Originally posted by: Jenakt17
Akshara and Abhi started talking to each other after their Gopi Mask Festival. Abhi legit let her know that he was visiting her family members, he sent a voicemail and we saw Akshara excited about him coming. And then when he came, he had that romantic moment with Akshara with her car before going inside her house - Akshra didn’t deny Abhi’s advances, didnt say otherwise to Abhi when he he talking and chatting with her on the phone - so he took it as positive signs of her love for him. Also, Akshara behavior is the reason Abhi had to go for her to confess to him. He isn’t toxic- you say he didn’t propose to her, went directly to marriage proposal- because he was getting positive vibes from her while they were talking. The whole day of tilak, Abhi was constantly messaging her and was confused wasn’t responding back- he even said when the family then thought the proposal was for Arohi, why didn’t you call me and let me know- what did Akshara do - she kept quiet despite the fact she herself was confused that how can she be wrong in reading his feelings. What does that tell you about Akshara when she ignored Abhi after marriage proposal despite herself believing in the first that he loves her and not Arohi? She was in contact with him decided to ignore.
Akshara never listens to Abhi even when he sweetly explains things to her- biggest proof being his parents anniversary party that she threw- Abhi tells they don’t celebrate it, not to do anything, and he also goes like my family/parents aren’t like yours. But instead she goes ahead and throws a surprise party despite him already telling her not to do anything.
More examples of her not listening to him even when he explains things to her. Akshara finds out about Arohi’s pregnancy lie and tells Abhi so he tells her I will handle it, please don’t take stress cause you can’t afford that in your risk pregnancy situation. But she goes and starts an argument with Arohi, Neil overhears and big argument starts with Neil throwing things around. Now imagine- Akshara got hurt during this argument- because Abhi did when he tried to calm Neil down.
Then their family picnic, he tells her don’t leave the picnic area, if you need anything- please tell family. She sees a kid, instead of telling others- she goes to the forest for the kid and ends up harming herself. Everyone worries about her and their family picnic gets cut short.
Abhinav didn’t need to be there, why didn’t Akshara go back with her grandpa when he came for her? Tell me how does it make sense that you see guy struggling financially and you decide let me take his help for my son and me and add more stress to him instead of going back to my family who wants me?
Bold- did I say that Abhi was right in divorcing and not caring for her during miscarriage? I legit wrote that he was very wrong. Actually did you see me blame just Akshara for WD? No where did I say Akshara was wrong to be angry at him and not come back- she can move on with Abhinav, good for her. But she had no right to change fathers of her son especially when he was made with love and she knew how excited Abhi was to be a father.
I am sorry I didn't say you are justifying Abhimanyu or any other character. I am just placing my opinions and perceptions. Please feel free to disagree
Abhi taking Akshara's shy behaviour while they talk to each other and looking at him lovingly as her love for him and going directly to propose for marriage is not appreciable. She may like him or not. Even of she likes him, directly marriage? Isn't that a little overboard expectation? Did he even think himself if she wanted to marry him or for that matter anybody? That's what I said about his character. He decided looking at her reactions that she likes him, and decided that they can get married. Without even asking her general opinion about marriage. (If someone, even a girls' BF comes home suddenly an evening with a bouquet for marriage proposal without taking her consent before, I am sure most of the girls today will not appreciate it) What Manjari is doing today to get his scheme of things done, we got a small reflection of the same when Abhimanyu did a stunt on the confession hanging upside down. To most of the people that appeared romantic, but that behaviour was problematic. Mother-son is almost similar. Only thing was that stunt did not harm anyone's life (except Arohi was left on mandap, and that was her Karma of manipulating things for her benefit).
Akshara not listening to Abhimanyu I don't take it as much serious an issue. In a marriage (equal relation between two partners), there is no need of one person telling and another one listening. That's what I believe. OFC, they add these plots as drama is required.
As I told Abhimanyu (pre leap) is angry man, controlling and making decisions for others, Akshara is a typical Indian woman, who was always under gratitude (towards Sirat, towards G family and now Abhinav), sacrificial and keeps others over herself. That's not a great quality when it comes to your personal life. She sacrificed her marriage (first for Arohi, then for Abhimanyu), got into another marriage for Abhir, was getting into 3rd one for Abhir and now ready to sacrifice a life for Abhir. She is not thinking of what she wants for herself. That's a very bad quality.
If you have watched the wishes of Abhimanyu, Akshara and Arohi in Icha kund episode, Abhimanyu wanted Akshara (indicating he will be an obsessed lover), Arohi wanted all good things in life, to be no.1 (and she got it, she is one of the best doctor now, got a daughter and happy with her life; how she got it is another debatable issue) and Akshara wished for happiness of family, Arohi to be no 1, and to let her know about what is this feeling. She did not ask anything for herself. Now half of her wish is fulfilled. Family is happy, Arohi is no. 1 and by the end of this season, she will realise the feeling (today her imagination scene with Abhir indicates that). If we go by Ichakund wishes, there should be Abhira reunion (which actually I don't want after this roller coaster journey), because Abhimanyu's wish will otherwise remain un fulfilled. PS: I am not a fan of either of characters or actors. I watch it out of compulsion, because my MIL is a legacy viewer and she runs it on TV. and I am just waiting for the show to end. With the recent MJ non sense of abortion, my husband has strictly warned my MIL to not watch this show from next season onwards. So we are happy that it is ending
to watch such things!
his mother wants his happiness but he can't be haply without akshara and this is one "thing" that manjari can't bring him. Hence she's widened her pathetic mamta ka mayajal to abhir to get akshara in "control" & mummy ka Munna says mummy emotional ho rahi hai. 
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