Originally posted by: Vidhi1989
Mujhe to Show ke saath 2 audience ka reaction bhi funny lagta hai. Kuch bhi kahna hopeless hai.
Show makers ko to misogyny aur melodrama dikhane se fursat nahi hai aur audience bhi mature content ke liye taiyar nahi hai. Udhar Pakistan me Bewafa pati ki baasi kahani hi dikhate rahte hain.
Lekin ye do extreme ends hain, real life ka isse lena dena nahi hota.
Chahe pyar ho ya shadi, kuch bhi real depiction dekhne ko nahi milta.
Pyar do logo ke bitch ho ya love triangle.. usko honesty aur complexity ke saath to dikhate nahi hain.
Anyway... Agar Ghumland ki baat kare to.. Virat se mujhe shuruati problem ye thi ki use Paakhi se aisa koi vaada (toxic) karna hi nahi chahiye tha. Par kiya, to usne bhugta bhi. Pakhi ko khud ye samjhna tha ki wo Virat jaise aadmi se pyar nahi karti balki usse obsessed hai, kyonki pyar aisa toxic nahi hota. Aur 4 din ke Yoga love me aap move on na kar paye, scheme kare, khud ki mental health kharab kare aur kisi aur ki life tabah kare.
Lekin ultimately Virat se sabse badi samasya ye thi ki wo hamesha Sai se ye chahta tha ki wo use samjhe, wo family aur cheezo ke sath adjust kare par wo khud Sai ko samjhna nahi chahta tha. Wo uski jitni bhi care karta tha, usme kahi na kahi "control" ka element mix rahta tha. Kai instances par "Pakhi" ko support karna Virat ki galti nahi thi, balki ye uski decency hi thi. Koi bhi thik thaak aadmi ajnabi aurat ko bhi (jabki Pakhi to uski 'friend' thi, jiske prati Virat ka guilty conscious tha) aise sabke samne badnaam to nahi kar sakta! Pakhi iska fayda uthati thi. Is masale par mai dusro ki soch se sahmat nahi hu. Aap apni patni se kitne loyal hain, ye sabit karne ke liye aapko dusri woman ki dignity ko daanv par lagane ki jarurat nahi!
Anyway... Meri Nazar me Virat problematic tha kyonki usne ek teenage ladki ko apne regressive ghar le aaya, use ek complicated triangle me fansa diya, aur usne Sai ke sath "domestic violence" kiya.
Yaha Domestic Violence ko underline kar rhi hu. Virat ki bewafai masla nahi thi kabhi, Virat ek typical conformist aadmi tha, jisne apni or se kabhi apni Maa aur bahan ke liye kabhi kuch nahi kiya. So... Women ko apni samjh durust karne ki jarurat hai.
Use apni or se jo bhi convienient laga usne wo kiya. So, that is the reason, he was problematic character. Even Sai se uske pyar ka approach bhi bahut problematic tha. Pahle to aap do din ke andar Pakhi ko bhul gye (chalo, aisa ho jata hai, iske liye kisi ko suli par nahi latka sakte) aur Sai se pyar karne Lage par aapse wait nahi hua. Ek 19 saal ki ladki aapke Ghar me Elders ke taane sune, Pakhi didi ki nafrat sahe, domestic work kare aur Medical ki tough padhai kare.. aur usme aapse romance bhi kar le! Jabki she had no experience in relationships. He forced himself on her. And when she rejected him initially, he became emotionally abusive! Aisa pyar hota hai kya ki agar wo return me na mile to aap uske saath misbehave shuru kar doge?
Aur Virat ka ye attitude end tak bana raha. Makers ne ise passion kahkr dikhaya tha.
So meri Nazar me Virat galat tha kyonki wo conformist, insensitive, controlling, domestic abuser tha. Isliye nahi ki usne Paakhi ki kuch galtiyo par parda dala. Ghar me aapka koi close relative aapko private me propose kare to aap use private me hi reject karenge aur yahi sochenge ki mamla aise hi khatm ho jaye kyonki sabke samne aisi koi cheez bata dene se us aurat ki reputation kharab ho jayegi. Aur no decent person would want this to happen. Me neither. Even though I will be enraged to go through this alone. At most I would share this to my spouse. Kyonki use ye sab pata hona chahiye.