People take a chill pill

Some people on this forum are having a meltdown on Sahiba character, like calling her hypocrite etc which planet are they on as times have moved on and woman are strong, bold and vocal and are not afraid to call out things which are not right etc.

After reading the comments it makes me wonder if they are even watching the same show. There negativity is on another level on Sahiba who stands up for herself and is not afraid to call it for the BS that is dished out to her.

Thank god that she is not the typical meek silent victim wife we see on tv but is bold, but they want sahiba to worship Angad regardless of the abuse that he has dished out to her.

They don't want to see or realise that it has been shown that Sahiba is the main earner in the family and has for years worked from a young age and looked,after and supported her family and this will not stop just because She is married and totally unrealistic to expect her to do so.

Sahiba knows her family, and knows her mother who has used and abused Sahibs for her Princess Seerat who is a shrewd lady but Sahiba has yet to see her true face. So no surprise that that Sahiba sees her as a innocent victim but regardless of the fact, who would want there sister married to a womaiser like Garry. So She fought to cancel the marriage and no one understood her views on it but her father was forced to go along with it due to the house dramas etc.

Crazy Santish now expects Sahiba to overlook Seerat faults and look after her, really pathetic from a Mother, why to put such a burden on Sahiba.

But time will prove Sahiba right that this marriage is doomed and will bring disaster with it, be it Garry/Jasleen plotting to grab the business and Angad and Seerat dramas which Sahiba is unsure off.

But Keerat is well clued on to both of her sisters and knows Seerat very well and which is why she calls her Sindy Baby, which Seerat hates. She also knows her Santosh very well and extend that She has used Sahiba for.

This was a forced marriage for whatever reason to save family honour on both sides, so no surprise that Sahiba does not consider it a true marriage. This marriage is a formality to her and she has tried to leave many times but has been stopped by Dharji and Angad to think of her family etc.

Angad and Sahiba have clashed from the time that they have meet and he has accused her many things from being a golddigger to trying jump into bed with him. Not surprising that she is not happy etc.

He has abused her verbally and threatened her with jail from the time that they got married, in front of others and in private as well. He manhandles her and even tried to use force on her when he was drunk. Never believed her regarding Garry/Seerat but was always demanding proof and threats to throw her out of the house etc. Never has he apologised to her for the verval abuse that she went through after marriage and not once has it supported her.

The fact that he makes decisions without talking them through with Sahiba first and than expects her to follow them and be happy is beyond parody and plain arrogance and pathetic.

He suddenly flips like a seal on ice and expects her to be nice to him in public, when he has openly trashed her and suddenly he thinks that family will be worried, like seriously which planet is he one, when he has never shown her any empathy to her at all is really pathetic.

He expects her to accept money from him to save her Home after accusing her of being a gold digger is out of this world, Sahiba has her self respect which he did cross in this attempt to give her money. She accepted the money from him for the work that She did in the designs fair point on her part she issued him with a invoice.

The fact that has time to listen to Seerat weepy woes and promises to stand by her is crazy.

No wonder Sahiba is cheesed off, he has never bothered to listen or to support her is not nice.

He got the position of being the head of the Brar Empire by the virtue of being the son of the older Son, not by him working his way up, hence he does not understand Sahiba's passion for her Art and running her business which She started.

In top of it all he expects her to stay at home and enjoy the luxurious life after accusing her of marrying him for his money, really takes the buscuit and a half a tin with it.

Both of them are on different paths completely that they cannot see the woods from the trees.

And with Seerat being there is not going to help especially with the extremely foolish wish to stand by Seerat is a disaster which will come back to bite him. Will he interfere and come in between Seerat/Garry marriage when they have a tiff or if Seerat complains to him Garry or any treatment at the hands of his relatives will look foolish and not give out good vibes especially as he never stood up for Sahiba being his Wife etc.

Sahiba is right in saying to him that he is making promises without asking or thinking about it properly, which will come back to haunt him.

Sahiba needs to leave this toxic family and divorce Angad. She has lost her name that She earned in her Art and her Business is suffering because She married into the Brar family, which is a disaster for her as She is the sole earner for her family and its not fair to expect her give it all up just because She is Brar daughter in law.

Sahiba needs to leave and make a name for herself and be financially independent, if they want her to end up with Angad.

People need to chill out and move on with the times and not to hero worship the husband/wife, but see from both sides of the coin. After all you cannot clap with one hand, so why expect a one sided view of a marriage where its the girl who gives and the boy who takes....

absolutely spot on. She needs to leave brars asap.

Initially i wanted her to leave on her own because they are insulting her and harming her self respect but now i will even take Brars kicking her out. She needs to leave. period

The only gripe i have with sahiba is her Seerat Jaap. she should know by now how selfish her sister is and how she doesnt care about her family or others (read angad and brars on wedding day) to get what she wants. I am not saying she should disown her. But everytime defending her as if she is innocent and behaving as if she is a kid and cant see or decide her right and wrong is grating now.

i think here the writers have let sahiba down

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

absolutely spot on. She needs to leave brars asap.

Initially i wanted her to leave on her own because they are insulting her and harming her self respect but now i will even take Brars kicking her out. She needs to leave. period

The only gripe i have with sahiba is her Seerat Jaap. she should know by now how selfish her sister is and how she doesnt care about her family or others (read angad and brars on wedding day) to get what she wants. I am not saying she should disown her. But everytime defending her as if she is innocent and behaving as if she is a kid and cant see or decide her right and wrong is grating now.

i think here the writers have let sahiba down

Khori ki apni life thi ...but sahiba ka jeene ka ek hi maksad h seerat sahiba ka seerat jaap is so unrealistic and over the top arey bhai humne to aaj tak aisi behen nahi dekhi life mein jo apna sab kuch bhool kar din raat bas uski behen ko kya karna h kya khana h kab kaise Kya karna h kahin koi usko behelake kuch karwa na le uske fraud ko accept hi na karey itna pagalpan kahin nahi dekha itna to koi maa bhi apne bacho ko lekar nahi karti jitna sahiba seerat ko lekar pagal rehti h

This is so unrealistic

kam se kam writer ya cvs ko ye to dekhna chahiye

Sahiba k saamne ek din seerat ki reality aa jaaye to vo seerat ko angad dekar wahan se nikle bas or apne liye jiye ..

Angad or seerat ko milwakar nikle us ghar se ya seerat khud hi chaaley chal kar bahar nikalwa de kuch to ho

Sahiba apni khud ki life jeeye

Bas kuch bhi karke sahiba ko us jail se nikalo jahan p na sirf kaid Kiya jata h balki torture bhi kartey h roz ...

Sahiba apne aap se nahi jaati to koi or nikalo isko but bahar nikle is haunted brar house se

Lekin ek baar sahiba ko seerat ki reality zarur dikhana ho sakey to sahiba ko ye realise karwan ki jis family k liye vo jee rahi h sab kar rahi h vo uske pyar or sacrifice k kaabil nahi unke liye sahiba bas ek machine h jo unke matlab pura karti h

Useless ajeet kaamchor design karta tha na iski sirf job hi to gayi thi jab sahiba choti thi agar isko kahin or job nahi mili or apna khud ka koi kaam kar sakta tha designing ka artist tah to apna business kar sakta tha ye but nahi ye nikama ghar p baith gaya

Santosh ka gulaam Santosh kitna galat karti h iski bolti humesha band rehti h

Santosh or seerat to Maa nd behen k naam p kalank h Santosh ne humesha se seerat nd sahiba mein bhedbhaav kiya h kal tak seerat ko suna Rahi thi jab Garry se rishta hone laga gaya to babaji k warning k baad bhi seerat ka khayal rakhna sahiba sambhal legi iska pyar paisa or matlab dekhkar aata h betiyon k liye ...

Sirf ek keerat hi h jo sahiba ki parvaah karti h lekin keerat khud ko sambhal sakti h

I hope sahiba kisi dusre city mein jaaye in sabko chodkar apna career banane ...

Ek baar seerat ka asli roop saamne aa gaya to sahiba ka yakeen bhi uth jaaygea rishton par se usko pata chalega ki koi nahi h uska apna sab apne matlab k h

Well said! Lovely!! I just hope that Sahiba is not blinded by her love for her Seeratdi and Santosh! She can abuse Angad whatever and however she wants but she should not be in this marriage and Brar house amidst this duality of Angad! How much more does the writer want to make Angad fall?! He is married for gods sake! Whatever the case I am sure there will come a day when Sahiba will leave the house! But I just hope it comes sooner than expected! And hope that it will not be because of any mahanta but bcoz she learns about Angad Seerats affair! Or even better if the show shuts down! It wud be a huge relief! Who wants to see the same shit Ghum story again and again!🤮

I started to follow the Kannada version of this show recently! Thats 1000 times better than this non sense that is being meted out to us by Vankar! Even in that the heroine is well aware of her sisters doings and has been put in place by the heroine several times. And the hero has nothing to do with Seerat! Its so much watch able and relatable! And there are some good scenes for the lead pair and some growth in their relationship! This non sense is only limited to the Hindi version. Are the hindi audience more accepting of extra marital affairs that these guys show this kind of stuff! Vankar and his creativity!!

Originally posted by: vimeo

I started to follow the Kannada version of this show recently! Thats 1000 times better than this non sense that is being meted out to us by Vankar! Even in that the heroine is well aware of her sisters doings and has been put in place by the heroine several times. And the hero has nothing to do with Seerat! Its so much watch able and relatable! And there are some good scenes for the lead pair and some growth in their relationship! This non sense is only limited to the Hindi version. Are the hindi audience more accepting of extra marital affairs that these guys show this kind of stuff! Vankar and his creativity!!

Originally posted by: vimeo

I started to follow the Kannada version of this show recently! Thats 1000 times better than this non sense that is being meted out to us by Vankar! Even in that the heroine is well aware of her sisters doings and has been put in place by the heroine several times. And the hero has nothing to do with Seerat! Its so much watch able and relatable! And there are some good scenes for the lead pair and some growth in their relationship! This non sense is only limited to the Hindi version. Are the hindi audience more accepting of extra marital affairs that these guys show this kind of stuff! Vankar and his creativity!!

They aren't even accepting. The ratings have dipped, we lost slot leader position due to ring swap promo. But Vankar loves his devar bhabi love story.

I agree with all the point but can’t stand her nonsense about Seerat . I agree with her about working, her standing up for herself but her problem is Seerat and her mom. She sees little thru her mom too, but cannot see anything passed Seerat. She can be mean to Angad or for that matter Jasleen or even manveer but needs to be respectful with other elders in family. She should put her point accross nicely without her arrogance way and speak to the elders. She should speak clearly and respectfully with Daraji and Bebe.-about why she needs to work etc. she always comes off very arrogant while talking to even eleders in family.

Excuse me, I do not agree with this crap about being nice etc. And get it straight there is nothing wrong in being firm in one's views is not being arrogant.

Respect and beliefs is s 2 way street and being forceful expecting others to follow unrealistic norms, rules etc and forcefully expecting to carry out family functions just because you are the elder son and his wife, even when the elders know that the person is not agreement with the function is cruel and pathetic, like expecting Sahiba to arrange the wedding functions knowing that She is not happy with it is pathetic.

She is always respectable to Dharji and Brbeji, please give examples about your nonsense comments.

She has tried to explain but when the elders start imposing unrealistic expectations and demand that you give up your dreams and expectations is unrealistic and than threaten dire consequences if you do not agree etc in Sahiba case regarding her work is harassment and is a offence in India against newly married ladies, the writers need to be careful as it is crossing the line and if it was any other case it would and is a bookable harassment case.

For Sahiba this is a of marriage of convenience from both sides but She has lost more as the Brar name has damaged her business and art as no one is taking her seriously.

Sahiba needs to leave the Marriage and divorce, make her dreams come true and in the process I want Angad to court her properly and than marry her if this is the end game, do it properly and not a marriage where one has to leave there dreams etc for stupid and unjust views where a bride is expected to give up her dreams, jobs and responsibilities towards her family is pathetic.

You go Sahiba and stand up for your basic human rights to chase your dreams in art, business and look after your family, be bold, proud and if that comes with crys from the Aunties that you are arrogant so be it, the path to freedom is not easy.