convince her father in law to give zaids part of property to herself and make these two love birds without property. Then move on. Btwn initially they showed a friend of Mubashra who was divorced himself. What happened to him? I felt the guy was good and understanding of Mubashra.

He refused to marry her because he said they are the same lol. She has issues that can be worked upon I think. Normally we are used to seeing a man having so many flaws and women either enduring or reforming them. Women don’t have the same privilege most of the time. We don’t see men trying to save a marriage by getting some counselling, professional help or empathising and letting the girl learn. So many women get married off to men they don’t want to, they marry the man their family choose. How many of them have the privilege to leave the guy on her reception to see her bf because a misunderstanding got ‘cleared’ lol. How many men will accept back their ex who already got married to someone else?
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

From what we have seen of her till now. She has behavioural issues and doesn’t know how to talk to people. She’s rude and blunt, has a bad temper. She needs therapy and some counselling to change her behaviour. It’s not evil but not good either. Zaid might not be rude to his staff, but he behaved the same way when he didn’t get what he wanted.



if they had not shown the driver scene I would agree with you but MJ has been shown to be horrible to people below her status. She literally called her driver “Do takay ka driver” , physically abused him by slapping him and then LIED about him harassing her. This is a HUGE deal. And even when her dad brings her back from the police station there is no regret or remorse for her actions but anger at her dad taking the drivers side.


She’s also yelled at the house help Ejaz a number of times too lol. Angrily dismissing them, barking orders. So yeah it’s not a good look and just highlights keh yes she had mental issues but at the same time mental issues should not make you a horrible person. When she does things like these, she does become a horrible person and it’s hard to root for her. People with mental health issues can be very kind respectful people but the writer chose to make MJ less sympathetic because of this unjustified behavior.


And on the other hand you have Zaid who was very polite to the office PA who invited him over to his house for shelter. So yeah, there’s a monumental difference between how MJ treats people under her and how Zaid does. They’re just different people

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