Single Mom Era is old thing for Era where mom gets super papa. - Page 4

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

The topic isn't about Bio Vs. Non Bio dad and even doctor has called Abhir a miracle child...

What do you think is definition of this term?

By any chance did you think that it defines baby born without having intimate relationship? Urf having capital Sex in your language?

And AkshNav may or may not have Biological babies... Usse humein kya?

What if she is dead on that day meeting an accident or while giving birth to Abhir

I can go on to argue and may i remind you that Bade Papa went behind her, came back and ably shut off Abhimanyu to keep himself away from her; she was in touch with Goenkas, she did tell on the open call that she is married but hid the truth of birth again. With what haq will Manjari confront her after she married a road side stranger.

Later when confronted with truth, she repeatedly insulted abhimanyu "you can be docman..., mausa or whatever but i will not allow you to be a dad" even yesterday episode, she was shocked that Abhir called him "dada" again dialogue "you can be dada but not father" : if this is not a heartless mother talking then i don't know what is.

Anyway, am glad that the legal system gave that chance to be a father to Abhimanyu atleast for a few days / weeks.

NOTE Post edited by YRKKH DT to remove portion breaking rules

I can do that too , I don’t need reminders I very well know what happened ! Acha BO ne bhol diya tho chip chap chala gaya,shaadi di vakth tho he was fighting with BP, abh kya hua? Conveniently skipping 7 months part and going starlight to marriage? What’s MJ’s prob if she marries a stranger? Mr.selfish Birla is a stranger too when he 1st met Ak! Anyway coming to the point 7 months is a very long time to realise their mistake and chk for her which they never did!

He is still engaged to Ar so that might be her context of saying Maasa ! Manyu always demanded and threatened her to take the kid away, so that could be her reaction and she is scared to lose the kid too! Once he stayed with them in kasauli both were in good terms of not Mj and BP destroyed everything!

Anyway he own the case only on the basis of money and I feel his bond with Abhir is much better before now that spark is missing !
I am not sure sure if they will cliff off Manyu as u wanted ,but yeah if they can bring Abhinav to fetch the Trp’s (RS’s words,not mine )they can do anything !

I don’t know y people still have this stereotype mentality that FL should be single mon and independent when ML kicks her out and insults her and leave her in most low point of life and she has to be single….ML can get new wife/fiancée/ mom pressurised relationship with other woman…after years FL should be single mom and ML accidentally mets her and he asks sorry for misunderstanding she has to run back to him like spineless doormat…

I really appreciate YRKKH team for breaking that stereotypes and made FL to move on and have a happy family than running back to her ex….but some people can’t realise it 2020s not 1990s…people have maturity to break stereotypical mentality soo grow up and break that fairy tales…

Ak character was mature after leap she realised finally life is not fairy tale and 2 min maggi noodles..it’s life which has ups and downs where both partners should be mature enough to compromise or adjust or have calm mind to handle anything…she has seen him as friend and baby father for years and finally realised he will not hurt her in anger or leave her and most importantly loves her enough to give her space and her to be her own person…that’s y they lived in kasuli for years with little financial support for years happyly

The problem isn't that the FL moved on; the problem is mainly in how all of this was executed. They changed tracks midway instead of deciding from before. They could have shown Ak actually moving on, becoming friends with Nav, slowly having a relationship, and then deciding to get married. It could be a wonderful second love story that has been shown in other shows too. But the way they showed Ak and Nav at the beginning of this leap was really bad. Ak was in her anger mode, barely even talked to Nav beyond household stuff, and just kept to herself basically. Their "romance" got kickstarted by Abhi's entry, which is just wrong and adds to the narrative that she is doing everything for revenge.

The second point is about the kid. Obviously, she should have informed. Yes, a kid wanting a father's love is a trope, but that is also the reality. If any kid knows that he has a biological father out there who he hasn't met, ofc he will want to meet him. And we don't live in the 1950s, where a kid needs a "father's name." The narrative that other kids make fun of this kid and stuff is so old school. She can totally have Nav form a nice bond with the kid, even get married to him, etc. But there is absolutely no need to erase the biological father like this completely. The kid also has rights, and it includes knowing his heritage, knowing his father, and all of that, which is finally happening now.

Esp in a story where we have an example of a kid having fatherly love without the father tag involved. Ruhi is Abhir's age, knows about her real father, and has her poppy, who loves her.

It could be a wonderful second love story that has been shown in other shows too.

Their "romance" got kickstarted by Abhi's entry, which is just wrong and adds to the narrative that she is doing everything for revenge.

The second point is about the kid. Obviously, she should have informed.

She can totally have Nav form a nice bond with the kid, even get married to him, etc. But there is absolutely no need to erase the biological father like this completely.

The kid also has rights, and it includes knowing his heritage, knowing his father, and all of that, which is finally happening now.

Thank you 👍🏼 You have articulated very well. Am in agreement with your various points and especially those i copied and highlighted. If we talk about this new millennia which mother hides a child from a biological father and extracted revenge by erasing his very existence. The fact is, the Indian constitution allows the mother to put her own name as initials for school admission purposes if she wants. But she has to reveal the dad's identity to the child.

That's a very wild writing and am sure some way or the other the Channel questioned this (most likely after complaints from viewers and ethics watchers) and that's why corrective action was necessitated by giving custody to Abhimanyu. We can see the jump in the trp too this week. It can go down depending on bland narrative, but that we will deal when it comes to it.

Now she can fight for her rights because that is a mother's basic right.

Viji

This is my perspective on the matter. Akshara may have made some mistakes, but Abhimanyu's refusal to listen to her side of the story and asking her to leave was a much bigger mistake. His handling of her vulnerable state was without any empathy. Despite her attempts to reach out to him, he disregarded her. When she had the child, only Abhinav stood by her side.

She shouldn't be expected to publicly announce on the radio or a mic about her whereabouts and well-being. She made her efforts, and therefore, she had the right to move on without owing anyone explanations or revelations.

We have tried saying this on and on over many times.. But people say and that abhimanyu also says that she must have kept on trying even when she was at that labour table.. How stupid.. 🥶

Originally posted by: Sukriti4u

This is my perspective on the matter. Akshara may have made some mistakes, but Abhimanyu's refusal to listen to her side of the story and asking her to leave was a much bigger mistake. Despite her attempts to reach out to him, he disregarded her. When she had the child, only Abhinav stood by her side.

She shouldn't be expected to publicly announce on the radio or a mic about her whereabouts and well-being. She made her efforts, and therefore, she had the right to move on without owing anyone explanations or revelations.

That's just it. It is a matter of perspective, so you can't say that Abhi's mistake is a bigger mistake or a smaller mistake. Both are mistakes. The only difference is in who has taken responsibility and who hasn't. Abhi has had a realization, decided to be a better person, accepted his mistakes, etc. He also only brought up the issue of the calls like once and, even then said he recognizes his mistake, but she could have tried harder. On the other hand, Ak has stuck by her mistakes at every turn. At every point, her mistake is either not a mistake at all or is small, and so people's reactions to them are wrong, not hers.

I supported her completely for not informing Abhi....until he was dying. At that point, the situation changes, and she should have realized that he needs to be told so at the very least, he can have some chance of forming a bond with his son. Since then, everything she has done has been wrong. Each and every step. Trying to hide stuff from Abhi, who was Abhir's doctor, repeatedly saying Abhi is not the father, blocking access to Abhir, perfect family delusions, asking Abhi to remain docman for life, etc.

The point is Abhi made a mistake and has had his punishment too. None of this means Abhir needs to be punished like this. And Ak needs to have some realization of her own mistakes, too instead of just deflecting all the time.