Akshara Manipulative for next story

Its good Akshara has moved on happily in her relationship, she felt her relationship with Abhimanyu to be toxic which gives her full rights to move on and be happy, alone or with someone else is her decision purely. But the way makers are showing Abhinav as Abhir's father but Akshara as his wife is where I am not liking it. She is barely attuned to her child's needs, his illness, his stress, his search. She calls him a smart child, but then figures she told him I'll tell later and he won't try to find out himself. And when she is being told by someone, instead of saying let me observe my child and if what you said is true, I'll talk to him, she gaslights the person and cares more about what Abhinav would feel. Her child is allowed to be uncomfortable but her husband isn't, so clearly, he is more important. She wants Abhir because he completes the happy family, and she gets to do thu thu thu. They barely show her with Abhir, in fact all important interactions are given to Abhinav to make him centre of Abhir's world.

It comes off as she has made sure Abhir gives more important to Abhinav than her so that when he finds out truth also, he won't want to leave Abhinav and she will still keep her happy family and nobody will call her out for not letting Abhir be with Abhimanyu. If they took the story there now, at least her complete detachment from her son's feelings would make sense!

Abhir is fit and find now.. she don't have to be glued to him.. right now abhinav has lost his mind and she needs to look out for him..abhir is curious and just trying to find rwp in silly ways..not that serious..also about abhir always being with nav more then AK, then ruhi ko bhi arohi,apne MAA se jeyada apne Chachu/poppy ke saath dikhaya jata hain.. jaise uske poppy hi sab karte hain,maa ko kuch nehi pata ruhi ke bareme.. dono side se father ko highlight kiya.. ak ki first priority abhir hi tha humesha..

the way Sharmas have brought up Abhir is commendable...

the neighbours had been praising him and his parvarish...when manjari was really angry as to y he was not referred as birla...

he has been shown as a happy and contented child..who loves his parents.....

Aur kya chahiye?

The entire narrative has become about Abhinav now and they have not spared even Akshara to make it his story after leap.

All her POV has been shifted to the character who helped her during her difficult times.

Agree that the parents have instilled good values in Abhir. But, he is a 6 yr old child. All he should be doing at this age is playing, eating, sleeping, enjoying his life. But here, he is made to understand his parents' financial situation, he is made to understand that his papa is bhola and can be taken advantage of, he is made to sell jams in schools, he is taught to hide his emotions and lie if needed.

And at the end, the mother of this child is only bothered about how the father is feeling.. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

The fact about Abhir understanding the financial condition, I cant fully agree that he shouldn't know. Yes not the extent, but him having an idea does make sure he doesn't wish for more he can get at this stage. But beyond that, they have made the narrative about Abhinav and in trying to do that, Akshara seems not in tune with her son at all.

Abhir had an amazing upbringing, he is an empathetic smart little boy, but that doesn't mean that his mother assumes him to be mature enough to regulate his emotions at this stage, when his "father", both in this case, can't at the age they are also. One gets angry and impulsive while the other starts crying and becomes bechara. Akshara caring only about Abhinav's feelings in the whole thing, not Abhimanyu's (which she is allowed to ignore since she "hates" him and he is her "abuser"), not Abhir's, who is supposed to be HER miracle baby, and not even her own. She has never voiced how she feels about her child knowing the truth, it's all about Abhinav toot jaenge, Abhinav ko bura lagega.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

The fact about Abhir understanding the financial condition, I cant fully agree that he shouldn't know. Yes not the extent, but him having an idea does make sure he doesn't wish for more he can get at this stage. But beyond that, they have made the narrative about Abhinav and in trying to do that, Akshara seems not in tune with her son at all.

Abhir had an amazing upbringing, he is an empathetic smart little boy, but that doesn't mean that his mother assumes him to be mature enough to regulate his emotions at this stage, when his "father", both in this case, can't at the age they are also. One gets angry and impulsive while the other starts crying and becomes bechara. Akshara caring only about Abhinav's feelings in the whole thing, not Abhimanyu's (which she is allowed to ignore since she "hates" him and he is her "abuser"), not Abhir's, who is supposed to be HER miracle baby, and not even her own. She has never voiced how she feels about her child knowing the truth, it's all about Abhinav toot jaenge, Abhinav ko bura lagega.

Akshara is doing same thing what her family did with her.

Akshara samajhdar hai samajh jayegi and they supported arohi.

Abhir samajhdar hai samajh jayega and akshu supports abhinav.

Akshara used to lie for arohi's happiness.

She is asking abhir to hide truth for arohi's happiness.

In the end, akshu considers her son more mature and understanding than her husband who thinks her husband may react during the wedding but her son will happily enjoy the wedding. Her reasonings are very stupid.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

The fact about Abhir understanding the financial condition, I cant fully agree that he shouldn't know. Yes not the extent, but him having an idea does make sure he doesn't wish for more he can get at this stage. But beyond that, they have made the narrative about Abhinav and in trying to do that, Akshara seems not in tune with her son at all.

Abhir had an amazing upbringing, he is an empathetic smart little boy, but that doesn't mean that his mother assumes him to be mature enough to regulate his emotions at this stage, when his "father", both in this case, can't at the age they are also. One gets angry and impulsive while the other starts crying and becomes bechara. Akshara caring only about Abhinav's feelings in the whole thing, not Abhimanyu's (which she is allowed to ignore since she "hates" him and he is her "abuser"), not Abhir's, who is supposed to be HER miracle baby, and not even her own. She has never voiced how she feels about her child knowing the truth, it's all about Abhinav toot jaenge, Abhinav ko bura lagega.

I have been trying to understand k aakhir Abhinav ko bura lega kyun. He is aware that Abhir is not his biological son since start, he now knows that who his bio dad and they promised the bio dad that they will tell Abhir the truth soon.

Then why he won't be able to take it, why he is reacting like this roaming around in roads lost is beyond my understanding

That's my point and why I have started agreeing with the fans who say that writers only want to glorify Abhinav and make him center and in trying to do that, they have shown no real character growth for Akshara. A girl who grew up in trauma of not knowing she had a different mother and not knowing about her, is ok with her son going through something similar. A girl who used to be treated as second fiddle to her sister, who's real face she saw after Niel and her marriage, is ok with treating her son the same for Abhinav.

What if she has another kid with Abhinav, is Abhir supposed to be another Akshara because Abhinav's feelings might hurt if she gives more important to someone else's khoon? I am not saying it would happen since Abhinav is supposed to be holier than God and he does love Abhir a lot, but it is only him who keeps repeating khoon khoon while saying dil ka rishta is big. Such a man, according to me, should in fact not be caring about khoon at all to be bringing it up as many times as he does.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

That's my point and why I have started agreeing with the fans who say that writers only want to glorify Abhinav and make him center and in trying to do that, they have shown no real character growth for Akshara. A girl who grew up in trauma of not knowing she had a different mother and not knowing about her, is ok with her son going through something similar. A girl who used to be treated as second fiddle to her sister, who's real face she saw after Niel and her marriage, is ok with treating her son the same for Abhinav.

What if she has another kid with Abhinav, is Abhir supposed to be another Akshara because Abhinav's feelings might hurt if she gives more important to someone else's khoon? I am not saying it would happen since Abhinav is supposed to be holier than God and he does love Abhir a lot, but it is only him who keeps repeating khoon khoon while saying dil ka rishta is big. Such a man, according to me, should in fact not be caring about khoon at all to be bringing it up as many times as he does.

Bhai same feelings same 🫡

I agree. It is so confusing. Ok, feeling hurt that Abhir wants to find his real father might make sense since Abhinav has been shown an orphan who never looked for his roots, so maybe he would need a minute to realize that Abhir is allowed to have that question and answer. But the amount of breakdown he is having makes no sense. If he feared he will lose Abhir, Abhir already proved its not valid since he has known for a while and nothing has changed, so what's with the breakdown and toot jaenge .