Originally posted by: DevilsHeart
From Abhir’s point of view - a 6 year old wanting to be with his parents is understandable. All this while a lot was going on with him to even think about his relationship with Abhimanyu. I get that. Had he not been on such an emotional roller coaster ride last few weeks(I blame Sharmas completely for it) - he may have had the time to process the truth about his biological father! He would obviously still have wished to go back to Kasauli but he may not have been so miserable - he had trouble speaking up because he was called a burden and he no longer could trust anyone! And if he had opened up earlier to Abhimanyu - he wouldn’t need to run away. Abhimanyu held him when he was crying remembering the Sharma’s conversation. He did hold Abhimanyu’s hand in school and said lets go (since he was hurt) - Abhimanyu didn’t know all this at that point. So from Abhimanyu’s point of view things weren’t so clear at all. Whenever he was certain about Abhir’s feelings - he acted on them without a second thought! We can agree to disagree but no matter what mistakes Abhimanyu made as a husband - he is undoubtedly the best parent on this show for me!
I am not asking you to agree with me but I and many others believe that AbhiM got many indications that his son was very miserable. It does not take a whole lot to understand the problems of such aged kids (either they have problem in school or home). Since he is undergoing such a big life change event, it should be quite obvious that the cause of his problems is that he was uprooted from his family.
Had the Sharmas told Abhir abt his RWP, Abhir would still be equally miserable in BH. Because Abhir's problem was not with AbhiM being the Dad but that he had to go away from his parents and stay in BH.
And I am not debating who is best parent. Most parents are best parents for their own kids. But someone else's parent is not going to be best for me. Here AbhiM's status is like a good loving uncle (from Abhir's point of view).
He ideally should have not tried to uproot him instead gotten just weekend/holiday custody where he could have build up the attachment. He completely went wrong there.
Edited by Aashiqanafan - 2 years ago
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