Third Person Perspective-Epi- 939

1.Third person perspective- Really loved the episode. The drama can happen even when no one is playing evil.Rather, it touches you deep than OTT drama.

Somehow, I did not get irked when AK cared for AbhiM. Today, I felt that rather than jumping to the conclusion, I should watch the journey of a character. When I watch AK as a third person, I feel that she should come clear ASAP about AbhiN and should let him know what she thinks of him so he does not get hurt in future. But, then I realized that it is easy to tell someone else how to act, but are we not slave of complex emotions in our real life. AK is a living being with very very strong and complex past. She herself does not know clearly what is in her heart.Both AbhiN and AbhiN are clear with their perspective on AK. It is AK who is not clear and is making the journey. I will choose to keep patience to know what she feels as time passes by for either AbhiM or AbhiN. It may be possible that when in future if she chooses AbhiM over AbhiN, rather than feeling sad, I may feel happy as AbhiN got free from the clutches of a fake relationship. Who knows?

2. AK's care: AK cares for even her enemies. AbhiM and AbhiN both played/ play important role in her life so she caring for either (in different ways) looks natural. Unfortunately, her care is taken by each as a sign of her feelings for them. Atleast today, I felt that AK just cared for AbhiM. It was simple care for anyone whom you know and have loved deeply. People can and should interprete her actions differently. That is what beautiful writing is about.

Immediately, after she gave blanket to AbhiM, she said everything to him to protect AbhiN from getting hurt.

3. Abhir, the proxy of AbhiN: Abhir is legacy child of AbhiN. When AK and AbhiM were kiddishly fighting, Abhir' s presence was exact same as that would have been of AbhiN. Even if AbhiN exits the life of the trio physically, he is going live through Abhir.

If Abhira happens, Abhir will become parent of two kids. I so much want that boy to kick both AK and AbhiM and file for his own sole custody by AbhiN.

AbhiM's word can't be trusted even for a night. Just before going to sleep, he said that he can live under any circumstances for Abhir and threw tantrum in the morning over breakfast.

4. Living or leaving:Many people do stay in life of a friend who they know has feelings for them. Only WISE friends exit from life as they know that their presence would hurt their friend more and would not help them move on, even when they want to have that person as a friend. TBH, AbhiM is not a great friend to have and has never heard the word wisdom. He can not think anything but his obsession which is Abhir currently. There is no Ruhi in the picture. I do not see him missing her at all. He has chosen to live with his ex's family.

Same thing would have applied to AK, but she gets benefit of doubt because she has clear intentions to live with the her FAMILY as of now and the last thing she wants is AbhiM living with her family.

5. Thank you: Thank you has remained part of the conversation between AbhiN and AK all the time. When AK explained Abhir about his superpapa, AbhiN thanked AK. Same, AK did when AbhiN was overworking himself in UD for Abhir. There relationship has started on formal note but has become semiformal with so many years of staying together. Even after ' Ashiyana' idea by AK, AbhiN thanked her. To which she said, family never says, thank you. They are making the journey from formal to semiformal to nonformal.

6. Curiosity: On the side note, I have developed deep interest in AbhiN as a character and I wish to know in future about his background. I want to have that character a complete closure and hopefully a happy ending not necessarily with AK. Living in a loveless marriage is not happy ending. AK once thought that how she can pay him back. She can, by may be helping him find his identity which he misses immensely. Then, he might realize that it is not blood relations but heart relations that matter or at least find peace with himself by connecting ' khud se khud ka Rishta'

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Amazing as usual. Short but long lasting. That is what Abhinav's character is. It leaves you with a soothing presence. Loved the scene of Ruhi and Arohi. They are complete in their own. Poppy becoming papa will give them nothing but complexity and pain. Feeling bad for Akshara, love or no love, she is happy in her poor and struggling life. Nobody can deny that. Abhir will move away from her (the scene has its own significance) she will be left alone. Hope Nav remains her support only for her. Their relationship of naam ka Shaadi is of friendship, companionship. Is not that marriage all about. I agree with you I wat to see Nav happy - Akshara can help him to be happy by setting him free not insisting to be the Pita. Nav himself has accepted that he cannot be the Pita. Abhimanyu - I do not want to comment on him, however he is much well behaved if she is away from Manju. Manju seriously you are wishing that Abhir will be with you without Akshara. How can you even think of snatching the kid from his mom. Whereas you still control the life of your 40-year-old. She is full lady Gabbar. Tomorrow Nav will miss the bus- Abhi will sit with Abhir as father. More heartbreaks for Nav but poor people have to prioritize their livelihood. It is very difficult for both ends meet.

It's funny that you think normal nok jhok is the same as throwing tantrum and not adjusting. Even saying Abhir has to parent the two. Lol.

People can have all kinds of relationships. If you have seen Abhira in the past they were a very entertaining couple and had a lot of nok jhoks or even full on fights and then manofying. Maturity is a good thing to have in relationships, but if you have basically no spice then it gets too boring.

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

1.Third person perspective- Really loved the episode. The drama can happen even when no one is playing evil.Rather, it touches you deep than OTT drama.

Somehow, I did not get irked when AK cared for AbhiM. Today, I felt that rather than jumping to the conclusion, I should watch the journey of a character. When I watch AK as a third person, I feel that she should come clear ASAP about AbhiN and should let him know what she thinks of him so he does not get hurt in future. But, then I realized that it is easy to tell someone else how to act, but are we not slave of complex emotions in our real life. AK is a living being with very very strong and complex past. She herself does not know clearly what is in her heart.Both AbhiN and AbhiN are clear with their perspective on AK. It is AK who is not clear and is making the journey. I will choose to keep patience to know what she feels as time passes by for either AbhiM or AbhiN. It may be possible that when in future if she chooses AbhiM over AbhiN, rather than feeling sad, I may feel happy as AbhiN got free from the clutches of a fake relationship. Who knows?

2. AK's care: AK cares for even her enemies. AbhiM and AbhiN both played/ play important role in her life so she caring for either (in different ways) looks natural. Unfortunately, her care is taken by each as a sign of her feelings for them. Atleast today, I felt that AK just cared for AbhiM. It was simple care for anyone whom you know and have loved deeply. People can and should interprete her actions differently. That is what beautiful writing is about.

Immediately, after she gave blanket to AbhiM, she said everything to him to protect AbhiN from getting hurt.

3. Abhir, the proxy of AbhiN: Abhir is legacy child of AbhiN. When AK and AbhiM were kiddishly fighting, Abhir' s presence was exact same as that would have been of AbhiN. Even if AbhiN exits the life of the trio physically, he is going live through Abhir.

If Abhira happens, Abhir will become parent of two kids. I so much want that boy to kick both AK and AbhiM and file for his own sole custody by AbhiN.

AbhiM's word can't be trusted even for a night. Just before going to sleep, he said that he can live under any circumstances for Abhir and threw tantrum in the morning over breakfast.

4. Living or leaving:Many people do stay in life of a friend who they know has feelings for them. Only WISE friends exit from life as they know that their presence would hurt their friend more and would not help them move on, even when they want to have that person as a friend. TBH, AbhiM is not a great friend to have and has never heard the word wisdom. He can not think anything but his obsession which is Abhir currently. There is no Ruhi in the picture. I do not see him missing her at all. He has chosen to live with his ex's family.

Same thing would have applied to AK, but she gets benefit of doubt because she has clear intentions to live with the her FAMILY as of now and the last thing she wants is AbhiM living with her family.

5. Thank you: Thank you has remained part of the conversation between AbhiN and AK all the time. When AK explained Abhir about his superpapa, AbhiN thanked AK. Same, AK did when AbhiN was overworking himself in UD for Abhir. There relationship has started on formal note but has become semiformal with so many years of staying together. Even after ' Ashiyana' idea by AK, AbhiN thanked her. To which she said, family never says, thank you. They are making the journey from formal to semiformal to nonformal.

6. Curiosity: On the side note, I have developed deep interest in AbhiN as a character and I wish to know in future about his background. I want to have that character a complete closure and hopefully a happy ending not necessarily with AK. Living in a loveless marriage is not happy ending. AK once thought that how she can pay him back. She can, by may be helping him find his identity which he misses immensely. Then, he might realize that it is not blood relations but heart relations that matter or at least find peace with himself by connecting ' khud se khud ka Rishta'

Originally posted by: lagjagale

It's funny that you think normal nok jhok is the same as throwing tantrum and not adjusting. Even saying Abhir has to parent the two. Lol.

People can have all kinds of relationships. If you have seen Abhira in the past they were a very entertaining couple and had a lot of nok jhoks or even full on fights and then manofying. Maturity is a good thing to have in relationships, but if you have basically no spice then it gets too boring.

That’s the topic makers perspective. Just like this is yours, which I respect.

My perspective is , abhira has always been silly. What is “spice” to some , may not be “ spice” to other? WhAt was attractive when one was a teenager may not be appealing when one grows older.

While you ( I am guessing ) prefer to watch and like abhiM kinda love, my preference would be Abhinav’s soft nature and his soft way of flirting better.

What is entertaining to you may not be entertaining to others. That’s why there are different interpretations of an episode.

I agree that different people like different things. But Akshanv have nothing interesting in their relationship. Spice in a relationship is literally any kind of clash of personality. Which doesn't happen with Akshanv cause they are very similar and have no expectations with each other.

Soft nature and soft way of flirting is an interesting way of describing it. Is soft just meaning boring ? I agree that in real life someone would want something "soft", but on tv if its boring to watch, if there are no interesting dynamics, what's the point ?

Originally posted by: focus7

That’s the topic makers perspective. Just like this is yours, which I respect.

My perspective is , abhira has always been silly. What is “spice” to some , may not be “ spice” to other? WhAt was attractive when one was a teenager may not be appealing when one grows older.

While you ( I am guessing ) prefer to watch and like abhiM kinda love, my preference would be Abhinav’s soft nature and his soft way of flirting better.

What is entertaining to you may not be entertaining to others. That’s why there are different interpretations of an episode.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I agree that different people like different things. But Akshanv have nothing interesting in their relationship. Spice in a relationship is literally any kind of clash of personality. Which doesn't happen with Akshanv cause they are very similar and have no expectations with each other.

Soft nature and soft way of flirting is an interesting way of describing it. Is soft just meaning boring ? I agree that in real life someone would want something "soft", but on tv if its boring to watch, if there are no interesting dynamics, what's the point ?

Trp audience definitely don't like bland story. Sony ka trp toh hame patha hi hai. Which has smooth execution.

SP is greedy for trp. Woh thodi na apne show ko woh haalath hone dega. And on top of that the audience of 2000s are totally different than current audience. Earlier there was not much optioms even if the show is positive or negative chaltha tha as options were less back then. Or else which audience will accept anurag basu changing his wife like tissue paper. 😆

Now a days competition is very high. Dusre channels, regional channel hai, hai ott hai. They have to add drama to run a show. Isiliye toh har show main high voltage drama chal raha hai.

If they try to run a show like yrkkh 1 in this era. Nahi chalega. It will be like sony tv show. As audience will switch channel immediately or go to OTT.

SP will not afford it. So Birla's are very much needed to run the show. As they add drama in the show.

But not everyone found Akshnav scenes boring. Instead Abhira didn't attract TRP and their romance was more of teenagers that's why more divorces and Abhinav was introduced.

Like the other user mentioned it's different perspectives, if you conflict others thoughts you're also will be handled same way.

We have to accept we all have different opinions.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

But not everyone found Akshnav scenes boring. Instead Abhira didn't attract TRP and their romance was more of teenagers that's why more divorces and Abhinav was introduced.

Like the other user mentioned it's different perspectives, if you conflict others thoughts you're also will be handled same way.

We have to accept we all have different opinions.

I believe we all agree that the TRP audience hardly cares about ships or scenes. They need drama. Drama needs divorce and separation.

That's why post-leap promos pull a lot of new viewers as they see the promo they think the story is at an interesting point so let's give it a try.

Currently, Yrrkh is stagnant. They released multiple promos but there is no raise in trp.

That itself shows the promos are unable to pull new audiences.

Now they are left with 2 promos 1. Abhir realizes who is his papa & 2. Abhira reunion.

If these two tracks fail to pull trp then the show is doomed.