Is forgiveness good or bad - Page 2

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

The issue is Abhinav gets unnecessary hatred even if he is good which becomes sometimes so annoying to read that when you get chance you start doing same for Abhimanyu.

Real and fictional characters are totally different. But you have seen some of these characters in your real life and then you can't stop yourself from comparing. I'll not say Abhimanyu is core villlian but guys like him exist in real life as we all have grey shades. I myself know MAA beta in my closed ones who behave like them. It's more like losing that connection with the character than hatred.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

And if we question hate directed to Abhimanyu who is just a fictional character, why don’t we question the hate both Akshara and Abhinav receive too, they are also just fictional characters. The grass is always greener on the other side. People expect Akshara to tell Abhir truth but a softer version of that, isn’t that selective? Rather if she wants to reveal things to her child at an appropriate age, when he is big enough to understand, what is wrong there? Then why call her and Abhinav out as bachha chor and all?

And at the same time, if we call out the hate towards Abhim, who actually did something wrong in the past, shouldn’t we acknowledge the hate towards at least Abhinav too, who literally has not done anything wrong so far.

Adding to that, was it just one mistake based on which people have made a judgement of Abhim? There was the Neil paternity track, there was the Kairav-Anisha track, then there was the white day, then Abhim proposing Ak in the temple while she is married to someone else and as per him at that point has a child with someone else, and finally impulsive custody battle track? Its one thing after another, so where is the growth so far? I only see growth very recently ever since they came back to Kasauli, but will this growth actually remain once he is back under his mother’s influence. He had problem with Akshara for giving preference to her family, but he has also given his mother more preference always, which is not wrong, but should have a line. I have never blamed Abhim just for the white day, but rather for later, as he could not think of Akshara even once, then what were all those claims of marne mitne wala love? Nevertheless, I still don’t want him to suffer, I only want him to realise and grow from those mistakes. Thats all I expect of his character or any other in the show, and that is I too try to personally in my life.

Spot on R.G.C. (sorry don't know your name).

I was about to write the same. Thanks for writing this and saving my energy 😆

Originally posted by: mickeym

yes correct , when Abhimanyu left her divorced her and threw her out from his life , I also hated that character and wanted him to realise his mistakes and Akshu should forgive it when she is willing to forgive .. this is what I felt .. even in real life also those who suffered like this really want the loved ones to come back repenting .. trying to move on with someone , whom we are not in love with is eventually a punishment to us only .. and Akshu is doing it .. we all know Akshu is trying to move on .. she is forcing herself ,,, this I never want

But if that was the case she should not have married Abhinav and later by being intimate with him raising his expectations. She can't sail in both boats.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

But if that was the case she should not have married Abhinav and later by being intimate with him raising his expectations. She can't sail in both boats.

Forgiveness is neither good nor bad. It's an individuals choice..

I don't hate abhimanyu , akshu or abhin..when akshu forgives abhim, I'll be fine with it..its her choice which matters bec she was terribly wronged that day imo. She has her share of mistakes but that doesn't mean she deserved to be treated that way by mother son duo.

Abhim is a good father, a good son and a good person but he couldn't be a good husband . It's upto akshu to decide that .

Originally posted by: mickeym

yes correct , when Abhimanyu left her divorced her and threw her out from his life , I also hated that character and wanted him to realise his mistakes and Akshu should forgive it when she is willing to forgive .. this is what I felt .. even in real life also those who suffered like this really want the loved ones to come back repenting .. trying to move on with someone , whom we are not in love with is eventually a punishment to us only .. and Akshu is doing it .. we all know Akshu is trying to move on .. she is forcing herself ,,, this I never want

We all know end game will be Abhira unless HC quits the show. So Abhinav will exit now or later ,they may kill or he may leave Ak n Abhir to AbM and go for good. But why so much hatred and on mocking on him when he is only being nice and helping others?

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

That’s the reason u want Abhinav to die right? I am totally on ur original post that why so much hatred on a fictional character ? It only applies to AbM? And not AbN? Why r u taking it personally and wishing for his death.

We all know end game will be Abhira unless HC quits the show. So Abhinav will exit now or later ,they may kill or he may leave Ak n Abhir to AbM and go for good. But why so much hatred and on mocking on him when he is only being nice and helping others?

Originally posted by: mickeym

yes I want Abhinav to die for the reunion of abhira .. if Abhinav turns negative also fine for me .. it is not because I compared the characters to real life .. it is because I want the fairy tale like abhira story to bloom again.. I want to enjoy the beauty of their relationship again .. that I never find in between Abhinav and akshara ,, whenever I see them together I see full of awkwardness and tension and confusion .. I really don’t understand how you people find it beautiful 🤔

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

when u r asking others to forgive and forget a fictional character at the same time why r u wishing for death of the character ? people have different perspectives and different tastes. What u feel magic May not be the same for others.I don’t feel that magic in Abhira nor in Akshnav . but still I don’t judge ppl for liking them. Dont worry u will have ur Abhira soon or later.

Originally posted by: mickeym

because their scene is so artificial and iam not able to enjoy their scenes .. so there should be exit for him .. or else he can find somebody who loves him .. anyways he came in between abhira and he has to leave .. every fairy tale story should end up in the reunion of ml and fl ☺️