ABHIMANYU : MY POV - Page 2

Superb post.

So well written.

You learn from your mistakes and Abhi is exactly doing that now. That is the human beings not that constantly remind someone to their mistakes and blames all the time.

He is very well aware of his mistakes and regrets it and just wants to become part of his son’s life and for that he literally has to fight with everyone not only his kids mother but his own family as well.

Originally posted by: Krinya

... All he ever wanted was a happy & peaceful live with Akshara but that never happened.It hurts when you expect bare minimum from your partner but they constantly disappoint & disrespect you but they give you the exact same to a different person after leaving you in pieces..

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That akshara constantly disappointed and disrespected him .

He was the one who was desperate to marry her He was the one who was desperate to marry her and they barely knew each other ...she may have disappointed him but he too disappointed her equally Nd more. As love is all about caring for the happiness of those who you love , love is all about adjusting with their faults & their weaknesses ..love is all about forgiveness and forgiving oneself. Love is all about respect and protection...and it works both ways so he also failed as a person as a human and as a husband if akshara failed as a wife.

It's not easy to put up with extreme personalities. Only manjari types can bec they themselves are like that.

First of all if Abhimanyu was desperate to get married to Akshara, then even was Akshara desperate to get married to him .. It was a love marriage & both got married with their consent.

Also it's not easy to put up with a person like Akshara, who takes deaths of family members so casually. She deserves someone like Abhinav only, who has no family & is a complete a yes man . If Abhinav too had a family of his own, 3-4 logo ko ab tak Akshara nipta chuki hoti. No wonders she could live with him for 6 years.

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

First of all if Abhimanyu was desperate to get married to Akshara, then even was Akshara desperate to get married to him .. It was a love marriage & both got married with their consent.

Also it's not easy to put up with a person like Akshara, who takes deaths of family members so casually. She deserves someone like Abhinav only, who has no family & is a complete a yes man . If Abhinav too had a family of his own, 3-4 logo ko ab tak Akshara nipta chuki hoti. No wonders she could live with him for 6 years.

I have never adored any fictional character the way I adore Abhimanyu . He is a gem ♥️ This character is the only reason, I am seeing some instagram clips otherwise nothing to see in this show.

Wonderful writeup for my fav character ❤️❤️ everything Abhi is or isn't ..he is honest.. brutally honest ..good bad worse .he neither lies not manipulates..nor minces words..and his love for Abhir is sincere and pure..whatever he did or did not do...anger cost him a lot of things..and he has realised the cost of his anger..and I have seen him telling Abhir also .. someone who realizes and tries to work on their biggest weakness .is worthy..he is sincere honest character and that's what I most love about him..and of course Harshad playing it🥰

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

Wow!! 😭😭

Awesome post on ABHIMANYU BIRLA ❤️❤️

Now, where do I start? I don’t remember when I started watching s3 of YRKKH, but I know for sure. I stayed only b’coz of this character. Even though I stopped watching, I’m still roaming around the forum to connect with the lovely girls who share my views.
ABHIMANYU was never a clean slate, no one claimed that he is - he is a man of flaws, only thing that sets him class apart is - he owns up to his mistakes, confronts them, rectifies them to become a better human being - he does not run away at the first opportunity he gets. They all say this show is abt AK, a legacy child - but for me this show is all abt AB and his pain - I look at this show from his perspective, he is the show runner for me.

Though pre-leap AB was awesome, I felt more connected to the post leap AB / it could be due to the scenes given to him (& ofcourse the person who portrays it ❤️), those scenes really brought out the pain he is going thru. He does understand that his one mistake in anger costed him everything. That’s y, even after facing rejection, humiliation, insults, time & time again hearing he is not a good father, constantly getting compared, taunted on every chance, was going to be thrown away from his sons life - he did not reverted back to his OG self / he may never will ❤️ (but, how I want that OG Abhi to be back and set every damn person straight 😣)

I still would like to know, underneath all this wat he actually feels, the level of hurt & pain he is going thru - how can one be still be in love (??!!! 😖😖) with a women who tried to erase your existence from your son’s life?! I absolutely hate that even now he runs to her at the mere thought of her being hurt only to be humiliated & fooled again. This kind of love is hard for me to understand, I would really like him to move on, focus on his career & abhir - eventually fall in love with a women of his caliber. But, I know this is ITV 🤯 & he is stuck with that woman 😒, who doesn’t deserve an ounce of this thoughts - let alone his love.

We all know where this is heading, if and when it happens or even before it happens - I hope we get an episode where he questions her on every damn pain he & his family has gone thru (she can question him as well for WD, but believe me - with the way she is portrayed right now, WD seems bearable) But, I don’t want her anywhere near him without her redemption & that redemption better be good 😕. Actually, I will be happy if they let him be a single dad with Abhir also loving him, this papa and betu 💕💕 will rule hearts if this happens, but I don’t expect this kind of thought or writing from these so called writers who has pea sized brain.

Again, awesome write up - loved reading it ❤️ keep writing and share your views. 🤗

Thanks for the appreciation 🙏

Also, i agree pre leap Abhimanyu was awesome. In fact, till Abhira wedding track Abhimanyu's character was amazing. He was like the intense heroes of my favorite romantic novels ..But this is ITV which works on TRP. And for the sake of TRP & drama, characters do get compromised. Post Abhira wedding, the writing & execution went downhill. But post leap 2.0 , I could connect & feel the pain of Abhimanyu more than any other character... Abhimanyu is a gem 💎

I am in love with an ITV male lead after a long time.. Also as a woman, I always have that feminine urge to support the FL most of the times but in this show, I always end up feeling bad for Abhimanyu most of the times .

Originally posted by: CreativeBuff

Looking at Abhimanyu's journey from the beginning to till date, I have realized one thing that he has an extreme personality & that is his biggest strength as well as his biggest flaw.

Such people are either winner or loser in life . They can't be in between.

Look at his relationship with his parents. He extremely loved his mother & he extremely hated his father. He adores his mother. The day he came to know about his father's extra marital affair & the marital abuse , he broke all the relationships with his father .Despite his father's repeated attempt to get closer to Abhimanyu or his mother trying to reconcile their relationship,he never mended his relationship with his father because he can either love or cannot love his father, there can't be in between

Profession : Again extremism.He has always been college topper, Udaipur topper & top cardiologist in the city . Mediocracy is not for extremists.

Love : He was running away from love but when he fell in love with Akshara, he was ready to run in any direction to get her. He literally let Goenkas walk over him multiple times just for the sake of his love.He literally left his self respect, his job, his hospital, his family & practically everything to be with her . Even when she ran away for 1 year without telling anything, he was extremely angry & suffering from depression but he never stopped loving her. After Neil's death, just after 5 months he came to know about Akshara getting remmaried & probably after few months he would have got to know that now she even has a baby with her current husband. That would have broke his already broken heart into thousand pieces. But nothing pushed him to move on from her & now, even after 7 years , he hasn't moved on. Repeated insult, humiliation, abandonment & even mental trauma, he has suffered so much but still he loved her.. Again, this is a very extreme behaviour.

Anger : We all know about his extreme anger. He lost his brother Neil & two babies on a single day & was on the verge of losing even his mother next day.. Even Abhimanyu was at his lowest & going through hell on white day & it's understandable. But it's also a fact that he was blinded by his extreme anger & so he divorced Akshara that day & refused to listen to her when she called him. His extreme anger led to his destruction.

Parenthood: He loved Roohi a lot, raised her like his own daughter & treated her like his princess. He gave all his love, care & undivided attention to her for the last 6 years.. The fact that he is Roohi's best friend, poppy , family everything says a lot how he made her feel all these years.. He loved Abhir & did a lot for the kid,even before knowing that he is his own blood & when he assumed Abhir to be Akshara's kid with another man .

His extreme behavior makes people to expect a lot from him & in that case, if he falters even for a day , the person on the receiving end just can't take it. Kehte hai " Jo karta hai,umeed bhi sirf usi se hoti hai aur phir sabse jada baddua bhi usi ko lagti hai " Akshara is okay with Aarohi, Kairav & Goenka family. She doesn't even expect a sorry from them, despite them being equally at fault. But she can't forgive Abhimanyu & not even ready to understand his pain, loss & trauma . And nobody but Abhimanyu himself is responsible for that expectation. Similarly, Abhimanyu raised Aarohi's daughter, gave her fatherly love & he even took a backseat in his career to raise Roohi . But just one day, on picnic camp he gave more importance to Abhir & wanted to spend time with his own son, & she lost it , she couldn't take it.

But again, who is responsible ? Abhimanyu himself is responsible for setting the expectations so high .He keeps doing things selflessly for others, itna jyada that they can't take it if he faulters even for a day.

He was, is & will remain a sufferer coz he keeps doing things selflessly for people whom he loves a lot, only to get backstabbed & abandoned later on , by the same people. Dil ki sunne wale logon ki zindagi jyada jhand hoti hai .

I am not saying Abhimanyu is perfect, he has his own flaws but he always keeps improving, learns from his mistakes & turns out to be a better person... All he ever wanted was a happy & peaceful live with Akshara but that never happened.It hurts when you expect bare minimum from your partner but they constantly disappoint & disrespect you but they give you the exact same to a different person after leaving you in pieces..

Nice analysis. Abhimanyu has his flaws and even though the impulsive decision of divorce and actions following Neil death was wrong, I have felt bad for him seeing his pain. The goenkas hurt Akshu as well yet she was happy to reunite with Kairav and Arohi. The Birla's and especially Manjiri has several times failed to see his suffering.

It's the rule of the world that extreme people are bound to suffer , and being extreme isn't a very good thing eighter. I am abhimanyu supporter because akshara is unbearable and downright inhumane , but abhiM has faults which make his sufferings inevitable.

Regarding the love part and not able to move on , I won't praise it as love because it a case of holding on to the past which many people in this world suffer through. AbhiM always suffered from ak .For me love isn't about enduring abuse . Yes , love is great , but everything and anything cannot be forcefully incorporated under the garb of 'love'.

As for white day , I don't think Abhimanyu did anything wrong on white day . When someone enters in a marriage, the unwritten expectation as well as condition that he/she has for the spouse is that the spouse won't harm the former's family members in any way intentionally or unintentionally.

I don't subscribe to the idea of overlooking the death of blood relations for the sake of romantic love .

I wasn't active much recently. Just saw this post, love the way you put it in words. I agree he is not perfect but he is definitely not as bad as many claims.

He is a flawed person, but he owe his mistakes and works on it. It's not necessary that people do notice that you are a changed person so obviously many including Akshara still claims of him being the impulsive person he is not anymore.

All he ever wanted was a happy & peaceful live with Akshara but that never happened.It hurts when you expect bare minimum from your partner but they constantly disappoint & disrespect you but they give you the exact same to a different person after leaving you in pieces.

This totally understandable. I will not say only Akshara was at fault but there are few things that Akshara too could have done better and she does give the exact same things to her current partner. He asked to focus on the relationship she didn't she wanted to see what's up with Manjari, what KV is saying doing, and it does hurt but he has still accepted it as something he lacked.

So except for WD he wasn't a bad partner. He wanted the bare minimum in that relationship but didn't get.

Hope now that story will again move towards them they make better decisions and communicate.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I wasn't active much recently. Just saw this post, love the way you put it in words. I agree he is not perfect but he is definitely not as bad as many claims.

He is a flawed person, but he owe his mistakes and works on it. It's not necessary that people do notice that you are a changed person so obviously many including Akshara still claims of him being the impulsive person he is not anymore.

All he ever wanted was a happy & peaceful live with Akshara but that never happened.It hurts when you expect bare minimum from your partner but they constantly disappoint & disrespect you but they give you the exact same to a different person after leaving you in pieces.

This totally understandable. I will not say only Akshara was at fault but there are few things that Akshara too could have done better and she does give the exact same things to her current partner. He asked to focus on the relationship she didn't she wanted to see what's up with Manjari, what KV is saying doing, and it does hurt but he has still accepted it as something he lacked.

So except for WD he wasn't a bad partner. He wanted the bare minimum in that relationship but didn't get.

Hope now that story will again move towards them they make better decisions and communicate.

Abhimanyu as a husband was always very supportive & caring towards Akshara... It was his protectiveness that he always asked Akshara to not interfere in Birla family affairs because he didn't like anyone pointing fingers or insulting Akshara... So, in a way he was trying to shield her from his toxic family.

People say Abhimanyu was a bad husband... But i just want to know what has Akshara done to be called a good wife? Other than sending half of the birla family members on their death bed & running away whenever problem arises , what exactly is Akshara's contribution in their marriage? You can't expect an ideal man, when you yourself is a pathetic woman & wife.

@bold Even on WD, he wasn't completely wrong.. His outburst was completely justified. Even his dialogues were so on point that day ,when he confronted her in the room .. Except divorcing her & blaming for Seerat's death, he was nowhere wrong..