How will it work if you go to response is yelling at people?

Posted: 2 years ago
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Mrs. Akshara Sharma is a lawyer now but she has absolutely 0 understanding of how to deal with a legal issue just like she is a mother and has 0 understanding of how to deal with a child.


First she created a world of lies for her son where someone was put in front of him as his father. I wouldn't have blamed her for it, if she wasn't preparing for 6 years to fight with Abhimanyu for Abhir's custody, she knew Abhimanyu will get to know the truth one day, she prepared herself for it, she prepared Abhinav for it but didn't care about her son. The most difficult part of whole problem was left for Abhir to process


Even if we forget those 6 years, she could have prepared Abhir after Abhimanyu got to know the truth, your lies will always blow up in your face, especially if your insecure husband is going to start crying in hall, saying Abhir is not his son and you instead of stopping him, are busy in pacifying him.


When Abhir kept asking her about his real Papa, she tells him that "You like the Papa I got for you, why do you want to know about your real Papa?" She doesn't understand that her son might be going through a phase where he feels that his biological father rejected him.



Even if we let go of this, they had a chance to not go for custody battle and put their foot down in front of BP and tell him that Abhir's future will be decided by his parents, when Manjari's stupid demands weren't accepted, why you thought to accept stupid demands of BP? Only because Abhimanyu stood to lose his son forever and these two had the most to gain, again they decided to do what was easier for them.



They broke the news to Abhir in worst possible way telling him that his biological father wants to take him away from his family then claim that they had to lie to Abhir so he doesn't start hating Abhimanyu 🤷‍♀️ Your boogeyman story worked very well


Abhir always assured them that he loves them, he always told them that they are his family, he just wanted to know the truth and the truth should have been told to him in the best possible way but thanks to Mr. Sharma, it wasn't a possibility because between Abhir and Abhinav, Abhir had to act like a mature individual.



Even if we forget all this, after custody case they decided to break his heart as if that will make things easier for Abhir. A child who is going through emotional stress, abandonment issues and identity crisis, needed his family to tell him that he was a burden on them.


Now, when your lies are showing their effects, do you handle it like an adult? No

You will go to Birla house and yell at people 🤦‍♀️ because of course, that'll make it easier for Abhir.



PS - Makers please don't use Abhimanyu's BGM on Akshara, don't ruin it for us 👀


Note - It is neither a rant nor a frustration thread, please don't merge it

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Abhimanyu can't be acting clueless like this, you wanted your son, now that he is with you, you have to put more than 1000% to make sure he is fine. I was giving him benefit of the doubt when he didn't know the truth, but now that he does, there's no excuse for him to not put more efforts towards Abhir



I have no expectations from Mr. Sharma because at this point, Abhir is a better parent than him



TBH, I don't think anyone deserves Abhir right now, none actually cares about him

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Seeing Abhir’s behavior and emotional state right now, the mature thing to do would be consulting a counselor. Abhir needs to be able to express himself - he is has lost his trust and facing identity crisis. And these parents needs counseling session too - so they can discuss Abhir related stuff without losing patience with each other! I hope if case is reopened, Abhir is heard as well - these 3 parents are not seeing the big picture - Akshara is concerned about his behavior to others, Abhimanyu is concerned about his emotional well-being : if only they could discuss like civilized adults, the kid may get some relief!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I do not agree with you on Akshara but at the same time her shouting is not helping Abhir. The arrangement of weekend visit and rest with bio dad would have worked fine. The child would have settled down. But Manjari's inappropriate interference is causing serious damage to Abhir's future. She is destroying her own son's future. Why did not she inform Abhimanyu about the school fiasco. She is now eliminating his son's place to counsel Abhir. Whatever may be her reason I can never support her.
Will be interesting to see how come Abhimanyu signs the special order. What next he will send Abhir to hostel as advised by mom.

Posted: 2 years ago
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I agree for most part. I m going to add about Manjari a bit. She needs to be told about her limitations as a grandmother. Practically, with kid’s parents being alive, school should never discuss to a dropping off -dadi about kid’s behavioral changes. They should contact mother/father. For all they know, she is a nanny dressed up in glittery clothes. Abhimanyu definitely needs to sit and talk to his mother about her rights and limitations.


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Posted: 2 years ago
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If MJ stops forcing herself on Abhir to be a granny and not act like his mother.

Most of the issues would be solved.

Right now all the 3 parents r doing stupidity, these 3 need to sit together and talk calmly and first tell MJ to be within her limit.


Second and most importantly, talk with Abhir, and stop forcing him to think and feel things that aren't his fault.

Ak and Nav need to clear up things that they did in their stupidity, let him breathe, hear him out and make him stay away from Mahima and her family.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Seeing Abhir’s behavior and emotional state right now, the mature thing to do would be consulting a counselor. Abhir needs to be able to express himself - he is has lost his trust and facing identity crisis. And these parents needs counseling session too - so they can discuss Abhir related stuff without losing patience with each other! I hope if case is reopened, Abhir is heard as well - these 3 parents are not seeing the big picture - Akshara is concerned about his behavior to others, Abhimanyu is concerned about his emotional well-being : if only they could discuss like civilized adults, the kid may get some relief!


Yup. Abhir needs help of a psychiatrist who can evaluate his mental health and tell his parents about his needs.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonali1968

I do not agree with you on Akshara but at the same time her shouting is not helping Abhir. The arrangement of weekend visit and rest with bio dad would have worked fine. The child would have settled down. But Manjari's inappropriate interference is causing serious damage to Abhir's future. She is destroying her own son's future. Why did not she inform Abhimanyu about the school fiasco. She is now eliminating his son's place to counsel Abhir. Whatever may be her reason I can never support her.
Will be interesting to see how come Abhimanyu signs the special order. What next he will send Abhir to hostel as advised by mom.


Manjari is the troublemaker right now, since DKP doesn't punish people who do wrong, I don't really have any desire to discuss her. Arohi is sitting in that house after doing all the crimes, Parth is sitting there, Mahima is there

This is a discussion out of characters and more to do with writer's choice



Akshara and Abhinav have been doing blunders since the beginning

Edited by NoraSM - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambajee

I agree for most part. I m going to add about Manjari a bit. She needs to be told about her limitations as a grandmother. Practically, with kid’s parents being alive, school should never discuss to a dropping off -dadi about kid’s behavioral changes. They should contact mother/father. For all they know, she is a nanny dressed up in glittery clothes. Abhimanyu definitely needs to sit and talk to his mother about her rights and limitations.


I don't know in which school they are but in my niece's school, only her parents can drop her and pick her up, even I am not allowed to talk to her when she is in school.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM


Manjari is the troublemaker right now, since DKP doesn't punish people who do wrong, I don't really have any desire to discuss her. Arohi is sitting in that house after doing all the crimes, Parth is sitting there, Mahima is there

This is a discussion out of characters and more to do with writer's choice



Akshara and Abhinav have been doing blunders since the beginning

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