Normalization of emotional manipulation, gaslighting - Page 2

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I have been blocked for saying this a little before than everyone realized.🥲

Blocked for saying what?

Posts highlighting sai’s hypocritical conduct.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I have to commend Ayeshas performance to make Sai look vulnerable and tragic rather than abominable like NB potrayed V. Although he was definitely written much more poorly than Sai.

But i find it really sad how characters like BK, Ash, P have all manipulated Sai without any regrets or accountability and Sai has succumbed to it.

Jab man kiya BK, Ash asked Sai to leave, suddenly they flip and want her back. Its ridiculous how they nevwr say out in front of V or the world about how they manipulate her.

Ash never told V that she asked Sai to move on. He let V think Sai was some sort of two timer even though at that point she wasn't and now despite seeing Satya she conveniently destroys Sai's Chance of a happy family with him by confusing and mamipulating her again

Yes Sai isnt stupid or a child to not have her own mind but these people definitely know the strings to pull with Sai.

I am very disappointed that Sai doesn't speak honestly with Satya first about her dilemmas before going "back" to an abuser like V .thats the least they could do to keep Sai's core intact. If she's chosen everyones happiness over her own then she owes Satya an explanation before doing anything.

Its ridiculous to see her pull a V. Deeply disturbing.

And the normalization of how people gaslight a woman, hold her accountable for everything, mamipulate her and she is letting that happen to herself is so upsetting, anger inducing.

Also WTF is the deal with the kids. Vinu seems completely unaffected by news of Vs farewell/transfer. How can V apply for a transfer without discussing what happens with both kids?! Is he gonna leave Vinu alone in CN, with Sai or take him? Does Savi factor in to this? Dont the kids count in his life?!

Its really sad how they are breaking Satyas heart. At least bring Girija back alive or whatever. Its not fair to him .

Deeply disturbed by the casual approach to an abusive partner like V being hailed as "love" and how they have converted a strong woman like Sai into a confused , and emotional mess who is cheating on a friend who stood by her when she most needed.

Ghum is pathetic.

Keede padein in makers par or show band hojaaye yeh meri baddua hai. No one should be allowed to put up such crap in the name of content. Leap ke naam par bhi kuch regressive and toxic hi milega.

They are incapable of good plots. Period.

The majers writers, channel should all be ashamed. And honestly I am disappointed in actors. Ayesha has expressed that she's not happy with every plot change quite openly but still not categorically in that the content was problematic. I understand its tough to do that. But i hope she makes a few more soft statements at least to reinforce that she doesn't like such plots and makes a conscious decision to be part of better shows. As much as she needs to earn a living, theres some artistic integrity, quality that should be a consideration too.... I dunno if that requires more music videos, Ads, print and tv or modelling or theater etc etc. Obviously those dont pay as well or arent consistent but as audience I'd rather see her in something good than a show like ghkkpm again because its incredibly heartbreaking and frustrating to see this end result.

After investment of time, interest, attention to see such nonsense is painful

May no other fandom suffer like we do!

Meri bhi baddua add karlo tumhare saat.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Posts highlighting sai’s hypocritical conduct.

I've my reservation on Ayesha as an actor but will give it to her for one thing despite being close friends with HA irl she managed to convince in her body language, expressions that she doesn't feel anything for Satya whereas the actor playing Virat went 😍😍😍 seeing Pakhi specially post leap 👋

I lost it at keedein pade 🤣i don't check this forum anymore, Aaj achanak dekha and this post is ✨gold✨ baaki, turu lub hai, kya bole abhi🤷‍♀️

Ayesha as Sai was good but she does need to work more on her acting capabilities. There is always room for improvement and yes, to that fact initially she fitted more perfectly into the character of a young girl but post 8 years leap, Virat, Patralekha and Sai all looked the same. The clear indication of an age gap between the 3 wasnt even visible. On the opposite, in some instances Sai looked older than Patralekha which was humongous hilarious to watch!!!

The story fell apart the moment, Patralekha after 1/2 day in prison came back as though she fought a mission in Leh, Ladakh. It is very sad to see what they have done to Satya!!! Now I feel there wasnt a need to bring in that character if they wanted to forcibly reunite Sai and Virat. They could have done the same once Patralekhs left.

Hate the makers for this!!!

Originally posted by: shwetha85

Ayesha as Sai was good but she does need to work more on her acting capabilities. There is always room for improvement and yes, to that fact initially she fitted more perfectly into the character of a young girl but post 8 years leap, Virat, Patralekha and Sai all looked the same. The clear indication of an age gap between the 3 wasnt even visible. On the opposite, in some instances Sai looked older than Patralekha which was humongous hilarious to watch!!!

The story fell apart the moment, Patralekha after 1/2 day in prison came back as though she fought a mission in Leh, Ladakh. It is very sad to see what they have done to Satya!!! Now I feel there wasnt a need to bring in that character if they wanted to forcibly reunite Sai and Virat. They could have done the same once Patralekhs left.

Hate the makers for this!!!

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I've my reservation on Ayesha as an actor but will give it to her for one thing despite being close friends with HA irl she managed to convince in her body language, expressions that she doesn't feel anything for Satya whereas the actor playing Virat went 😍😍😍 seeing Pakhi specially post leap 👋

She has shown more craving,pain and longing for Virat in a more innocent way than the greatest lubbher of all times did..

I either found Virat lusty towards Sai, (after first accident of Sai not before that) or being disgusted at her.. I could never feel the softness, longing and pain people talked abt..however though Ayesha is a mediocre actor she was very good in portraying her love for Virat,always. Her tears did look like it came from heart..

I hope to see her doing well in future..she needs a lot of improvement yes, but she is a great girl hardworking too, hope she is able to win over her flaws..🤞🤞