Came across this by accident. Very interesting topic.
I wasn’t comfortable with the concept & asked my father’s permission to skip it for mine. My father gave me few books & told me to go through it & then form an opinion & explain my choice. After my research I told him I still want to skip it. But my intention is not to disrespect him or his position in my life. I didn’t like the fact that the groom is asked if he accepts the bride where as bride is not asked to give her consent. In most religions bride is supposed to give her consent where as in kanyadan father asks would be son in law to take responsibility of his daughter without asking the daughter if she is agreeable.
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