Originally posted by: Rsrockz
My complaints are two-fold, murtasim was never great, he seemed better(defending meerab during fish allergy is similar to defending haya for clinging onto him, waleema defence he also defended his mum's statute, protecting meerab during kidnap is similar to protecting mariyum from MZ changul for khandaani izzath)because responsible nature is misconstrued as his love for his wife. But he turned out to be very shallow and superficial in nature.
1. In the 1st place murtasim isn't a great character. All the assumptions of his greatness are disproven with today, one painful fact his words are very superficial and sadly he never gets to the bottom of the things, not even once did he pay attention to what meerab has been accusing or he never bothered to make sure meerab is safe neither after mariyum fiasco, dropping her at Waqas's place and aftertheir CS when meerab's suddenly gone missing. He can be comedy and be readily agreed to do anything including marrying Haya without any apparent pressure even from his mum. Nothing justifies this behaviour when he claim to be loving his wife eternally and unconditionally.
2.Meerab accusations about MuYa's closeness are all true. They were meant to be together had it not been for meerab's networth(property share through Anwar's daughter)her sophisticated upbringing by her foster parents. Hence meerab's justified at being angry and not accepting their forced marriage and murtasim's indeed an untrustworthy partner jinka koi bharosa nahi.
So, my question is does the writer really think this is a great lovestory or a masterpiece 🤔 .
I'm Seriously irritated and beyond dismayed with murtasim's proposal of marriage to Haya when his mom is persuading her to marry someone suitable to her. What exactly is his rationale behind conveniently assuming his wife can elope with her classmate right after having CS with him. Atleast is it not his responsibility to ensure she's OK after they have done the deed.
NM story reflects a feudal society where women are forced and enslaved in the name of marriage to provide bed comforts, give birth and nurture the heirs with no objecting or conflicting emotions with their khandaans.
If this setup is still prevalent in Pakistan of today then my condolences to all those women and foremost to NM for promoting and romanticising such backward thought processes.