Abhimanyu & 'Didi,aap sirf humko bura dikhane ke liye sab kehrahi hai'

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Just caught the full episode and this line from Manjiri when Mahima decimates her🤣


Matlab kya hi bol sakte hain. Self awareness hain lekin conscience nahi. Wah. 😆


I almost wished Abhir jumped in to say : Dida,aapko bura dikhane ki jarurat nahi , aap buri hain.🤬


Manjiri is just.. She's a villain in more ways than one. All of her antics have only one justification : 'Toh main kya karti 😩'... Kuch nahi? Sabko shanti se jeene deti? Dida hain Dida jaisi rehti. Matchmaker na banti. Apne ghar mein bachon ka kindergarten na kholti.


Sabse important baat : Aap kuch nahi bhi kar sakti hain.. Yeh option bhi hota hain insaan ke paas


Abhimanyu... At this point idk what to feel about his character. The bad and the absurd eclipses the good parts but I like seeing the latter. He's always been someone who needed others to show him the mirror to bring about any major change,which ultimately lands in the dumps because of his mother dearest but anyway.


Yesterday Akshara started the chain, which he whataboutme'd, then Abhinav continued that which finally shut him up and realised his mistake. Today, Mahima followed it up by exposing the reality of Abhir's mental state in Birla House. That he's disturbed without his parents. I just wish Abhimanyu quickly gets to know about Abhir's bullying from Shivu too cause I hate how helpless Abhir looks when picked on like that. It's too uncomfortable to watch..so much so that I have to fastforward the whole thing. The blame game that follows angers me even more cause the mayhem only suppresses Abhir's side of the story. Atleast Abhimanyu wanted to know that today and didn't immediately ask Abhir to say sorry.


The question is.. Will he actually do something about it. He literally sees how heartbroken Abhir was when the other kids were getting their mothers' love. Mahima's words also hit him. Will he do something about it?


Because that is what will decide whether Abhimanyu is a good parent/father or not.


He wants his son with him after being deprived for 6 years. He needs his son close to him. He doesn't want to stay away from his son. All of that is understandable. He loves his son. But does he love his son enough?


Because if he does, then does he love his son enough to let him go? For his own happiness. For its become increasingly clear that Abhir wants to be with his parents. The ones who raised him. That's where his true happiness lies.


The rate at which Manjiri is going to cruelly erase his parents from Abhir's life.. If Abhimanyu doesn't put a stop to it sooner than later, its not just custody he will lose, he's gonna lose Abhir's trust and love, forever. Something he actually put so much time and effort to gain.. Especially as Docman. He's already lost a lot of that. Abhir doesn't even share his pain with him, something he would with Docman without a care in the world. He considered that man his best friend and confidant. Now the only time he throws a smile Abhimanyu's way is when he talks of meeting his mother. They had such a strong bond based on pure trust and affection and he's already lost part of that. He's gonna lose all of it because of Manjiri.


The point is if he loves Abhir, does he love him enough to give priority to Abhir's happiness and what he wants?


I feel like this is it. The crux of the current track. Abhimanyu's agnipariksha as a father. Will he be able to protect his son from his mother who is just trying to take Abhir from Akshara as revenge/placeholder for Neil?


Abhir is infact Neil's replacement in Manjiri's life. Neil was also another kid she brought in Birla House. A kid who was treated the way Abhir was almost treated today by Parth.. Manjiri could have eased Neil's pain, made his life simpler, could have let him go, could have exposed his real identity.. but didn't. With Abhir, history is just repeating itself. It was always about Manjiri and never about the kid's feelings. It was true for Neil, it's true for Abhir.


Will Abhimanyu make the jump from just biological father in name to an actual father in spirit and action? This is the test. And honestly, if not just for his own redemption arc/growth.. then atleast for the sake for little Abhir who deserves a stable childhood with all three parents..I wish Abhimanyu makes it.


Cause I do want to root for him as a father who protects his son and places his happiness first, a father who finally comes out of his Manjiri trance and goes against his own mother for the happiness of his son [the one track I truly want to see].. regardless of his past history and behavior. Because Abhir deserves better. That's truly it.


Today I especially loved seeing him yell at Manjiri for her antics infront of everyone (long time coming and more of this please! ) and then put Parth in his place for even trying that nonsense on Abhir. I would have preferred a punch but maybe next time.


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Posted: 2 years ago
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I just felt for Abhir today. Well in almost all episodes these days.

He is going through a lot but nobody is noticing that . His helplessness when being bullied. He cant even speak up when asked. And its not bcz he is well behaved or reserved. He is scared. He is scared that if he puts one step in the wrong direction......he might never see his parents again. ( which will soon turn into a reality)


That phone call to Akshara nd his words after dt was just extremely sad.

Just happy to see that atleast Ruhi is being der fr him . She is the only one he talks to. It should hv been AbhiM though.


I really hope AbhiM steps up as a father and understands what his child is going through. Atleast he understood why Abhir couldnt sleep last nyt.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Both ladies are equally toxic.

All they care about is their sons haq


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Posted: 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

I just felt for Abhir today. Well in almost all episodes these days.

He is going through a lot but nobody is noticing that . His helplessness when being bullied. He cant even speak up when asked. And its not bcz he is well behaved or reserved. He is scared. He is scared that if he puts one step in the wrong direction......he might never see his parents again. ( which will soon turn into a reality)


That phone call to Akshara nd his words after dt was just extremely sad.

Just happy to see that atleast Ruhi is being der fr him . She is the only one he talks to. It should hv been AbhiM though.


I really hope AbhiM steps up as a father and understands what his child is going through. Atleast he understood why Abhir couldnt sleep last nyt.


I absolutely hate his bullying moments. I always ff'd them. Someone has to discover the truth about Shivu before it's too late. I'm afraid Shivu hates Abhir enough to genuinely hurt him.


The thing is if Abhir goes to his family for the weekend he'd definitely spill the beans to them and thus the bullying track cannot continue. That's also a reason they are keeping Akshara away. She will know something is wrong. More than that, they would apologize for lying to him about the whole financial thing. The makers still dont want that cleared. Hence, cancellation of visitation. [If Abhimanyu stays mute here and does nothing again... he's done in my eyes]


Basically, I feel everything will be solved when Akshara goes for custody again. Whether they will go for a small leap or directly jump the gun is what to know. It looks like Akshnav are going to Kasauli.. Could be false flag or Abhimanyu's wake up call or the leap.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Her to main kya karthi is just like black magic in Abhimanyu.... It works like after that he will turn to square one...

...I know it was so stupid and can't justifiable of what Akshara did to Abir...... because she should tell him the truth about the consequences and reality of Abhimanyu and his mother... Abir is a mature boy who can understand and agree with legal consequences if he didn't go...But writer chose this way....By this Akshara become again problem se bhaagnewaali ,selfish mother...Is writer really thinking that by making Akshara dumb erase what Abhimanyu and his mother did...🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️...

Abhimanyu is failed as doctor, husband and human the day he divorced Akshara on that vulnerable state....I am not looking into the part of what Bade papa said...Firstly it was his own decision to divorce her...The action was so misplaced but the one thing that he did good for her ...But again if he is not ready to his I,me,myself and mummy mode se bahar nahi aayi toh Abir will also hates him just like he hates his own father....

Abir ko Akshara ko mile na mile court should settle him in some child protection centre...This birla house is way too toxic for that little child...

Viewers are so familiar with Angry young toxic male leads ,some section of audience just hate Akshara and Abhinav just because they married and Akshara cut her soul connection...Is richness is the criteria for a hero....In that way almost female lead is middle class and Vamps are rich ......Abhinav has his own flaws but the fact is that he is far far better than Abhimanyu and the good thing happened to Akshata's life...

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Now times have changed , women are changed ( well many)

They don't stand " any kind of abuse and violence in relationships"

Richness , rudness , macho image, anger and muscles are not the criteria for many!

A woman really need " respect and trust " is relationship, any amount " sexu**l fantasy " can not replace it !

Abhinav respects Akshu , he takes a stand for his wife when needed ( unlike Akshu's ex husband a slave to his Mom's manipulation)

Wife is not a " property " can just throw away when not behaving as " told" or " expected "

Nor do wife is a domesticated animal or an exotic pet , pamper but without any rights of their own!

Akshu choose AbhiN over AbhiM , see the way she us being mocked for her choice!

Akshu is right according to me , " respect " is essential for a relationship

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vismaya03

Her to main kya karthi is just like black magic in Abhimanyu.... It works like after that he will turn to square one...

...I know it was so stupid and can't justifiable of what Akshara did to Abir...... because she should tell him the truth about the consequences and reality of Abhimanyu and his mother... Abir is a mature boy who can understand and agree with legal consequences if he didn't go...But writer chose this way....By this Akshara become again problem se bhaagnewaali ,selfish mother...Is writer really thinking that by making Akshara dumb erase what Abhimanyu and his mother did...🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️...

Abhimanyu is failed as doctor, husband and human the day he divorced Akshara on that vulnerable state....I am not looking into the part of what Bade papa said...Firstly it was his own decision to divorce her...The action was so misplaced but the one thing that he did good for her ...But again if he is not ready to his I,me,myself and mummy mode se bahar nahi aayi toh Abir will also hates him just like he hates his own father....

Abir ko Akshara ko mile na mile court should settle him in some child protection centre...This birla house is way too toxic for that little child...

Viewers are so familiar with Angry young toxic male leads ,some section of audience just hate Akshara and Abhinav just because they married and Akshara cut her soul connection...Is richness is the criteria for a hero....In that way almost female lead is middle class and Vamps are rich ......Abhinav has his own flaws but the fact is that he is far far better than Abhimanyu and the good thing happened to Akshata's life...

why should he be away from his loving family? kyun rahe woh orphan ki tarah when akshu and abhinav r r there.....

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Posted: 2 years ago
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whoever is hailing mahima she is in akshara side,please come out of your bubble,she is just doing that abhir doesnt stay at birla house and there is no competition for her grand son

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: India_TV

why should he be away from his loving family? kyun rahe woh orphan ki tarah when akshu and abhinav r r there.....


what orphan ,abhimanyu is his own dad ,he hasnt gone to his step fathers house

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweta2005


what orphan ,abhimanyu is his own dad ,he hasnt gone to his step fathers house

problem hi yahi hai ki.....abhi uska father hote hue bhi uske saath nahi hai....

makers yahi dikha rahe hain...aaj ruhi and shivu dono pani dadi ka haath pakad kar aa rahe the...abhir akela tha...

again dono ruhi and shivu apni mamma ke paas daud kar gayee and abhir akela tha....

abhi was just standing and looking....


waise meri post kisi ke reply mein thi...and aap woh padho...then u will understand...😂

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