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Yaar main mudda toh yahi hai ki she didn't wait around for best surgeon varna usse pregnancy ka batake agar Abhinav se shaadi karti toh bhi galiyan hi padti ki bete ke happy family ke liye murderer hone ke false accusation kyon nahi sahe

Yeah bro, the whole argument is pointless.

People expect her to go back to a household that ousted her at her weakest moments, and behave like nothing ever happened, just so the ML and his selfish mother can blame her at every instance possible.

Or they want that upon declining to go back to the Birlas, while at the same time having revealed existence of a son, they want her to lose the child early on itself, even taking away the 6 years from her that she otherwise spent with her child?

Way too convenient for people to demand things like that, but in all honesty Abhim’s pain was a craft of his own creation. Did he deserve Ak post whatever he did to her? So it would have been right for Ak to not go back, that’s for sure. Now if Ak didn’t go back, would they have left her in peace, without adding the fear in her life to lose a child? They anyways snatched the child the first instance they got, so I don’t they wouldn’t have left a chance to do the same earlier too, if Ak was honest 6 years ago.

If people are okay with Abhim being selfish for his rights, why is Ak not allowed to be selfish for her own?

Originally posted by: India_TV

i find that akshu taking a decision to be away from gorillas was the wisest decison...it take courage to move away at that stage...but then she had lost everything....

the goenkas had always been biased towards arohi...even when she returned after 6 years for Mimi's bday...makers had made it clear how akshu was shouted at by manjari...and how goenkas and abhi were mum.....

staying at birla house after divorce was not possible....and if akshu stayed at geonkas...most likely she would not have had abhir with her....she would had miscarried....the trauma that she was in....

Yes very true.. As much as they wanted to b impartial they had been partial towards Akshu

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Yeah bro, the whole argument is pointless.

People expect her to go back to a household that ousted her at her weakest moments, and behave like nothing ever happened, just so the ML and his selfish mother can blame her at every instance possible.

Or they want that upon declining to go back to the Birlas, while at the same time having revealed existence of a son, they want her to lose the child early on itself, even taking away the 6 years from her that she otherwise spent with her child?

Way too convenient for people to demand things like that, but in all honesty Abhim’s pain was a craft of his own creation. Did he deserve Ak post whatever he did to her? So it would have been right for Ak to not go back, that’s for sure. Now if Ak didn’t go back, would they have left her in peace, without adding the fear in her life to lose a child? They anyways snatched the child the first instance they got, so I don’t they wouldn’t have left a chance to do the same earlier too, if Ak was honest 6 years ago.

If people are okay with Abhim being selfish for his rights, why is Ak not allowed to be selfish for her own?

True but the matter of fact is Abhinav and Akshara were never that selfish.. Yes Akshara too has right to b selfish to protect her own small sharma family.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

You know something,

I think main issue in general is Akshara moving on with a so-called stranger, whom btw, Akshara knew more than Abhimanyu before marriage.

Had she been single mom like Sai or Naira, she would have probably be hailed.

I think it's no secret that Birla house environment isn't favorable for child's growth. But it would have been worse had Akshu returned to Birla house after knowing about her pregnancy.

Yes, she would have been mistreated and only reason why Abhimanyu is now emotional about Akshara is because she has moved on! He didn't care for her for past six years, never tried finding out about her and her well being. He continued being lonely (no doubt) but he had his family, he had Manjiri and her birthday, he had opportunity to be by Arohi during her pregnancy and all. But it was wrong... Very wrong for Akshara to trust a stranger when her own family deserted her. Abhimanyu was probably heartbroken on knowing Akshara has remarried and he was miserable on realizing she is has a family - that's when it seemed he had realized he lost her. Tab tak he didn't care for those months.

What was worst is that when he saw her truly very happy with Abhinav and Abhir, Manjiri and Abhimanyu couldn't just take it. He went on to propose to her and demand she be back with him.

All that happened only and only because she was happily married and had a family. Had it not been the case, she may still be treated horribly and blamed for Neil's and child's death!

And Manjari's problem was also that Akshara is happily married. Otherwise, had Akshara been single, she would have gladly snatched Abhir from her and got AbRohi married without a second thought.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

You know something,

I think main issue in general is Akshara moving on with a so-called stranger, whom btw, Akshara knew more than Abhimanyu before marriage.

Had she been single mom like Sai or Naira, she would have probably be hailed.

I think it's no secret that Birla house environment isn't favorable for child's growth. But it would have been worse had Akshu returned to Birla house after knowing about her pregnancy.

Yes, she would have been mistreated and only reason why Abhimanyu is now emotional about Akshara is because she has moved on! He didn't care for her for past six years, never tried finding out about her and her well being. He continued being lonely (no doubt) but he had his family, he had Manjiri and her birthday, he had opportunity to be by Arohi during her pregnancy and all. But it was wrong... Very wrong for Akshara to trust a stranger when her own family deserted her. Abhimanyu was probably heartbroken on knowing Akshara has remarried and he was miserable on realizing she is has a family - that's when it seemed he had realized he lost her. Tab tak he didn't care for those months.

What was worst is that when he saw her truly very happy with Abhinav and Abhir, Manjiri and Abhimanyu couldn't just take it. He went on to propose to her and demand she be back with him.

All that happened only and only because she was happily married and had a family. Had it not been the case, she may still be treated horribly and blamed for Neil's and child's death!

Nope. People literally used to abuse Sai and Naira for "depriving a child of their father's love". Ab idhar woh bolne ko nahi mila, toh yeh kaha Jaa Raha hai