Originally posted by: return_to_hades
Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism
Like some kind of congressman? (Tale as old as time)
Gosh, I love this girl. Platonically of course.
She got this down to the T on Narcicissts.
I have heard this song, didn't know it was Taylors. And I've always loved this song
'It's me, Hi, I'm the problem, it's me'.
Those words are some magic gems the self secret narcicissts know, but never let out.
Coz they reflect, It's you, yeh, you're the problem, it's you'.
🤣
Even when U walk away from them kind of people, they think bec you were lacking their attention. When infact you were suffocating from their constant need for attention. Couldn't get out fast enough. Me and extreme Narcissists just do not get on. The minute I realise, I lose all trust and faith in that person.
The constant personality change, it's like watching and being dragged into some Jekyl and Hyde freak show.
I thank you for actually sending me to the video of the actual album.
I loved every part of it. This girl is brilliant. I guess we both have our individual reasons for liking her.
It's so thought off really well. Everything from lyrics to the story telling.
And the funeral, yeh.. this is the shit these people wud do, First have a miserable life, upsetting everyone that crosses their path, then also try and have the last laugh by trying to do something unpredictable and nasty.
And the fight, man so true. They create situations where they hide and everyone ends up fighting. And how she with a self pity face climbs out of the coffin and walks off disappointed like it was everyone else's fault. Man how did she do this so brilliantly. Man .. like hey, I'm not here so it wasn't me. I didn't do anything. 😆
Then the ghosting part, Man.. can't hold any friendship/aquaintanship down. Because their emotions are situational and never real. If people fit to their needs and situations, they are the most happening thing for them. They don't care for others personalities, emotions, likes and friendships. So when the others take stance of not playing to their tune.. they become the big monster and drive people away. Then they sit and think about those people obsessively. And forget to live their life it's just hate and reminicence that's left for them to do In the end with their multiple IDs, everyday, They rinse and repeat the same again and again and with the same people also. Can convincingly say 'Sorry'.
Which is both neither humble nor profound, its an ends to a means only.
Loved the big big monster in the room. People all continuing to mind their own, and doing what they want, but that large monster in the back.. watching their every move. Minding into their business. Trying to satisfy own insecurities by trying to pick faults in their ways yet miserably envying them and feeling out of the circle. Unwanted.
Then you have the end the two, the actual self loathing miserable and clueless self with the anti hero. These two really do go side by side. They both fit into the personality together. But bigger than that is the ego that comes in, in the end. It's like both sides of this personality are feeding the massive ego that comes in the end.
That ego then powers them up to continue the same loop again, so it can be fed the next night and next.
This is my analysis of this. I do wanna go back and see the video explanation review and see what they say. Pick up what I may have missed.
The best part.. is this. So true... wanna be centre of attention. Which they can't. But still wants to lead. Be the congressman.. who we know mostly lie and manipulate.
This had me in stitches. 🤣

The vote for me, for everything badge. Lol. They literally do wear that. 😆
I have that list of songs to listen to the ones you sent me. So will get thru them as soon as I can.
But yeh if you have a song you wanna make me hear and watch the video off and give my two pence. I'm in for it.
Totally enjoyed this. Thank you.
Edited by carisma2 - 2 years ago
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