Originally posted by: Athz
Today Seerat was on a manipulative spreeš. Her argument was I can't even ask for help from Angad?! Sure didi... That's how we all ask for help. Lie that our moms unwell, then we plan a candlelight dinner and then we ask our benefactor for help! Seeratji is absolutely rightšš. I don't remember Sahiba addressing this either...
As for Angad... I was taken aback when he told his wife.. Come on.. She's ur older sister... cut her some slack.. she's going through something.. Bro wat?! If I were Sahiba I would have really left him then and there.
And even when he confronted Seerat abt it... Not confronted exactly... All he's trying to do is stay away from the woman but he is not really drawing the line... Seerat came to him today and he was like see this and that... And Seerat immediately throws the victim card on his face.. Now I can't ask u for help and all that? And Angad was like let's close the chapter here. Niceeeš„². He could've just told her yaa but not by sneaking into my farmhouse &-&##@! Very disappointed with Angads character... Why would the writers butcher a character like this?! It's so sad.
I havenāt watched the other show that everyone keeps saying TMD is a carbon copy of but based on statistics, resources, and experiences Angad is being the typical man in this situation. This is a classic āmen are from Mars, women are from Venusā situation. The two donāt understand each other. Itās like Sahiba is speaking Mandarin and Angad is speaking Spanish while neither one knows the othersā language. Also, it is so typical for men to take part in physical fights but shy away from verbal fights or discussion with confrontation. Most marriages run into this same argument and itās heartbreaking, but it can be overcome with communication when partners try to understand each other. Neither was trying to understand the other person⦠they were each trying to get their point across. Thatās not how you communicate in marriage. Marriage requires so much effort and comes with many trials.
Another thing Sahiba could say and do later on when the two have calmed down and are not so emotional is show Angad that the same way he was holding her hands to get her to understand him during the bedroom scene was the same way she saw Seerat holding his hands. That distance between the two and physical touch is reserved for couples only. If Sahiba were to hold hands like that with Hansraj in a secluded location, Iām sure Angad would not be happy.
Also, I totally understood why Angad did not want to confront Seerat immediately after Sahiba did and it was actually good that he did not because she would have assumed he was prompted and it would have been less effective. He would have sounded like a trained parrott.
Edited by Aishwarrior - 2 years ago