Mera Haq, Mera Khoon DT note added Pg 12 - Page 4

Originally posted by: NoraSM

@Bold

I watch episodes of YRKKH on Hotstar, I am not familiar with the show you are talking about.

Thanks

Same here! And I literally have no patience to prove anything to you scene by scene where Dr. Birla was shown to be obsessed with Abhir and when he kidnapped him...

Originally posted by: NoraSM

A parent's first concert is well being of a child, you are telling me that responsible parents who care about their son's well being would ever associate a trauma like this to him? Manjari didn't ask them to traumatize Abhir, it was their decision.

They left the most difficult part of the whole ordeal for Abhir, instead of dealing with Abhimnayu and Manjari and standing with Abhir, they decided to let him deal with burden of accepting a new family, losing old family and being responsible for financial condition of his parents.

Did Akshara or Abhinav acknowledge emotional and mental well being of their son?

They had an easy way out of the situation, Abhir was left to do the heavy lifting

They found themselves without any other alternatives as the child was adamantly refusing to go with Abhimanyu. At that moment, they had to prioritize adhering to the court orders and set their emotions aside. It was an emotionally devastating moment for them when they uttered those hurtful words. If the child had stayed back at the Goenka house, it is highly likely that both Manjari and Abhimanyu would have arrived, causing further drama and chaos.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Same here! And I literally have no patience to prove anything to you scene by scene where Dr. Birla was shown to be obsessed with Abhir and when he kidnapped him...

I don't recall quoting you or asking you to prove anything

Bottom Line is No child in that Birla house can be raised normally......cause nothing about that house is normal. Broken homes like these only give rise to adults wid issues in future. Bright shiny example of it is Abhimanyu himself.

And now I understand why Abhimanyu has so many issues.....well Manjari brought him up. So cant blame the guy. His mother is batshit crazy.

The woman cant be called a Grandmother in the first place. Grandparents are never that selfish and never ever disregard the well being and happiness of their grandchild....which Manjari is doing. Funny people are comparing her actions to Akshara !!!

All Manjari ever has been and will be is ABHIMANYU'S MOTHER. She was neither a mother in law to Akshara , nor the so called mother to Arohi , nor will she ever be a grandmom to either of those kids.

Just having birthrights and blood connections dont make relationships. You have to work and make efforts for it.

Sorry to say....Manjari disgusts me.

Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

They found themselves without any other alternatives as the child was adamantly refusing to go with Abhimanyu. At that moment, they had to prioritize adhering to the court orders and set their emotions aside. It was an emotionally devastating moment for them when they uttered those hurtful words. If the child had stayed back at the Goenka house, it is highly likely that both Manjari and Abhimanyu would have arrived, causing further drama and chaos.

A parent's primary job is to shield their child from pain. Abhimanyu, Abhinav and Akshara all were in a messy situation, Abhimnayu winning put him out of the difficult situation so he was out of the equation

Akshara and Abhinav should have thought about their son's well being before anything else, I don't agree that there is no other alternative than traumatizing your child, this is something a parent would never do not even as a last resort.

But we keep going in circles, you agree with their choices and I do not.

I believe both Manjari and Akshara are the same, I wouldn't want this child with either of those.

Abhinav and Abhimanyu are still better choice for Abhir

You guys continue the discussion 🤗

Originally posted by: NoraSM

A parent's primary job is to shield their child from pain. Abhimanyu, Abhinav and Akshara all were in a messy situation, Abhimnayu winning put him out of the difficult situation so he was out of the equation

Akshara and Abhinav should have thought about their son's well being before anything else, I don't agree that there is no other alternative than traumatizing your child, this is something a parent would never do not even as a last resort.

But we keep going in circles, you agree with their choices and I do not.

I believe both Manjari and Akshara are the same, I wouldn't want this child with either of those.

Abhinav and Abhimanyu are still better choice for Abhir

You guys continue the discussion 🤗

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Akshara had kept this truth away from Abhimanyu after 6 years was because she was scared of exactly what's happening today and nothing else.

She just knows how selfish and obsessed that man is, and how toxic is Birla House for anyone. As long as he stayed in his limits, I never saw Akshara objecting any rishta between Abhimanyu and Abhir.

Truth is that Abhimanyu has always been extreme in his ways that a normal person wouldn't be. He KIDNAPPED his own child rather than meeting and wishing him was one example.

And what Manjiri is doing is worst! And inspite of not wanting to support Mahima's dumb agends of uniting Parth-Sehfali, I do agree that Manjiri is totally screwing up life of all children in the toxic environment. Akshara gave all the valid points that she and her family stays in Kasauli, Abhir wants to stay there... That kid keeps begging his stupid parents (AkshNav), but Dr. Birla and his mother is just ignoring his child's pain.

The only stupid thing here is obsession of both Akshu and Manjiri fighting for having Nav and Manyu as fathers name where as none of those two are affected. All both men need at this point is just recognition of being Abhir's father...

Indeed, Akshara was well aware of Abhimanyu and Manjari's selfishness and egoistic nature. She and Abhinav made attempts to reach out to Abhimanyu six years ago, but their efforts proved futile. Despite that, Abhimanyu had threatened Akshara, vowing to do everything in his power to take the child away. All that mattered to Manjari and Abhimanyu were their rights, disregarding the well-being of the child.

Abhimanyu's act of taking Abhir away on his birthday without permission is not only morally questionable but also illegal. Akshara deserves admiration for her strength in voicing the right and valid points to Manjari, who incessantly repeated the word 'Haq' in an angry manner. It appears as though Manjari brought Abhir home solely to satisfy her own ego. Now, she is disregarding the child's feelings and raising him in a toxic and chaotic environment where drama thrives.

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

when did abhinav called AbhiManyu? Wasn't that abhimanyu who called akshara and abhinav jee revealed his secret of being a superman to him?

Yup

Abhimanyu called Akshara but he is the toxic obsessive parent after getting a restraining order from Akshara's side then putting custody case on hold, which was reopened by Akshara's family

What can one do?

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

I want Mahima’s words to come true and this paagal aurat needs to stay alone ,she don’t deserve to stay with anyone except her ladla! Kaunsa Haq? How will a grandmother have more rights than a mother? Court haven’t given verdict in her favour ,it’s AbM who won the case on the basis of money! The kid is with her in her house ,she doesn’t care abt his happiness or his mental health all she cares is Haq n Khoon n her son’s happiness !

In this world a mother will have more haq than anyone! That the fact and no one or no court can change that fact!

Mahima's words rang true, highlighting the need for Manjari to confront the harsh reality. As Mahima rightly pointed out, the child is experiencing stress and confusion due to being caught between two homes. Unfortunately, his feelings and choices are being disregarded. Manjari herself is under immense stress, unable to fully enjoy her role as Abhir's grandmother due to the ongoing unrest. It's crucial for the child to grow up in a peaceful and happy environment, as it will significantly impact his development. Merely winning the legal case does not grant Manjari the ability to win Abhir's heart while disregarding his choices and happiness. As Mahima pointed out, Abhimanyu complies with Manjari's stubborn demands.