This is the dumbest narrative I have seen on here and in all honesty I was going to ignore it until I saw people shifting the blame to Akshara. Abhimanyu doesn't deserve any rights towards Abhir, him missing Abhir's life is all because of his own actions. People keep saying that "Oh Akshara could have tried harder to reach out to him", how much did you want here to reach out to him, how much. She tried, Abhinav tried, heck even Manish tried and he didn't budge once and don't tell me Akshara didn't know that Manish had asked him to come with him cause she heard BP saying Abhimanyu didn't want to come and this wasn't over the span of one day, it was over multiple, maybe even multiple months. People can make rash decisions in anger but over that time did he even once think how Akshara was or where and what she was doing by herself?
White Day for one was not Akshara's fault. People keep saying she should've prioritized her kids and Neil but what kind of parent are you going to be towards your kids if you knew you had the chance to save those kids and chose to do nothing and those kids died. Even with calling the police and leaving the scene, the kids probably would've still died and Akshara who was about to be a newborn mother, how'd you think she'd feel if those kids died and how would she be able to look at her own children with the death of all those kids hanging in her conscience, providing her with extreme guilt. Akshara wasn't trying to get her kids killed, nor did she at the moment realise what result her actions would end up having. and for Neil, Neil was not a kid, nor was he manipulated or gaslighted by Akshara into going there, he went in there because he as a person who was about to be a father wasn't willing to find out what would happen to those kids if they didn't do anything. Neil could've gone away, he could've taken Akshara with him but he chose to be there that day and in turn Akshara risked her life to save him. What happened as a result - Neil died and Akshara lost 1 of the twins. She just miscarried, thought she lost both her kids and her brother in law and was probably feeling a lot of piled up guilt as a result and you could see her apologise to Abhimanyu multiple times but what came of her apologies and sadness? Divorce, getting kicked out of the house, being blamed for multiple deaths that happened because of unfortunate circumstances. Abhimanyu is a doctor and so he must've seen many women who have miscarried over his time at the hospital but even though he was a doctor do you know what he did, he focused on his pain, his sadness, his loss. I get that your angry and I get that you've lost a lot but you aren't the only one who has lost stuff, Akshara has too but Abhimanyu was too far gone in his own anger to see that.
Heck he even went so far to push on a bruise Aarohi had created and said that Aarohi was right, Akshara was the reason Sirat was dead. Now like I said above I get that people make rash decisions in anger and pain but Abhimanyu had so much time, so much time. Not once even in 7 months did he even think to call and talk to Akshara or even realise that how much wrong had happened to her as well, meanwhile Akshara on the other hand was completely willing to forget how unfairly she had been treated, all the insults she had got and tried to communicate with Abhimanyu that one of the babies was still alive but Abhimanyu never let her finish her talk or Abhinav's talk and no wonder Akshara doesn't want the man who kicked her out at her lowest to be in her sons life as a father over the man who supported her at her lowest and saved her and her son. Heck we saw another example of Abhimanyu unwilling to listen to what she said again after Kairav impulsively handed Abimanyu court papers and people still question why Akshara doesn't love Abhimanyu or want him in her son's life. People also say "Oh Akshara didn't need to deal with all this inconvenience, she could've gone back to her home", why the hell would she ever want to go home?? especially after she overheard her own grandfather take Abhimanyu's side and blame Akshara for everything that happened.
Abhimanyu and his mother are all about hypocrisy. He tells Akshara not to interfere with his family matters (completely ignoring they were now her family too) but constantly drags himself into her family matters without asking if she wants or needs his help. He berates her for hiding Abhir's parentage truth but defends his mother for hiding Neil's parentage truth. I'm sorry but in no way, do I find Abhimanyu to be the victim in all this as his lack of empathy, trust and care for Akshara are what led to his situation. You can keep trying to deny that he's not toxic, it doesn't change what's shown in the show. For example, on his sons birthday when his son hugs him, he's grinning at Akshara and Abhinav instead of being happy his son hugged him, thats how pathetic his character is. Also, whether people want to ignore it or not, Abhimanyu literally gaslit Akshara into confessing to him because he practically told her would commit suicide otherwise. He also divorced her the first time in a rash decision, a precedent for his actions on white day and is unwilling and unable to communicate with her. and then after the 6 year leap, he miraculously remembers Akshara is the love of his life?? Did he conveniently just forget it on White Day or the 6 months after when Akshara was giving birth to Abhir or even during the 6 year period.
And when finally he realised about his so called love, he didn't apologise for his actions and instead told Akshara that they complete each other and she should leave her husband and her son and her life in Kasauli to come back to him and also in the process ignored his and Aarohi's relationship and Ruhi. He says he cares about Ruhi but ditched and barely called her to go live with Abhir for a month and in his month there, interferes in conversations he has no rights to be included in and makes demands. His mother also isn't any better and now is willing to destroy Abhinav's life and Aarohi and Ruhi's in order to make her sons life complete. She herself got pissed and made a big noise about Abhirs paternity but when it came to Neil she allowed him to become a source of mockery in their household and got pissed at Akshara when she indirectly told Neil the truth. Heck she even made Abhir feel he was dirty before she realised that he was Abhimanyu's son. These 2 are horrible people and only do good things when it suits them or makes them look nice to others.
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