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Posted: 2 years ago
#21

My point here is not that they were perfect or something but they weren't that bad considering goenka siblings.

Now years later with countless things happened we see Goenka Siblings finally accepting eachother with open heart but what happened to make them realise is a death of a person.

Who was lively even after his struggles at Birla house, Abhimanyu's only friend. even when they fight they resolved it too asap.

They even fight coz of aarohi so the family which was anyway hanging by the thread is now completely destroyed coz that thread was cut by the two sisters one intentionally and one by mistake. If you think about it.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: chaipaani


Hey that's why i didn't mention Anisha. It was on her. But rest of the things were ignited by the dysfunctionality between goenka siblings.


Also Parth post leap was on Parth not on others so didn't mention it

I did not mention Parth post leap, this is Parth’s situation since forever. Even Pre leap Mahima-Anand pressured him a lot to join the hospital and compared him with Abhim. He never talked with his siblings about the pressure he was feeling. Even his wife was kinda toxic to him because her over achiever attitude and his lack of interest attitude. Neil issue is also pre leap. Its his childhood afterall. Abhim anger issue is also pre-Goenka entrance, as he is introduced itself to the story as an angry young man who dies not believe in love. So these issues were present for a long time, and someday or the other were supposed to show up and bite them, doesn’t matter Goenkas aate ya nhi inki life mein. Only not at all affect person by the Birla dysfunctionality would be Nishtha, lol, becauae she was too young, but with the combo of an overachieving duo as her parents, uska future bhi same hi hota, lol
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: chaipaani

My point here is not that they were perfect or something but they weren't that bad considering goenka siblings.

Now years later with countless things happened we see Goenka Siblings finally accepting eachother with open heart but what happened to make them realise is a death of a person.

Who was lively even after his struggles at Birla house, Abhimanyu's only friend. even when they fight they resolved it too asap.

They even fight coz of aarohi so the family which was anyway hanging by the thread is now completely destroyed coz that thread was cut by the two sisters one intentionally and one by mistake. If you think about it.

I don’t think the Goenk sinlings ka bond is at the cost of Neil. Neil’s did not really play any role in this whole story. Its just them maturing post having kids. Arohi does not want to stay resentful because her focus has shifted to Roohi and her priority is giving Roohi a good life. Akshara is no more behind Arohi seeking her love, because she has a family now to care for. Kairav ka kya hi tha pehle bhi. Ak was always there for Kairav, for example the Anisha fiasco, Kairav was overly protective of his sisters, Arohi also showed to have careda tiny-miny bit for Ak, so its not like they did not have a bond at all. Birla siblings also impacted Goenka siblings in some way or the other. Abhim to Ak-Arohi relationship by deciding to marry Ak then post her rejection to Arohi then post knowing about Ak’s love back to Ak. He could have easily said no to Ar, and gotten some other rishta instead if he was marrying only for his mother, still. Does it mean Ar-Ak relation turned sour because of him? No, he just ignited it. No matter what if we talk about Birla siblings can’t ignore Anisha, she was part of the family. She destroyed Kairav to the bits, giving him anxiety and depression and trauma to hold onto for years. And though Abhim tried mending his doings later, he also added salt to the pain initially. He literally used his power to defame the Goenkas by humiliating them in front of the media. If thats not toxic what is? Here to I can’t even say the Birla siblings did not directly hurt the Goenkas and break them apart. Parth hid the evidences was the icing on the cake. I am only bringing all this because Goenkas were mentioned. And as I initially alluded, the family was hanging by a thread because of their dysfunctionality prior to Goenkas ka entrance and does not matter wo koun hote, Goenkas ya koi aur, they would have suffered the same fate. With so many ongoing lies within the family, with kids going through constant pressure, with abusive dads and everything nobody could really save the bond anyways.
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Posted: 2 years ago
#24

The reason why goenka sisters are getting along with each other is not because they have matured over the years , but because of the fact that Arohi now has no reason to be insecure from akshara.




All their fights were the outcome of the insecurity and unhealthy competition that arohi had with akshara.




Presently , akshara has nothing which arohi cares to be insecure about . Akshara is financially weak , got abhinav as husband who is not the kind of man arohi would go gaga over , doesn't have a bright career to be proud about and lastly she is living away from goenkas and arohi.




No matter how much they act like besties , they still can't live peacefully with each other for a long time . Arohi will support akshara till it serves her interests.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Abhimanyu and Akshara coming together was the biggest mistake of their lives. It's like they cursed each others' families in a way. Not just a bad marriage but bad omen.


In fact if Arohi wasnt turned into an outright villain, but with her traits, was actually a grey character along with Abhimanyu, who was meant to a suljha hua grey character.. They would had a much better marriage, maybe not instant love.


Arohi and Abhimanyu were selfish in love and had no mahaanta bone in their bodies, they matched even when they fought. Takkar. They was conflict. They also had the academic enemies to lovers trope. DKP should have given both the jodis a fair chance and not turn one into a villain.


Abhimanyu should have mended the sisters' bond rather than ruining it further. It never gave rishta vibes at all.

Just a lot of lost opportunities. Abhimanyu and Akshara were so mismatched. Am glad they acknowledged it within the show that they fell in love with the idea of love and got married without really knowing each other and it was quite evident how they didn't agree on very important things. You look at Akshara-Naitik, Kartik-Naira, and then you look at Abhimanyu-Akshara and its not the same. Maybe it was the characterization, maybe storytelling. It was a mismatch. Gen 3 didn't click with me at all.

but akshara is perfect with abhinav..so she found her soulmate. 😍
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: R.G.C

I agree Goenkas were toxic too, but my point is that Birlas were already dealing with internal issues, just that they got used to live a certain way and never cared about mending things. Though the Birla siblings seemed to have a better bond, because they did not have an Arohi plotting all the time, or a Kairav asking his one sister to leave for another, still the Birla siblings did not stand for each other in every moment, and the examples I have mentioned in the previous comment. So it was already dysfunctional for Birlas, if it was not Kairav for Anisha, would have been someone else, as she died because of her own mistakes. She was the unstable one who cheated and then emotionally blackmailed Kairav, so why should we blame Kairav of the fate that she finally ended up with. About Neil, if it was not Ak or Arohi, still his truth would have been hidden. If people think Ak did wrong with Abhi and Abhir for hiding the truth, then the same thing happened with Neil too. At least Abhir was not made to feel that he is adopted and out of place. So it was Manjari wronging him, not the Goenka siblings in the first place. Yes, later on Arohi manipulated and married him, all that I can count as her trying to destroy Neil, but that is a separate topic. My point is that despite all that he was already living a lie and was in that kind of position because of the Birlas themselves, but just got used to living that way. Nobody stood for Parth and his passion and he did not seem to talk it out with any of the siblings either. The family was dysfunctional way before the entrance of the Goenkas in their life. They did not need the Goenkas, rather any small incident or any other family/person could have easily destroyed this hoax of a good family or bond, as these issues were of their own making and no outsider was responsible for the same. The outsiders would have just acted as the catalyst, ab wo Goenkas hote ya koi aur does not matter.

the birlas are a toxic messed up unhappy bunch of people..that Just live together.. they don’t give off any family vibes..everyone does their own thing in that house. There hasn’t been one happy marriage there..mahima and anand are still together..but they are a cold couple who seem to have an understanding not a happy loving..marriage. The goenkas sisters had the misfortune of getting involved in that toxic family. The writers also realised that..that’s why the birlas are being written off…kairav got saved ..from that family..Naira has been watching over her son 😇. Akshara found her soulmate with abhinav.’ Only poor Arohi is still in limbo 😐
Posted: 2 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: Indira1211

the birlas are a toxic messed up unhappy bunch of people..that Just live together.. they don’t give off any family vibes..everyone does their own thing in that house. There hasn’t been one happy marriage there..mahima and anand are still together..but they are a cold couple who seem to have an understanding not a happy loving..marriage. The goenkas sisters had the misfortune of getting involved in that toxic family. The writers also realised that..that’s why the birlas are being written off…kairav got saved ..from that family..Naira has been watching over her son 😇. Akshara found her soulmate with abhinav.’ Only poor Arohi is still in limbo 😐


Poor Aarohi once left her sister to die on road.

Poor Aarohi once took unprescribed medicine and hit someone's mother and left

Poor Aarohi gave a child wrong medicine

Poor Aarohi exchange information about her loving brother in return of her licence

Poor aarohi once ruined AK ka audition

Poor Aarohi once blamed Ak for everything sorry countless times

Poor Aarohi schemed against the newly weds

Poor aarohi married for money and power


Lag rha hai likhte hi chale jaungi par khtm nahi hoga

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: chaipaani


Poor Aarohi once left her sister to die on road.

Poor Aarohi once took unprescribed medicine and hit someone's mother and left

Poor Aarohi gave a child wrong medicine

Poor Aarohi exchange information about her loving brother in return of her licence

Poor aarohi once ruined AK ka audition

Poor Aarohi once blamed Ak for everything sorry countless times

Poor Aarohi schemed against the newly weds

Poor aarohi married for money and power


Lag rha hai likhte hi chale jaungi par khtm nahi hoga

yes but she’s changed now ,.but manjeri and the rest of the birlas are still the same…toxic sick people 🤷🏻‍♀️👍 mother and son trying to break up aksharas family..again
Edited by Indira1211 - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes but she’s changed now ,.but manjeri and the rest of the birlas are still the same…toxic sick people 🤷🏻‍♀️👍 mother and son trying to break up aksharas family..again


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Posted: 2 years ago
#30

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