Originally posted by: Sukriti4u
While it's true that Abhimanyu went through a difficult time after his brother's death, it doesn't excuse his abandonment of Akshara during her own vulnerable state. His grief doesn't justify his actions towards her. Akshara was dealing with multiple losses, including the death of her brother and their unborn child. She needed support and understanding from her husband, but instead, he chose to distance himself with resentment.
Regarding the adjustment of Abhinav, it's important to remember that healing and acceptance take time. Just because a few months have passed since they reconnected doesn't mean that Abhinav should be completely adjusted by now. Emotions are complex, and it's natural for him to feel hurt and conflicted after being with Akshara,Abhir for six years and then seeing Abhir bond with Abhimanyu and would feel he is loosing some degree of importance.
As for Akshara's behavior, it's understandable that she may have moments of anger or frustration when it comes to Abhir's relationship with Abhimanyu. She has been trying to move forward and create a new life for herself and her son. People can have fun banter and still struggle with unresolved emotions and trust issues.
While Abhimanyu may have had some monologues and accepted his own mistakes, it's important for him to genuinely apologize to Akshara and take responsibility for his actions. It's not just about wanting to be a part of his son's life; it's about acknowledging the pain he caused Akshara and actively working towards rebuilding trust.
While the option of simplifying the truth for Abhir by saying they had a fight and moved on may seem appealing, it's important to consider the long-term consequences. Children can sense when something is being hidden, and discovering the truth later on may lead to feelings of betrayal. By telling Abhir the whole truth in an age-appropriate manner, it allows him to understand relationships, promotes honesty, and models healthy communication. Addressing the truth proactively creates a supportive environment and fosters stronger family bonds.
In short I would say, while everyone involved may have experienced pain and loss, it's important to recognize that Abhimanyu's abandonment of Akshara during her vulnerable state was a significant betrayal.
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