Ok Let's Assume

Let's Assume, after getting ousted from home, and AK found out about Pregnancy even though Both Abhimanyu and Manjri had literally began hating her she still goes to them and she says of pregnancy, begs them to let her stay and they let her stay with them..How would had been Abhir's childhood and AK's life?

1) Abhir would had been pampered a lot, what would he also feel along the way, why is my mom not respected ? Has she really committed the murders dad is accusing her of?

2) Though they would try to show normalcy in front of kids but Manjri, Abhimanyu and Arohi would had made life of Akshu a hell by the taunts and constant accusations.

3) Though Akshu would b Abhir's mom, yet all his decisions must had been taken by Abhimanyu and Manjri only and she would had been considered just an extra person.

4) Akshu would had completely brokenand lost the confidence in herself and she would feel she deserves all this, but in reality she doesn't.

So what would had been impact on Abhir's mind witnessing all these things? Why would had Akshara suffered? Just because it would still had been Abhira, really we wanted Abhira like this? I remember when Lil Naira left home, yes Naitik was angry but he never disrespected Akshara or behaved pathetically with her.. Even during Bhabhimaa's ousting of Akshara, he went with her and supported her throughtout

So I'm just glad Abhir had normal happy,loving childhood at Kasauli, yes he might not had his room, richness but he had loving parents and he also witnessed how his parents respected each other.And yes that's exactly how a life partner should be!!! Let's not glamourize weak FL of ITV...

I will comment on post later... What a beautiful post! 😛

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

So I'm just glad Abhir had normal happy,loving childhood at Kasauli, yes he might not had his room, richness but he had loving parents and he also witnessed how his parents respected each other.And yes that's exactly how a life partner should be!!! Let's not glamourize weak FL of ITV...

i think it takes a lot of courage to move away and out from toxicity...and akshu took that step...she is no where weak....

jab abhi ko aise divorce dene mein koi sharm/regret feel nahi hua...for 6 long years,...to i dont think ki koi pyaar tha bhi...

akshu seems to be toy for abhi...who he wanted and wants to use and throw at his will...but akshu did not let tis happen by marrying abhinav...and that made abhi and his mamma angry...😂

abhir got a wonderful childhood....apna naam yaad rahe na rahe use...apne papa abhinav ka bina soche hi bol deta hai...

Akshara would have become another Manjari aided and abetted by Abhimanyu and the real Manjari. It’s a blessing in disguise for Akshara that it never came to mind of Abhimanyu to seek out how she was doing in seclusion, otherwise her life would have become living hell.

Ummm that was literally in my mind and i wanted to make a thread 😱😲😳we think alike😍

You know something,

I think main issue in general is Akshara moving on with a so-called stranger, whom btw, Akshara knew more than Abhimanyu before marriage.

Had she been single mom like Sai or Naira, she would have probably be hailed.

I think it's no secret that Birla house environment isn't favorable for child's growth. But it would have been worse had Akshu returned to Birla house after knowing about her pregnancy.

Yes, she would have been mistreated and only reason why Abhimanyu is now emotional about Akshara is because she has moved on! He didn't care for her for past six years, never tried finding out about her and her well being. He continued being lonely (no doubt) but he had his family, he had Manjiri and her birthday, he had opportunity to be by Arohi during her pregnancy and all. But it was wrong... Very wrong for Akshara to trust a stranger when her own family deserted her. Abhimanyu was probably heartbroken on knowing Akshara has remarried and he was miserable on realizing she is has a family - that's when it seemed he had realized he lost her. Tab tak he didn't care for those months.

What was worst is that when he saw her truly very happy with Abhinav and Abhir, Manjiri and Abhimanyu couldn't just take it. He went on to propose to her and demand she be back with him.

All that happened only and only because she was happily married and had a family. Had it not been the case, she may still be treated horribly and blamed for Neil's and child's death!

She would be like Manjhiri..dari dari,sirf baccho ko paalne ke liye.. everyone would've hated her in she was living with them..arohi for loosing neil and seeing the culprit (according to them) Infront of her everyday.Manjhiri would've hated her an along with her chele chapate.. Abhimanyu would've been indifferent to her, always make her feel guilty..they would've look down upon her, she's not a doctor too..abhir would've seen all this and start hating Abhimanyu like abhi hated harsh.. minus the physical violence,her condition would've been same.. in short,Akshara saved Abhir from a damaged, dysfunctional,toxic family..Gave him a happy, healthy childhood.. whatever she did,she did it for her baby.. and she was never wrong.. a man who couldn't protect his dead baby's mother and ill treated her, don't deserve the baby's love

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

You know something,

I think main issue in general is Akshara moving on with a so-called stranger, whom btw, Akshara knew more than Abhimanyu before marriage.

Had she been single mom like Sai or Naira, she would have probably be hailed.

I think it's no secret that Birla house environment isn't favorable for child's growth. But it would have been worse had Akshu returned to Birla house after knowing about her pregnancy.

Yes, she would have been mistreated and only reason why Abhimanyu is now emotional about Akshara is because she has moved on! He didn't care for her for past six years, never tried finding out about her and her well being. He continued being lonely (no doubt) but he had his family, he had Manjiri and her birthday, he had opportunity to be by Arohi during her pregnancy and all. But it was wrong... Very wrong for Akshara to trust a stranger when her own family deserted her. Abhimanyu was probably heartbroken on knowing Akshara has remarried and he was miserable on realizing she is has a family - that's when it seemed he had realized he lost her. Tab tak he didn't care for those months.

What was worst is that when he saw her truly very happy with Abhinav and Abhir, Manjiri and Abhimanyu couldn't just take it. He went on to propose to her and demand she be back with him.

All that happened only and only because she was happily married and had a family. Had it not been the case, she may still be treated horribly and blamed for Neil's and child's death!

Till Abhinav does spider man stunts he is stranger to Akshara

She'd have no agency to speak for Abhir and would have to live as a third-party in her own child's life. Also, Abhir would become another Abhimanyu.

The main issue with AbhiM is his I me myself chant and victim mentality. Before first leap, 'mera pyaar, meri Ma, meri family, when he sent divorce papers first time and Akshara accepted it..he went into self victimization mode. Even in pregnancy issue, it was mostly about what'll happen to him if Akshu is gone. It was pathetic to see Akshu begging him and him taking her for abortion against her wish. After kicking her out he didn't think once what might happen to her. She was in her lowest physically, mentally. Anything could happen to her. Even after all this, she called him. Heck, she was calling for him in pain in the hospital too. She practically fought every damn thing to give a life to Abhir, nurture him in her best possible way. I like Abhinav and Abhir bond more but no one can refute that Abhir is Akshara's life. She lived for him after all those things. And he has snatched that life now. Again in his I, me, myself mode. He doesn't have the capability to understand that a 6 year old child cannot live without his mother. He expects Abhir to understand that his 40 year biological father cannot live without his mother and family, so he'll have to uproot his life now. It's beyond pathetic at this point.

Peepal ke ped par ulta latakne wale ko spiderman nahi betal kahte hai. Fact.