Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years. - Page 7

Originally posted by: janecastle

Some women choose to be single and raise their kids. Some wants a companion and a father for their kids. Their life, their choice. Neither are wrong or lower than the other.

It's all women wish...if she wants move on fully ....dont cheat both.....like someone we know

Originally posted by: chaipaani

See but is it highlighted enough that This is what she wants, This is what is fine.

This jam making thing has shown as something she is doing out of need and not want. That's where the problem lies

How does jam making become a lesser job for financial needs? She makes jam and also studies for law. So how is this bad in anyway?

Oh but some fans want her to cheat.

Originally posted by: janecastle

No probs.. all of us have our own choices 🤗

Hey I like abhinav too...

Compatibility wise akshara can live with abhinav as he obeys everything akshara saying and she is the boss and abhinav doesn't have anyone like manjari....

So better akshara abhinav move on...

But I like coz akshara abhimanyu as they look good together cute and sizzling chemistry...

Originally posted by: chaipaani

See but is it highlighted enough that This is what she wants, This is what is fine.

This jam making thing has shown as something she is doing out of need and not want. That's where the problem lies

But where is the problem ? She is doing it out of need , she is earning well from it , enuf to contribute to the family income , her jam is also popular ..

If she wasn't doing "anything", that would be a problem ? As long as a person is aware of their responsibility , and not sit idle when they need to earn , thar should be a problem.

My ques is why is everyone so obsessed with her career / no career / self employed status? Did we ask why suvarna is doing maji maji and manjari is good to cook karela? 🤔 she is happy in her small house , what's anybodys problem ? All parents sacrifice their own needs for their children what's the problem in that?

A rishta , can't be defined as good or bad solely on the basis of financial issues.

Originally posted by: verve

Since you've mentioned it.. I'm going to give my honest take pal

I've sympathies for Abhimanyu's loss on WD.. I agree his mum n Ar were hysteric.. & in anger n grief he overreacted..

My issues are with what ensued after.. he claimed to love Ak more than himself right.. chlo he came to G house to look for Ak... received the news of her being at a friend's house & therefore decided to go not look for her or not even talk to her.. But then he knew she'd a miscarriage.. not a teeny bit sympathy as a husband or empathy as a doctor.. chalo let's say he continued to be angry for mts. till Ak's marriage news came & there was a leap..

We get to know from the ckts that throughout those 6 yrs everyone believes Ak divorced him & left. He deliberately lied to gain sympathy of both fams.

Ak made a mistake.. suffered loss.. accepted Ab's style of punishment.. built a fam of her own.. and was happy & content with her decision..

But Ab was shown depressed & popping pills, tho he has 0 realization of his mistakes.. he has no fbs of his acts on WD.. only thing he thot he did wrong was blaming her for Sirat's death..

When she openly refused him in temple he got a hang of his mistakes in entirety.. still no apologies.. his newly learned respect jaap only lasted till he knew about Abhir.. after that he couldn't be bothered less about his fiancee he's promised to respect.. He's his same anger, impulsive self & places his maa over anything... where is the ckt development is my issue with him...

What did he learn from his mistakes.. where's the improvement.. he's sitting bw a husband & wife for wks.. and I don't think he's as innocent as he's shown.. wasn't he jealous when Ak casually interacted with even Dr. Rohan before their wedding.. but now he expects to roam in the same house as his ex, have cute banters about breakfast, interfere unnecessarily in family matters and expect everybody to be ok with all of this.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Naira Akshara’s mother was a lot stronger.When Kartik and she had misunderstandings she shifted to mumbai to pursue her studies.Also later on she raised her child Kairav as a single mom in goa single handedly.She was a yoga instructor who paid her bills.She had her flaws but she stayed much stronger than Akshara.

Now, Akshara ran away twice once she was a shadow of Dr.Khera’s sister but Akshara was slightly strong in that track.But after the 6 year leap She married a random helpful stranger and lives on the mountains giving up her singing career and passion for music.She could have started music classes and earned money to raise her child trying to be independent.Then the respect for this character would have increased for me personally.

What is wrong in marrying again?

I am trying to understand, how does it make Akshara look less as a person for marrying again? This is so degrading for people moving on from their previous abusive marriages or for any other reason

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

What is wrong in marrying again?

I am trying to understand, how does it make Akshara look less as a person for marrying again? This is so degrading for people moving on from their previous abusive marriages or for any other reason

Itv has made it seem like women moving on from first marriage is wrong and impossible. When in reality that's what many do. Not many chooses to go back to abuse ex or remain single life long.

I will tell why Akshara is wrong because if she is not married it will prove that She is one man woman and their love is Amar prem katha..because the great manchild Birla hasn't move on then how can she? She rejected him because she was already married, if not then she would be running into his arms one day. Ryt?

The whole discussion of moving on with a stranger making Akshara look like any less will not come if she stays single and remember her bipolar ex....then she will be a great woman....I am really appalled to see some povs here.....

Originally posted by: janecastle

Itv has made it seem like women moving on from first marriage is wrong and impossible. When in reality that's what many do. Not many chooses to go back to abuse ex or remain single life long.

You can gauge the intensity n impact of ITV's propagation regarding failed marriages & toxicity disguised as soul love.. from the fact that Abhira are still seen as the endgame.. Despite the prev repeated claims that if Ak confesses or gets physically intimate with her 2nd husband, Abhira will be maligned.. makers gave jhula & drunk confession scenes and still the og ship is as intact as before... No wonder dkp has that much trust in its audience to turn the story around anytime!

I for one, am eagerly waiting to see similar banners & cries of women empowerment if & when Nav exits. I'm sure all the tall claims of women independently leading their lives without a man would come in handy in that track..