Resurgence | Arshi FF | Thread 2 | thread 3 link posted on page 150 - Page 85

Originally posted by: ranogill

I was reading today’s chapter again and Arnav mentioned two photos of him and Lavanya at the balcony . But Khushi received photos of at balcony and at restaurant and at his home . How come . I think Manali and Lavanya were hell bent on ruining Arnav’s marriage or is there any third person involved.

I have entertained the possibility of a third person, but I think it could just be Manali. I think even Lavanya does not know about the photos sent to Khushi, because according to Arnav's point of view, she looked genuinely peeved about the photo blackmail. But perhaps Manali did this, to somehow "get' Arnav for Lavanya? If it is Manali though, I wonder if she loves Lavanya in some obsessed way! Because what manager would do that, really!

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

I have entertained the possibility of a third person, but I think it could just be Manali. I think even Lavanya does not know about the photos sent to Khushi, because according to Arnav's point of view, she looked genuinely peeved about the photo blackmail. But perhaps Manali did this, to somehow "get' Arnav for Lavanya? If it is Manali though, I wonder if she loves Lavanya in some obsessed way! Because what manager would do that, really!

Originally posted by: Learrntowrite

oooooooo we have a new angle. Manali loves Lavanya 😂😂😂 I actually laughed out loud at the line where Arnav is genuinely stumped at how far up Lavanya’s ass Manali lives 😂😂😂

I mean, if the shoe fits!

Originally posted by: You-Know-Who

Wow, that is a beautiful thought. Thank you for sharing. :)

I only said controversial because I did not want to sound like I was blaming Khushi in any way or form, because I was not. But her unquestionable devotion is romanticized and praised a lot. And I wonder if it should be, that's all.

I have never understood how can a person love someone like this, make their entire world revolve around that someone, This kind of devotion needs to be cherished and respected but in most cases they are not.

Is such love kind of love worthy of praise ‘yes’ but is it right ‘I don’t think so’.

Shouldnt one love their own self first then someone else. You should never do that kind of disservice to your own self.

And Khushi of this story has learnt her lesson too. She is paying the price of loving others before herself.

It’s just so sad.

Originally posted by: tashi26

hey sorry for butting in your conversation but could not help myself.

I have never understood how can a person love someone like this, make their entire world revolve around that someone, This kind of devotion needs to be cherished and respected but in most cases they are not.

Is such love kind of love worthy of praise ‘yes’ but is it right ‘I don’t think so’.

Shouldnt one love their own self first then someone else. You should never do that kind of disservice to your own self.

And Khushi of this story has learnt her lesson too. She is paying the price of loving others before herself.

It’s just so sad.

Hey Tashi..you are echoing our thoughts. Or did I misunderstand you_know-who

Originally posted by: tashi26

hey sorry for butting in your conversation but could not help myself.

I have never understood how can a person love someone like this, make their entire world revolve around that someone, This kind of devotion needs to be cherished and respected but in most cases they are not.

Is such love kind of love worthy of praise ‘yes’ but is it right ‘I don’t think so’.

Shouldnt one love their own self first then someone else. You should never do that kind of disservice to your own self.

And Khushi of this story has learnt her lesson too. She is paying the price of loving others before herself.

It’s just so sad.

Hi Tashi,

You do not have to apologize. Feel free to butt in! I just forget the list of people to tag!

As for your thoughts, I agree! I think that if you constantly put someone else in front of your needs, that is bound to create an imbalance. Eventually ending up with pain, and nothing much else! I think it is also wrong on the other person to make them your everything. It is hard for that person to live up to this kind of devotion as well.

And I mentioned about whether such love is worthy of praise or not, because I think in my opinion praise and what we strive for goes hand in hand. Such love is revered, looked for and I wonder if that is the right thing to do! And if its not right, then should it be praised?

Arpita, looks like whatever I wanted to say, all the readers here have said it all and much more.

I can only say, maybe in the future, Arnav should not just trust people blindly. It is one thing to be very intelligent and very astute in business sense. But street smartness is also needed to survive in this world.

How easily La and her sidekick took Arnav for a ride.

Aman has better street smartness compared to Arnav.

I get Arnav has been feeling guilty on many many accounts but one should not let that fog his thinking capacity.

Why did Arnav not ask La at the new year party about the fake pregnancy?

He has a lot to tell Khushi.

Does Khushi have that kind of patience to hear it out now, particularly after so much has happened?

His each behaviour, we know. But how will he tell Khushi everything, considering he hardly shares anything with anyone. If she listens to all of it, will she be able to forgive him?

Thank you for the lengthy chapter.

Cannot believe the turn of events that have happened in the last 3 chapters.

No, I think she has the same thoughts too.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

Hey Tashi..you are echoing our thoughts. Or did I misunderstand you_know-who

No I don't think so. I think we are all essentially saying the same thing :)

Hey, You! Thanks for tagging me. Maybe you did because you have read some of my previous posts in how Khushi bears some responsibility for the troubles in their marriage. Khushi’s flaws were always deferring to Arnav, always putting him first, never asking for more when she clearly should have. The reasons were reiterated in my earlier posts. When there should have been emotional deep discussions like around the child issue it never really happened.

Because Khushi never passionately voiced her needs, Arnav could only guess. Yes, he understood her quite well but not completely. Arnav was a man who liked control, ran from his feelings so he gladly let it be. In fact he stopped it with his curt behavior. He prided himself on how civilly they behaved with each other. But he got it very, very wrong. Basically, he was bored of a passionless marriage, not in terms necessarily of the physical. He is a man who feels the need to conquer, to solve problems. He says his and Khushi’s marriage was going no where. He was suffocating in domesticity. Yes, he is a very messed up man going through, as Akash said, maybe an early midlife crisis.