Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 8

Didn’t you see the comments when Ak refused to sit with AbM in a car and reached her exam centre late by 5 min?

Originally posted by: verve

You can gauge the intensity n impact of ITV's propagation regarding failed marriages & toxicity disguised as soul love.. from the fact that Abhira are still seen as the endgame.. Despite the prev repeated claims that if Ak confesses or gets physically intimate with her 2nd husband, Abhira will be maligned.. makers gave jhula & drunk confession scenes and still the og ship is as intact as before... No wonder dkp has that much trust in its audience to turn the story around anytime!

I for one, am eagerly waiting to see similar banners & cries of women empowerment if & when Nav exits. I'm sure all the tall claims of women independently leading their lives without a man would come in handy in that track..

We should bookmark these threads for when the tunes change completely. 😆 It would be fun.. what empowerment, what life without a man. 😆

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

What is wrong in marrying again?

I am trying to understand, how does it make Akshara look less as a person for marrying again? This is so degrading for people moving on from their previous abusive marriages or for any other reason

I didnt say marrying again is wrong..I was mentioning about the situation of the loveless marriage just an adjustment for the sake of her child..normally in arranged marriages couple wont take 6 years to fall in love maybe maximum an year or two is fine..but 6 is unrealistic in my opinion..

Again, I meant even Naira had miscarriage and issues in her marriage too but Naira was self dependent and strong she managed her life well On her own.Whereas, Akshara is shown as always needing someone to rely on and generally a weak character when compared to her mom.thats my point of view and opinion let me stick by it like I can’t change yours 😁..I never said Homemakers are weak,I never said blissful life on mountain is wrong or remarriages are wrong,jam making is fun too..but the way the show presents these through Akshara’s character makes her look weak in my opinion..not forcing that point of view on anyone..

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

I didnt say marrying again is wrong..I was mentioning about the situation of the loveless marriage just an adjustment for the sake of her child..normally in arranged marriages couple wont take 6 years to fall in love maybe maximum an year or two is fine..but 6 is unrealistic in my opinion..

Again, I meant even Naira had miscarriage and issues in her marriage too but Naira was self dependent and strong she managed her life well On her own.Whereas, Akshara is shown as always needing someone to rely on and generally a weak character when compared to her mom.thats my point of view and opinion let me stick by it like I can’t change yours 😁..I never said Homemakers are weak,I never said blissful life on mountain is wrong or remarriages are wrong..

Let's consider it took her 6yrs to realize her feelings...how one can decide love should happen only in certain period.

Even before when there is no love between them she is happy for 6yrs. In 1.5yrs of her love marriage , she always suffered.....so how if love marriage without happiness is ok? But marrying and taking time to move on is wrong?

Weak character? You can't compare 2 ppl sufferings and say which is less and which is more...Again, how does moving on makes her character weak.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Didn’t you see the comments when Ak refused to sit with AbM in a car and reached her exam centre late by 5 min?

ITV law 105 :

Women empowerment must be practiced only and when the FL doesn't have ML around to take favours from or lean on.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

I didnt say marrying again is wrong..I was mentioning about the situation of the loveless marriage just an adjustment for the sake of her child..normally in arranged marriages couple wont take 6 years to fall in love maybe maximum an year or two is fine..but 6 is unrealistic in my opinion..

This was not a normal arranged marriage. Akshara had a lot of past baggage and was scarred in love. So obviously she'll take more time to move on and trust in love again. There was mutual respect, attachment and adoration in the mean time. For someone who had been so badly betrayed in love, it will take time and healing to accept love again. Doesn't make their relationship or love any less. And not so unrealistic.

Originally posted by: janecastle

This was not a normal arranged marriage. Akshara had a lot of past baggage and was scarred in love. So obviously she'll take more time to move on and trust in love again. There was mutual respect, attachment and adoration in the mean time. For someone who had been so badly betrayed in love, it will take time and healing to accept love again. Doesn't make their relationship or love any less. And not so unrealistic.

Then she could’ve made Nav her really good friend who would have helped her heal her emotional wounds and baggage.why they needed to

Marry..?cant they be neighbors and good friends,support system?..she could have eventually fell in love and married him..he was just a longterm rebound she tried to stick on to all those 6 years in my opinion..

Originally posted by: chaipaani

See but is it highlighted enough that This is what she wants, This is what is fine.

This jam making thing has shown as something she is doing out of need and not want. That's where the problem lies

What is the problem in Akshara working for "need"? A lot of people work to fulfill basic needs. Many work other jobs while simultaneously pursuing a career.

Nothing wrong with either

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Then she could’ve made Nav her really good friend who would have helped her heal her emotional wounds and baggage.why they needed to

Marry..?cant they be neighbors and good friends,support system?..she could have eventually fell in love and married him..he was just a longterm rebound she tried to stick on to all those 6 years in my opinion..

Why can't she marry the man she wanted and trusted? Both are grown up adults who formed a safe, secure family for Abhir and each other. He was not a rebound, but a man she trusted, respected and chose to be her husband and her child's father. Not every relationship need to start with love when there are other important factors involved.

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

I will tell why Akshara is wrong because if she is not married it will prove that She is one man woman and their love is Amar prem katha..because the great manchild Birla hasn't move on then how can she? She rejected him because she was already married, if not then she would be running into his arms one day. Ryt?

The whole discussion of moving on with a stranger making Akshara look like any less will not come if she stays single and remember her bipolar ex....then she will be a great woman....I am really appalled to see some povs here.....

This is exactly what their fd believes. Because just yesterday, I came across a comment from a person who belonged to that group that they didn't mind Akshara falling in love with Abhinav because it will only go on to prove that Abhimanyu's love was "bigger" than Akshara's. Lol