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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: bips



I'm not going to point out meerabs flaws in this post bec we will be essentially going in circles

.. I'll say meerab is more wrong of the two... You'll say murtasim is more wrong of the two


But for me the biggest difference is that murtasim made an effort... Genuine effort to make this marriage work.. To make meerab happy... To build a life together...


Meerab made zilch... I'm racking my brain and i can't remember a single incident which could be termed as an effort...

Meerab could have left at any point, any time that family humiliated her. She did not. She chose to stay and let this marriage work its way out. That was a choice she made, and she’s been vocal about wanting this marriage to work out. But she couldn’t give in completely despite her choice, and thus her issues throughout the married life. She chose to come back every single time. She even kept her ego aside to return for Maryam’s rukhsati, which was in reality she returning for Mk.
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Navyya

If Meerab is staying with Faroukh in that case if a question arises on her kirdaar, it would be justified. I won’t mind it at all . It’s not the done thing in our Asian culture


culture is no justification for medieval values

we have to move away from this dark ages mentality where a woman's character is defined by a man's opinion of her

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Posted: 2 years ago

Meeru has taught a lot to Murtu🤣


Yesterday’s lesson in implementation! Jab koi reason na ho, tab kya kehna hai??


Meri marzi, jo main karu!🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: altr

Meerab could have left at any point, any time that family humiliated her. She did not. She chose to stay and let this marriage work its way out. That was a choice she made, and she’s been vocal about wanting this marriage to work out. But she couldn’t give in completely despite her choice, and thus her issues throughout the married life. She chose to come back every single time.



Yarrrrrrrrrrrr.... Matlab murtasim ki jaan le lo and madam ki presence hi effort hai.


The bar to minimum effort has become the floor

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: bips



Yarrrrrrrrrrrr.... Matlab murtasim ki jaan le lo and madam ki presence hi effort hai.


The bar to minimum effort has become the floor

Trust me, I’m not even trying to defend Meerab. I’m just trying to make sense of things from MM POVs for MM to work out

But it is what it is! These two are idiots in love, who are tooooo stupid to work it out themselves without hurting the other

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Posted: 2 years ago

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: bips



I'm not going to point out meerabs flaws in this post bec we will be essentially going in circles

.. I'll say meerab is more wrong of the two... You'll say murtasim is more wrong of the two


But for me the biggest difference is that murtasim made an effort... Genuine effort to make this marriage work.. To make meerab happy... To build a life together...


Meerab made zilch... I'm racking my brain and i can't remember a single incident which could be termed as an effort...


Exactly what I have been trying to say.

They are both flawed from the very beginning, but atleast he tried, he did mistakes, not trusting her, questioning her character, and most importantly not handling haya properly and above all they never communicated, but for the Nth time I am saying this NONE OF HIS MISTAKES JUSTIFY MEERAB SNATCHING HIS RIGHT OF BEING A FATHER, AND SNATCHING AWAY THE MEMORIES THE FATHER DAUGHTER DUO WOULD HAVE CREATED, SHE IS JUST RIPPING BOTH MURTASIM AND MEESAM OFF ALL THE FATHER DAUGHTER MOMENTS BOTH OF THEM DESERVE!!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: bips



I'm not going to point out meerabs flaws in this post bec we will be essentially going in circles

.. I'll say meerab is more wrong of the two... You'll say murtasim is more wrong of the two


But for me the biggest difference is that murtasim made an effort... Genuine effort to make this marriage work.. To make meerab happy... To build a life together...


Meerab made zilch... I'm racking my brain and i can't remember a single incident which could be termed as an effort...

I love MK 🥰🥰🥰he is my baby. Every one in forum knows it. I wrote essays defending him , but when he is wrong he is wrong !

Am forum KMK- chahhat in role play 😎

Mee is my babies baby I can’t bring myself to hate her especially when it’s truth she got rough end of stick. I don’t always agree with her actions, I have my issues but still she is human.

Like I said in prev post , MK married her with intention of making this marriage work , he believed in institution of marriage and had faith hence all effort but falling in love with her was something he didn’t plan .

Mee never had any intention of making this marriage work , she planned he would back off when she pulled contract but he didn’t and then low key wished her defiance will put him off and he will break it but dude was I Love You ! So no way am leaving u , u are here till end of time and I will wait for u! so all her plans failed .

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Winterberry

I love MK 🥰🥰🥰he is my baby. Every one in forum knows it. I wrote essays defending him , but when he is wrong he is wrong !

Am forum KMK- chahhat in role play 😎

Mee is my babies baby I can’t bring myself to hate her especially when it’s truth she got rough end of stick. I don’t always agree with her actions, I have my issues but still she is human.

Like I said in prev post , MK married her with intention of making this marriage work , he believed in institution of marriage and had faith hence all effort but falling in love with her was something he didn’t plan .

Mee never had any intention of making this marriage work , she planned he would back off when she pulled contract but he didn’t and then low key wished her defiance will put him off and he will break it but dude was I Love You ! So no way am leaving u , u are here till end of time and I will wait for u! so all her plans failed .


So what was her endgame.

What you are saying is that the contract was not her buying time till she is ready to accept this marriage.

Instead, what you are saying is that her end goal was always divorce as she never intended the marriage to work.

BUT there were plenty of moments where she could have left and used that opportunity to her advantage to pursue divorce.

  • Why not go back with Wakas & Anila in E21 when they said to her to come home with them as they do not like how she is being treated there
  • Why not stay back in Karachi in E28 when MK said tumhari marzi if you want to come to Hyderabad.
  • Why not take the opportunity in E19 when MB kicks her out to leave MK.
  • Why not use tumhari marzi ki azaadi tumhe mubarak ho in E42 to her advantage to separate from MK. Itna rone ki kya zaroorat thi keh tumhe ghar se nikaal dia
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