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Posted: 2 years ago
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You are on point 💯 in whatever you wrote.


Arrey, in real life even a criminal is given co-parenting rights; even if he is jail, if he moves in the Court but, he will get his biological right to get visitations from the child under supervision. Then after release, again it will be supervised by a child care worker. Then, it will be taken forward if the ex husband is willingly co-parenting. There are many such criminals who have completely changed themselves after fathering a child for the sake of that child. Don't tell me that it is normal in the western countries. The family laws are in place in India also long before and now with divorce rates becoming higher in India, it is becoming common there too. People don't tell this much outside for fear of gossiping and the child being ostracized.


Was Abhimanyu given any of the rights at all. It was vicious writing by DKP writers bringing down the character of a female lead, utterly disgusting and disappointing 🤦‍♀️


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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Theta14

Abhimanyu took a Mahan decision today, I get it.


However, AbiM wasn't blind before, He totally understood Abhir wasn't happy in Birla H

He knew whatever Manjri did was wrong.

He is not a child, He could have just done what he did today way before. He just screamed at Manjri, which really had no effect on Manjri,


It took Abhir to run away from home, verbally stating to AbhiM 'I DON'T WANT TO STAY WITH YOU"

for AbhiM to realize!


I know AK did wrong by hiding Abhir's truth but as a father, his priority would have been Abhir's happiness.

Yes, Manjri was mainly behind those dramas, but he could have stopped those trial nonsense and saved Abhir to go through this mental trauma.

If you had watched the episode in which Abhi was packing to take Abhir to Kasuali and Abhir was preparing to run away, in that episode while packing, he had a small monologue to say

“Mahadev mein kal Junior ko Akshara ke pass leke ja raha hun, aap please Akshara ka khayal rakhye, aur ho sakta hai ki iss bhaar Junior vapas….aap bas Akshara ka khayal rakhye”.

He was already thinking and mentally preparing to leave Abhir with Ak in Kasuali even before Abhir ran off. Manjiri had sensed it too and hence she was arguing with Abhi to not take Abhir to Kasuali.


If only Abhir hadn’t run away…

Edited by NomadicWonders - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#13

It actually did take the child to run away for his father to realize he wasn’t happy lol.


Akshara faked her illness, asked KM and AB to discuss it while Abhir was secretly listening to them and then asked Ruhi to help him plan his escape 😂 everyone helped Akshara in getting her son back lol.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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https://twitter.com/Harshad__Abhi/status/1684378064216633346?s=20


He decide before that to leave Abhir in Kasauli with Akshara

Edited by ExpectoPatronu - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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So true , the child had to voice it out !

Abhir like father can't stay away from Mom , hut Manju didn't understand that oart earlier !

6yr staying away from Mom, when they need Mom the most

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

So true , the child had to voice it out !

Abhir like father can't stay away from Mom , hut Manju didn't understand that oart earlier !

6yr staying away from Mom, when they need Mom the most

Yes. This wasn't a plausible solution at any given time. But theory samajh nai aati ma bete ko, practical karke batana padta hai.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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That is what happens, he waited until the end ! he saw his son was upset and not happy , but did nothing !

He was more bothered about " his mother's insecurities " ...after all no kne can take away AbhiM's place in Abhir's life he is the real father ! That is the truth

Birla house every one was creating some or other kind of drama , Abhir got bullied by Shiv

The adults were fighting

Now no choice , it is Abhir's wish

Edited by Rosh4rose - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

It was honestly a funny episode, and all the comedy material was provided by kandmaata. I mean she seriously had the nerve to keep saying that if court decided to give them abhir's custody then it must have been for a good reason, despite both her and Abhimanyu knowing fully well the literal only reason they were given abhir's custody was because they are rich, a real rude slap on the face to most of the parents in this world who are poor/middle-class (so by the court's logic most parents in the world should have their kids taken from them in favour of having a child adopted into a rich family then).


Then even after the umpteen time hearing from abhir how he can't live without his parents and that he will continue to run away to be with them, she still chose to be completely dismissive about abhir's happiness and feelings even after everything she has seen and heard. This woman can only function as abhi's mother.... her grandson wouldn't even land on number 10 on her list of priorities because all the other positions on that list are allotted to her son and her own ego/ feelings. She hasn't once actually thought as herself as abhir's grandmother, but only abhi's mother, which is why she keeps brushing off abhir's pain.


Then some criticism is required for anand and manish.


Anand spouting bakwaas about how abhir will get used to living without his mother the more they force abhir to live with birlas 🤪 Yeah sure, Birla's are such caring and good people to raise a child when they say such garbage for their own benefit, regardless of how miserable it makes a child.


I was rolling my eyes non-stop at manish talking about how akshara-abhinav's financial status will improve and him sulking. He really disappointed me because I was hoping at one point at least one character will point out that having an abundance of wealth isn't required to raise a child, yet even manish in his silly dialogues was propagating this silly itv logic that parents need to be wealthy to raise a child. A parent needs to be able to provide a safe environment for a child, provide the child with it's basic needs such as food, shelter education and emotional stability, and that's what most courts also expect from a parent/ parents, which is what Abhir has been getting all these years from akshara-abhinav.


I wasn't surprised at parth suggesting akshara-abhinav wouldn't be able to afford to send abhir abroad for studies, because what an absolute necessity it is in a child's upbring to get overseas education in a swanky school/ university


A lot of stupid things were said in this episode, and for once I had no criticism towards abhimanyu, because at least unlike his family elders who still couldn't give two-shits about the child who is suffering, he did wake up and realise his son's happiness and feelings are above whatever else anybody else thinks or wants.


I have learnt to stop looking for messages or anything in these shows😆 but definitely for those who still look for it...


This is going to be worst message ever.


Very well put... Now, Abhimanyu is made mahaan by having to given up Abhir's custody. But was that even necessary?

People are still pointing at financial stability to be capable of handle a kid... Which is very sad!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

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I have learnt to stop looking for messages or anything in these shows😆 but definitely for those who still look for it...


This is going to be worst message ever.


Very well put... Now, Abhimanyu is made mahaan by having to given up Abhir's custody. But was that even necessary?

People are still pointing at financial stability to be capable of handle a kid... Which is very sad!

He would have been " M ahan" if he had done it earlier by himself ! Any loving father would do that @

Now it is like ganting Abhir's wish @

He kept his mother's insecurities ( his own words ) above every onevand every thing in his life !

Usually people will prioritise their children that too didn't happen!

The child made an escape from suffocation Birla Mansion, where his tears had less value , got bullied by an older child & listened that his granny's demands of not sending him to meet his sick mother , he had to try finding his own way !

Which way he is becoming " Mahan" he had to there was no other choice

Edited by Rosh4rose - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Theta14

Abhimanyu took a Mahan decision today, I get it.


However, AbiM wasn't blind before, He totally understood Abhir wasn't happy in Birla H

He knew whatever Manjri did was wrong.

He is not a child, He could have just done what he did today way before. He just screamed at Manjri, which really had no effect on Manjri,


It took Abhir to run away from home, verbally stating to AbhiM 'I DON'T WANT TO STAY WITH YOU"

for AbhiM to realize!


I know AK did wrong by hiding Abhir's truth but as a father, his priority would have been Abhir's happiness.

Yes, Manjri was mainly behind those dramas, but he could have stopped those trial nonsense and saved Abhir to go through this mental trauma.

AbhiM was packing to take Abhir to Kasauli

But he ran away.....but what was more disheartening was Abhir refused to call him Dad..

Abhim didnot want to take Abhinav's place but create his own but Abhir refused

I hope Abhir remains Abhimanyu's second choice after Ruhi henceforth


DT Note: name calling edited

Edited by DreamOfEndless - 2 years ago

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