Originally posted by: ajacob31
Let’s gracefully agree to disagree about our opinions. For me, any relationship happening outside marriage is EMA. Here he was taking advantage of Priya’s vulnerability to coerce her into contract marriage where it was win-win situation for Ram as he got a free pass to do everything just because he told Priya about his GF before marriage. The way Ram treated Priya, who was actually helping him was so disrespectful and insulting. He let Priya get insulted not just by him but also by his near and dear ones. So it’s not him having a GF on the side, it was his behavior as well that made him so unrootable. He asked his GF to stay way, but the next min, he was conspiring with her to make Priya hated by his mom…He never strongly stood for Priya nor he strongly asked his GF to stay away for 3 months. Ram was unrootable not just because of his open relationship, but the way he treated Priya and her family. He should never have shown giving fake promises to Priya’s family…. There is no way Ram’s character can be justified according to me. His behavior towards everyone except his close ones was a huge put off.
I couldn’t fully root for Priya either as she was shown to lie for no particular reason, was shown losing her identity by letting people disrespect and walk over her, making her agree to every unreasonable demands they put on the table. In short they made Priya a door mat. BTW, these are my opinions and I respect that you and many others have your own.✌🏽
Again, i am not discussing over other things in the show, its never ending debate . I don’t want to go there.
every relationship outside marriage isn’t EMA. EMA has one thing that is the core of why EMA is an evil thing to do — it is “breaking trust”, lying and deceiving your partner.
That is why in an open marriage, there is no EMA.
Priya knew what she was getting into. She herself was giving all the free pass to Ram to talk with his gf etc. then how Ram is a two timer ?!!
ps: I am not saying Ram do nothing wrong ever. He has his negatives. My topic is only one thing and that is Ram isn’t a two timer or he is not in an EMA.