Originally posted by: R.G.C
They both hurt each other time and again, its never one sided. The two are just totally incompatible and not to be together. There is always talks about the great Abhira love, but what type of love is this that is ao fragile ki ek bhaagti rehti hai and doosra at every instance keeps abandoning her. Totally not meant for each other. Their principles about family is totally different, reason for all those clashes pre any leap; their idea of love is totally different; and most important is there is no mutual understanding between both. One continuously ignores to listen, another constantly hides stuff, that simply shows immense lack of trust. Dono ki harkatein bas ek doosri ki insecurities aur badhati hain. Passion is important but trust and understanding ke bina koi relationship tik nhi sakta
Honestly. I don't agree simply based on the actual extreme circumstances shown. They were actually really good at "normal" issues and had a lot of understanding. Even if initially they might have had arguments, those were usually resolved and they talked about their issues. The main issues only came about with the big leaps which were instigated by extreme circumstances like the deaths of family members and blames. I don't think anyone says that their love is "great". But rather at least Abhi's love is persevering. Ak's was too in her capacity to forgive so many faults of Abhi. But the problem was that her bad decisions were never highlighted or tackled by anyone. Not just Abhi.
Her relationship with her family is the same way. They also love her and initially had expectations from her. So BP would also shout at her for making mistakes and question her and stuff. But eventually we have seen even them give up basically. They no longer hold her accountable and anytime they ask any questions they are met with either gaslighting or a threat to leave.
It's not about initial incompatibility in my opinion but about bad circumstances which magnified their issues and then those issues were dealt with properly. As to insecurity, I know Abhi had some insecurities regarding Ak's priorities, but that was tackled during the first leap. I am not sure if there were any others. Both of them also had a lot of faith on each other. But the problem was that along with that they also had ridiculous expectations of each other. Like Abhi expected Ak to prioritize him over her natural instincts. Ak expected Abhi to always forgive her mistakes whether it was leaving for a year or not being careful during the pregnancy. Her expectations of Abhi are far far greater than her expectations of anyone else. Same for Abhi until this leap and I think now he has no expectations of her anymore.
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