Toxic Positivity

When Ak lost Abhir, who went to her to tell her that her son isn't dead, he is alive so she shouldn't be crying because she can meet him on every weekend, however she met him everyday. When Abhi gave up his son's custody and decided to cut off from Goenkas and Sharmas both clans couldn't take it, they didn't think he deserves some time to cope up with his feelings. Positive feelings are good for you but negative feelings are a part of one's life, people suppressing their negative emotions end up harming themselves even more, it is okay to accept that you are not fine with current state of events, it is okay to feel anger, misery and every other emotion. Dismissing any emotion and telling yourself that you are okay will create more problems. Abhi was bad for everyone because he was acknowledging his emotions. If Ak can cry for her son so can Abhi. If Abhi wanted to cut off from Goenkas and Sharmas, he had every right to do without people assembling to gas light him. He didn't go to anyone, he didn't invite anyone to his pity party, he was coping with his feelings alone. His mother and family didn't call anyone, after one month or one year of 4 stages of grief, he would have chosen to do whatever he wanted to do. Abhir doesn't need him, he has his family. Ak and An wanted to assuage their guilt of their lies and deceits so they forced Abhi to accept crumbs from Abhir. An had no shame telling father of Abhir that he can visit him every month in Kasauli as if he was doing a favour on him.

Time kaha se denge Abhi ko, Akshu ko to apne unemployed pati ka birthday celebrate karna tha lekin inke paas to paise hai nahi to Abhi ka naam use karke resort me birthday celebrate kiya apne pati ka. Freeloaders

More and more this pity party is proceeding, I’m definitely getting the freeloaders vibes from the Kasauli couple. Arey usko akela chodho!! Why are u rubbing ur happy family drama in his face when he clearly said he craved for one with her. She should be in Kasauli making jams or with the goenkas making kachoris or pahadi kana for her Nav ji! Yahan abhi ko kyun pareshan kar rahi hai..!

Originally posted by: ExpectoPatronu

Time kaha se denge Abhi ko, Akshu ko to apne unemployed pati ka birthday celebrate karna tha lekin inke paas to paise hai nahi to Abhi ka naam use karke resort me birthday celebrate kiya apne pati ka. Freeloaders

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

When Ak lost Abhir, who went to her to tell her that her son isn't dead, he is alive so she shouldn't be crying because she can meet him on every weekend, however she met him everyday. When Abhi gave up his son's custody and decided to cut off from Goenkas and Sharmas both clans couldn't take it, they didn't think he deserves some time to cope up with his feelings. Positive feelings are good for you but negative feelings are a part of one's life, people suppressing their negative emotions end up harming themselves even more, it is okay to accept that you are not fine with current state of events, it is okay to feel anger, misery and every other emotion. Dismissing any emotion and telling yourself that you are okay will create more problems. Abhi was bad for everyone because he was acknowledging his emotions. If Ak can cry for her son so can Abhi. If Abhi wanted to cut off from Goenkas and Sharmas, he had every right to do without people assembling to gas light him. He didn't go to anyone, he didn't invite anyone to his pity party, he was coping with his feelings alone. His mother and family didn't call anyone, after one month or one year of 4 stages of grief, he would have chosen to do whatever he wanted to do. Abhir doesn't need him, he has his family. Ak and An wanted to assuage their guilt of their lies and deceits so they forced Abhi to accept crumbs from Abhir. An had no shame telling father of Abhir that he can visit him every month in Kasauli as if he was doing a favour on him.

So true..If someone is sad ..there isn't anything more irritating that someone telling them you should not be feeling that way..no one can tell someone how to feel...any normal person will feel crushed about Abhirs decision..but Aksharaji has no concept of space .. grieving for some other person..and she has no maturity to realise not everyone will act as per her wishes all the time...I don't even understand what is she trying to do hanging around Abhi...they just rushed at jet speed to Kasauli after Abhir surgery didnt they...why this delay now..Abhi can feel whatever he want..till whatever duration he wants..everyones coping mechanism is different and it is perfectly fine..

It was absolutely okay for Akshara and Abhinav to run off to Kasauli to cope with their pain. In fact, BP was the one who suggested it, said they need to get away from Udaipur or they would be reminded of the pain everyday. Didn’t matter how Abhir would feel about this decision.

But when Abhi wants to do the same, how can he!?? How insensitive of him to not consider a 6 year old’s feelings and just think of himself? No, lets suffocate him with images of our happy family that he can only dream of, instead!

And the same akshara was mocked for feeling that way when she lost the custody isn't? Her pain was also made fun of.

If we're watching the same show , akshara broke down twice. Once in court and second time when she lost the visitation rights. Rest of the time she was preparing for high court appeal, trying to meet abhir , celebrate her success with abhir , meet him at the school. She wasn't mourning at home . She at least showed resilience , a will to fight against the odds.

The comparison I am making is for how two people are going through pain in their lives. Yes, the pain is different. One is being encouraged to take some time and space. The other is being criticized for the same.

Their pain is different. One was heartbroken because she lost her son’s custody. The other is heartbroken because his son refused to accept him as his father.

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Originally posted by: Neerasi29

So true..If someone is sad ..there isn't anything more irritating that someone telling them you should not be feeling that way..no one can tell someone how to feel...any normal person will feel crushed about Abhirs decision..but Aksharaji has no concept of space .. grieving for some other person..and she has no maturity to realise not everyone will act as per her wishes all the time...I don't even understand what is she trying to do hanging around Abhi...they just rushed at jet speed to Kasauli after Abhir surgery didnt they...why this delay now..Abhi can feel whatever he want..till whatever duration he wants..everyones coping mechanism is different and it is perfectly fine..

And supposedly is an ex therapist. She has no brains. AB has his own coping mechanism. He likes to cut out from the world take his time off. Happened during his safarnama phase. A lot of people cope with their grief like that especially the ones with anger issues because they don't want to hurt anyone out of impulse. And Ak who on WD refused to talk to BP and chose to stay alone is now not giving space to Abhi. Her character is just🤢

And abhi AB I like that unhinged shade they're giving just give better and sensible dialogues. I would actually like him giving everyone a hard time!

Originally posted by: ExpectoPatronu

Time kaha se denge Abhi ko, Akshu ko to apne unemployed pati ka birthday celebrate karna tha lekin inke paas to paise hai nahi to Abhi ka naam use karke resort me birthday celebrate kiya apne pati ka. Freeloaders

Wah .... Perfect plan of Akshara 🤣

Abh patha chal raha hai isko kyun abh abhimanyu go feel good karvana hai.....

Free party plus good name card..... 😆

Flipshu....