Originally posted by: Criticiser
Ever since this character was introduced I have always believed that she is nothing compared to the woman she was named after and has nothing in common with her. The name Akshara was a very special name as it reminded us of the legendary Akshara Singhania who was a generous, courageous and helpful woman and was adored by literally everyone who knew her. On the other hand her so called granddaughter Akshara/Goenka/Birla/Sharma is the opposite! She is a selfish, foolish, cowardly woman who only knows how to ruin things and run away from her problems instead of facing them like a normal, sane person.
This girl has never had self respect from day one and has always been obsessed with being a mahaan aatma as if she is some goddess like her Anu Aunty! Kabhi Aaru kilye maahan banegi, toh kabhi Manjari Maa kilye! instead of taking a stand for herself and telling these people that they’re wrong she’ll just cry and play the victim card!
Many people have different opinions about white day but in my opinion I still believe that she was a significant cause and if she had acted patiently and used her common sense then maybe Neil and her deceased baby would be alive today and all this madness would not have happened.
Her running away from her home and hopping on a random bus instead of going to her parents house made no sense at all. I agree that she was traumatised after losing Neil and her baby and that the Maa Beta both blamed her for their death but still. She should’ve given some time and fought back/divorced properly/demand alimony to show the Birla’s that she is a strong, independent woman who won’t take anyone’s crap and doesn’t need anyone’s support.
Obviously, we all know that she was lucky that day and met Abhinav Sharma who was a pure soul and took care of her and her baby during the tragic times, encouraged her, gave her a place to stay and she later made him the father of her child after seeing his kindness and sacrifices towards them.
However, what if Abhinav was a negative person with malicious intentions who could potentially harm her and her baby or what if there was no Abhinav to take card of her then what would she have done as we all know that Akshara is incapable of taking care of herself let alone another human! She carelessly put herself in potential risk without thinking twice.
Yes she wasn’t in the right state of mind but she could’ve went to a park, cafe, friends house, Nani ka ghar etc to fully rest and detoxify for a few days!
She clearly sucks at having a career as she is a confused soul who doesn’t know what she wants to do in her life. Kabhi singer banna hai toh kabhi music therapy, kabhi music teacher banna hai, kabhi jam maker, toh kabhi lawyer banna!
Girl do you not know what your own passions are or do you need a man to decide that as well?
Now most importantly Akshara is the worst wife anyone can have and has failed badly in both her marriages. The women knew very well about Abhimanyu’s anger problems and how malevolent and abusive his family is yet still decided to marry in that household without thinking twice about the future consequences that she could potentially face.
She was honestly living a good life with Abhinamyu before she stupidly left him just cause of a random doctor! Was very stupid how she just left him without saying a word she could’ve literally told him about Khera’s condition par nahi madam ko toh mahaan banna tha and ruined her relationship in the process!
Now coming to her marriage with Abhinav I agree that she had a good relationship with him and lived happily with him for 6 years which was fine at the time as it honestly looked as if Akshara had moved on with him. However things went sour as soon as Abhimanyu entered the picture as it proved her disloyalty.
She apparently wasn’t in love with Abhinav for 6 years but as soon as Abhimanyu came she randomly confessed to Abhinav saying that she loves him and can’t live without him etc which would not be a problem if she truly and honestly loved the guy with no selfish motives!
It is absolutely shameless how she claims to love Abhinav but can easily run back to Abhimanyu just because her young son and manipulate elders want her too! If she genuinely still loved Abhimanyu during and after the 6 years then there would be no issues but she has countlessly screamed at him, taunted him, bashed him saying how she regrets loving him etc and now she wants him again for her selfish motives as she is incapable of taking care of her son and needs a Baap since the previous one has expired and she seems to have conveniently forgotten that she ‘loved’ the guy and had a ‘positive’ relationship with him!
Remarriage is absolutely fine I have no issues with it but marrying straight after your partner has died is simply disloyal especially when you’re remarrying your Ex that you supposedly ’despise’! It simply shameless and selfish! Marriage is not be the only way to have a happy family, healing yourself, being independent and giving time to your kids is the most important to ensure a good, peaceful life. Why constantly abuse and insult someone when you know that you secretly still have feelings for them!
Knowingly or unknowingly she has ruined the life of both men one is alive but is living like a dead soul everyday while the other is in the afterlife most likely shocked seeing her true colours!
Whether you are an Abhira fan, Akshnav fan or a neutral legacy fan like me, I’m sure we can all agree that Akshara/Goenka/Birla/Sharma/Birla is the most shameless, selfish, disloyal, hypocrite female lead to exist especially when compared to the previous leads like Akshara and Naira!!
I just hope the next FL aka her daughter Naira is Not like her at all and has the positive qualities of her grandmothers instead!!
Uff that was long but I think it was necessary to say the karwa sach about this character before she ends for good!!!
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