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Better late than never, they better upgrade to a full fledged multi model AI system like Gemini instead of their taklu writers and chatbot like chatgpt

Originally posted by: shwetha85

They might have asked ChatGPT to come up with this story as season 4 started in November and Gemini AI release data is 6th of December!!! Probably, they need to upgrade their AI helper system.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Could you please stop taking my opinion as hatred towards a fictional character. In general I dont like girls who can't take care of their clothes, and not being able to cook for themselves. IMO it isn't a sign of independence or empowerment, but shows incapability and lack of class.

Akshara was shown to be a useless FL always with no spine to face any adversity, her presence has never added any value to anybody. Similarly abhira is shown to be carrying that unfortunate legacy forward.

Even I repair and do DIY but that never discount me from having the basic life skills.

That means you like none of the Rishta leads because none of them knew how to cook or drape a saree during their initial days

Abhira has plenty of spine and she deals with adversity just fine

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Sorry I am neither regressive to think cooking is only a woman's job, nor am I woke to depend on a food ordering app for my basic necessities like satisfying my hunger.

I believe value is intrinsic and doesn't need acknowledgement of others. Finally, a diamantaire can only truly value a diamond's worth.

I can't idolise a person who has a wardrobe malfunction in front of a huge crowd and later unabashedly defend their upbringing and not accepting a mistake.

Nobody called you regressive. Poddars are regressive. They think women's only place is inside the 4 walls of their house. And their only job is to cook, clean and take care of the kids. It is people who keep such mentality who are regressive.

There's a difference between treating cooking as a basic skill and using it to measure a woman's value. It is the latter that's happening, which is highly problematic. Do you see any character praising a male character for knowing cooking like Ruhi or criticizing for not knowing cooking like Abhira? You won't, because acc. to these people, cooking is only a woman's job. That idea is what was being called out.

Abhira did not deliberately cause the wardrobe malfunction. No self-respecting woman would do that. And what do you want her to apologize for.. being forced to wear an outfit she was not comfortable with, nobody bothering to check on the new bahu, wearing an outfit well for the first time or helping a girl in need? Accidents happen. The least a family can do is not create a tamasha out of it because you hate the girl. And what's wrong with her upbringing? My cousin hated wearing a saree till she was in her late 20s and her mom never forced her to wear it. Does that mean her mom has done the wrong upbringing? It is called personal choice. Where is it written that a woman should know how to wear a saree or a mother should always teach a daughter to wear a saree?

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Sorry I am neither regressive to think cooking is only a woman's job, nor am I woke to depend on a food ordering app for my basic necessities like satisfying my hunger.

I believe value is intrinsic and doesn't need acknowledgement of others. Finally, a diamantaire can only truly value a diamond's worth.

I can't idolise a person who has a wardrobe malfunction in front of a huge crowd and later unabashedly defend their upbringing and not accepting a mistake.

You are saying like she did wardrobe malfunctioning intentionally?and it's her saree which got malfunctioned.sabse zyada wo hi embarrass huyi hogi.baki logon ki feelings iss cheez main baad main aati hain.Then why she should apologize others for that?

Then what's you want her to do ?Listening they taunt her mother too Silently?Not teaching or learning how to wear a saree is not a crime when we have more comfort options than it.its our society 's problem if a girl doent know something after marriage,drag the parents and insult them too.No parent get their daughter married just to wear saree and cook food in their sasural.Sorry I am the opposite of you.i hate such people who doesn't take a stand for their parents who brought you up, when your in-laws taunt them for a mistake happen from you unintentionally or intentionally

Originally posted by: elizamerin

You are saying like she did wardrobe malfunctioning intentionally?and it's her saree which got malfunctioned.sabse zyada wo hi embarrass huyi hogi.baki logon ki feelings iss cheez main baad main aati hain.Then why she should apologize others for that?

Orange : Wardrobe malfunction are obviously unintentional and happen due to own carelessness. There is nothing wrong in accepting own mistakes and keeping aside the good-for-nothing ego.

Bold: If it's all about abhira's feelings exclusively while paying no attentions towards the thoughts, reputation , feelings of the whole family then the very concept of family is not for abhira. She should go solo , search for her new husband on a bus just like her mother did.

Originally posted by: LadooCandy

Orange : Wardrobe malfunction are obviously unintentional and happen due to own carelessness. There is nothing wrong in accepting own mistakes and keeping aside the good-for-nothing ego.

Bold: If it's all about abhira's feelings exclusively while paying no attentions towards the thoughts, reputation , feelings of the whole family then the very concept of family is not for abhira. She should go solo , search for her new husband on a bus just like her mother did.

Why should she apologize to a family who doesn't consider herself as their family ?Not just them She also dint consider them as her family.She should nt too.Because insulting her at such a low point of hers and dragging her mother into this whom she just lost two days Before, cannot considered as her family.She shouldn't care about such family's reputation also who dint give any consideration to her feelings.She was forced to do all these.

About being in a big family idea,She isn't keen to live in that family either.According to her plan ryt now ,she is going to leave that family after one year.About searching husband,She doesn't need a husband she considers Armaan just as a friend or her mother's student.Right now she just need a protection from a psycho like yuvraj..The time they show She thinks She need a husband ,we can discuss about this.Till then Ruhi can keep Armaan along with Rohit.Its Ruhi who is a expert in managing two men at a time.Abhira don't even wish for a husband and not interested in Armaan now

Note:I don't wish to say more than this .I am not interested in talking to you.better don't quote me again.

Unintentionally also a mistake has happened, when thing's like that happen apology is the common place to begin with instead of defending and talking about non-existent mahanta. Had she been great she'd not have wedded that guy(armaan) and moved in with him(she's literally an orphan ATM). Abhira has moved in with armaan, so she should have the basic civility to behave well embrace his family values, if it's difficult she could disregard the sham marriage and do her own thing.

If armaan has come to abhira family I'd also expect him to behave well and embrace their traditions etc with abhira family.

Even while she's faking a relationship she better do it diligently. Class of a person can be seen in their poised and calm demeanour, which IMO abhira lacks. This low class behaviour shows abhira lacks basic patience and commonsense.

Originally posted by: elizamerin

You are saying like she did wardrobe malfunctioning intentionally?and it's her saree which got malfunctioned.sabse zyada wo hi embarrass huyi hogi.baki logon ki feelings iss cheez main baad main aati hain.Then why she should apologize others for that?

Then what's you want her to do ?Listening they taunt her mother too Silently?Not teaching or learning how to wear a saree is not a crime when we have more comfort options than it.its our society 's problem if a girl doent know something after marriage,drag the parents and insult them too.No parent get their daughter married just to wear saree and cook food in their sasural.Sorry I am the opposite of you.i hate such people who doesn't take a stand for their parents who brought you up, when your in-laws taunt them for a mistake happen from you unintentionally or intentionally

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Unintentionally when thing's like that happen apology is the common place to begin with instead of defending themselves and talking about non-existent mahanta. Had she been great she'd have wedded that guy(armaan) and moved in with him. Even while she's faking a relationship she better do it diligently.

Class of a person can be seen in their poised and calm demeanour, which IMO abhira lacks.

FYI Abhira did apologize for the wardrobe malfunction. The point she was trying to make was that do not insult her mother

The class of a person can be seen in their respect for their parents

NO there is no need for her to "move on" with anyone she does not want.

Thanks 🙏🏽 it was my misunderstanding then

Originally posted by: janecastle

Nobody called you regressive. Poddars are regressive. They think women's only place is inside the 4 walls of their house. And their only job is to cook, clean and take care of the kids. It is people who keep such mentality who are regressive.

There's a difference between treating cooking as a basic skill and using it to measure a woman's value. It is the latter that's happening, which is highly problematic. Do you see any character praising a male character for knowing cooking like Ruhi or criticizing for not knowing cooking like Abhira? You won't, because acc. to these people, cooking is only a woman's job. That idea is what was being called out.

Abhira did not deliberately cause the wardrobe malfunction. No self-respecting woman would do that. And what do you want her to apologize for.. being forced to wear an outfit she was not comfortable with, nobody bothering to check on the new bahu, wearing an outfit well for the first time or helping a girl in need? Accidents happen. The least a family can do is not create a tamasha out of it because you hate the girl. And what's wrong with her upbringing? My cousin hated wearing a saree till she was in her late 20s and her mom never forced her to wear it. Does that mean her mom has done the wrong upbringing? It is called personal choice. Where is it written that a woman should know how to wear a saree or a mother should always teach a daughter to wear a saree?

TBH after several kachra tracks I lost interest in yrkkh only awaiting for them to shut shop

I didn't say "move on" I said "moving in"

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

FYI Abhira did apologize for the wardrobe malfunction. The point she was trying to make was that do not insult her mother

The class of a person can be seen in their respect for their parents

NO there is no need for her to "move on" with anyone she does not want.