Manchild?

So quick question for all:

let's say A was/is a manchild and because of his anger issues B suffered alot, they separated and then met C. B & C are in a marriage of convenience for B's son. But overall they are a happy family. C is a nice guy and everything but needs constant validation, wasn't a great support during one of the serious issues that could have altered the life of B, B's son and C.

Now B has clearly asked C to move forward together and give their namesake marriage a new start. They have their own moments as well.

But yet

C not only feels constant validation, but doesn't understand personal space/ boundaries, have inferior complex for which he basically does nothing as such.

Currently seeing few normal let's say friendly interaction between A & B he is doubting his life, the family he along with B created instead of constantly telling that this what B wants, doubt if he fits in this place as if he did something wrong etc etc.

Now my question is I personally agree that A is a manchild, red flag, have anger issues and have a toxic bond with his mother but will it justify or nullified that C is also a manchild just a better version of A maybe or best I personally don't want to compare A & C.

Because B has dealt with A now she should adjust and love C coz hey atleast C isn't bad like A.

How come the bad qualities of A minus the stupidity of C?

Who is A and B and C we all know 😅

Please share your opinions.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

So quick question for all:

let's say A was/is a manchild and because of his anger issues B suffered alot, they separated and then met C. B & C are in a marriage of convenience for B's son. But overall they are a happy family. C is a nice guy and everything but needs constant validation, wasn't a great support during one of the serious issues that could have altered the life of B, B's son and C.

Now B has clearly asked C to move forward together and give their namesake marriage a new start. They have their own moments as well.

But yet

C not only feels constant validation, but doesn't understand personal space/ boundaries, have inferior complex for which he basically does nothing as such.

Currently seeing few normal let's say friendly interaction between A & B he is doubting his life, the family he along with B created instead of constantly telling that this what B wants, doubt if he fits in this place as if he did something wrong etc etc.

Now my question is I personally agree that A is a manchild, red flag, have anger issues and have a toxic bond with his mother but will it justify or nullified that C isn't a manchild just a better version of A maybe or best I personally don't want to compare A & C.

Because B has dealt with A now she should adjust and love C coz hey atleast C isn't bad like A.

How come the bad qualities of A minus the stupidity of C?

Who is A and B and C we all know 😅

Please share your opinions.

They don't but somehow it's not possible to talk about these things without comparing A and C

These things depend on two people A nd B could've had a good life too if they knew how to handle their issues ...but alas for the show

Same way B nd C can also sort out their issue... it's not even that big of a issue to begin with....but there's a clear lack of communication...so the issue won't be solved ever... again for the show

If u r asking me r traits of A & C both toxic...yes they're...it becomes difficult to handle people with anger issue especially when they don't want to work on the said anger issues nd u r often at the recieving end

It also becomes hard to live with a person who's always seeking reassurances....you can only do so much....after a point no matter what u say or do the insecurity won't go away nd u will give up too nd that will cause problems....these problems will pile up nd then 💥....you can see this with B & C....B tends to hide all the important stuff from C(which she does anyways ) but her latest reason r C will not be able to handle it...C is clearly not B's son's age to not be able to handle issues but then there's a fear that he'll fall apart nd B will be left with dealing with the issue nd him at the same time so B never tells him.... there's only so much someone else even ur partner can do for u to be assertive in life....this is about personal growth nd has to come from within

Yar all A, B, C are stupid (I'm using a mild word bcos forum rules 😅).. just sometimes one is stupider than other leading to situations.

B & C are the current focus. C is letting his doubts of self-worth cause an inner turmoil which will be cashed on by D. Frankly till now C hasn't irritated me that much except his days of real papa jaap.. phew!

Coming back to topic, A & B are not intentionally at fault.. but they aren't that innocent as well. Which is why D and E are also having doubts... Also which is why the people watching this circus on screen were confidently predicting the story moving in favour of AB reunion.

If our B was so clear in her feelings & actions, none of the gratitude, manipulation or delusion theory would've risen. But chalo those mini fanwars were good timepass 😆

Now finally B is firm but unfortunately doubt is a creepy thing. Once it enters it's not that easy to get rid of. B's confession to C is the key here.. but sadly due to wedding festivities B isn't getting time.

If in future C keeps on acting stupid after B's confession, I'll take out my bashing gear. Secretly I want B to slap C out of his sacrificial mode but let's see what's in store for us by R & Z.

Now you tell me who's who 😛🤣

Originally posted by: verve

Yar all A, B, C are stupid (I'm using a mild word bcos forum rules 😅).. just sometimes one is stupider than other leading to situations.

B & C are the current focus. C is letting his doubts of self-worth cause an inner turmoil which will be cashed on by D. Frankly till now C hasn't irritated me that much except his days of real papa jaap.. phew!

Coming back to topic, A & B are not intentionally at fault.. but they aren't that innocent as well. Which is why D and E are also having doubts... Also which is why the people watching this circus on screen were confidently predicting the story moving in favour of AB reunion.

If our B was so clear in her feelings & actions, none of the gratitude, manipulation or delusion theory would've risen. But chalo those mini fanwars were good timepass 😆

Now finally B is firm but unfortunately doubt is a creepy thing. Once it enters it's not that easy to get rid of. B's confession to C is the key here.. but sadly due to wedding festivities B isn't getting time.

If in future C keeps on acting stupid after B's confession, I'll take out my bashing gear. Secretly I want B to slap C out of his sacrificial mode but let's see what's in store for us by R & Z.

Now you tell me who's who 😛🤣

I feel the slap might do some actual good knocking some sense into C...coz words fall deaf on this ear....one slap nd kaan ke saara mell saaf 😜

Agreed. With Both your points.

Its is actually tough to live with the people with any such traits.

About comparing A & C yes coz B is there it happens but as a viewer can't we just stop and see that C isn't faultless or flawless. No matter the hype of B, C isn't the godlike human. He has his shortcomings. Which i personally find irritating.

Also, like A was a variable between B and D 😂 yet i never saw people go like arey at least B isn't as bad as D or vice-versa. We know there are people who like A but not B so why here in the case of C.

Note: I made this post coz i opened a thread and people were like attacking eachother. The best and laughable response was arey C isn't as bad as A.

I am like par yeh kya baat huyi.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Agreed. With Both your points.

Its is actually tough to live with the people with any such traits.

About comparing A & C yes coz B is there it happens but as a viewer can't we just stop and see that C isn't faultless or flawless. No matter the hype of B, C isn't the godlike human. He has his shortcomings. Which i personally find irritating.

Also, like A was a variable between B and D 😂 yet i never saw people go like arey at least B isn't as bad as D or vice-versa. We know there are people who like A but not B so why here in the case of C.

Note: I made this post coz i opened a thread and people were like attacking eachother. The best and laughable response was arey C isn't as bad as A.

I am like par yeh kya baat huyi.

Don't get me started on C though u will again attract the same hoards...i never liked C ckt very much but that's a personal preference.... there's a sheer lack of efforts in developing his ckt nd I can see the same lack of efforts with the writing these days too..... really pathetic even for an ITV show

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I feel the slap might do some actual good knocking some sense into C...coz words fall deaf on this ear....one slap nd kaan ke saara mell saaf 😜

I remember when B slapped C pre-leap he said "Apne thappad maar ke hi mujhe din me taare dikha diye to agar mukka marengi to mai behosh hi ho jaunga"... so I'm up for some punches too 🤣

Hahaha true.

Starting i find him bearable. Few scenes even i liked but recently i am like personality kahan hai, character growth kahan hai 😂

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Hahaha true.

Starting i find him bearable. Few scenes even i liked but recently i am like personality kahan hai, character growth kahan hai 😂

Arre abhi se ckt growth ho jaega to aur kaise saalo-saal khichega ye show 🤣 Bechare ko time toh do.. na sudhre tab karna bash.. I'll join the party as well 😆

Manchild(ren) is/are audience

Show dekhna bhi hai, follow bhi karna hai, lambe lambe debates bhi karne hai aur dher saari complains karni hai... Even when show seems to be on right track... 🤪