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Posted: 2 years ago
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The art of saying "NO".

Basically, Akshu lacks the art of saying "NO" and she is just going with the flow.

Definitely, she doesn't love Abhinav. If she really loved Abhinav,

1. She would have accepted this relationship long back and a trigger like Abrohi's marriage, Abhinav talking about handing them to Abhi won't be necessary for her to make her think she should move on.

2. She would have forgotten about most of the details of incidents that happened 6 years ago. But still, she remembers even a word of that phone call that happened 6 years ago!!!!

3. She would have been vocal about herself. She would have ensured nav knows about her present and past everything as a person who really wishes to move on will ensure that nothing will come in between in the future.

4. She would have not cared for Abhi when he met with an accident.

5. She will be honest with Nav which she is with Abhi.

  • When Abhi got a shoe she was honest with Abhi and made him realize it's not good. But when Nav got a shoe she just said Ajayenege isme joothe but her expression was not a happy expression and she could not tell him he should not spoil the kid.
  • When Abhir fell down from Abhinav's shoulder she could not question him why he is doing it with an ill child he should stop it now. But she openly questioned Abhi without his much fault. As she can be honest with him and need not hide her feelings.
  • When Abhinav shouted at Abhir, she could have questioned Abhinav why he is shouting at a ill child who is a heart patient but she could not.
  • When Abhinav asked her if he can hold her hand, Like how she denied abhir to play with him she could have done that but she agreed even though she was really not happy ignoring her work over this. As for her abhir's custody is more important.
  • She could not question him why he disclosed abhimanyu about Abhir's truth.
  • When abhi questioned her about if she is confident that if nav won't repeat, she got a flashback which says she is not sure internally but still she is unable to express it to him.

Her gratitude for Nav overtook her ability to express herself in front of him. With this in her mind, she will never be able to love him nor she will be able to move on in her life.

Dear Akshu, If you are doing it due to your gratitude please leave Abhinav ASAP. He deserves a better life. You need not accept Abhi. Be independent and raise your child on your own.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Thank you, for sharing your POV. You are on spot, when you said that AK should leave AbhiN ASAP if she is doing things out of gratitude.

The writing is very inconsistent and I think they want to keep both ships sailing with future options open... twin- flames or companionship love...more of twin flames though..

1. AbhiN has been very explicit is expressing himself. He said after accident case that ' The bond between AK and AbhiM is real', whereas theirs is not. He also said, ' I can't give you that grand love story' to which AK replied that she does not want that grand love story which can be taken by simple person like AbhiN that she wants to move on. I don't think AK said this statement out of gratitude.

2. When AbhiN withdrew emotionally ( he was doing all his duties though), AK panicked. She told Nilamma that will their relationship just remain for the namesake just like a picture. She also said, ' She wants full emotional involvement of AbhiN' that time. She also was in tears that time saying ' Aap mere pas hai par mere sath nahi hai..' She did not like his emotional detachment at all. She went overboard to get him released from jail. Before which she said, ' Apako hamesha mere sath hi rehana hai'... She was very much delighted that AbhiN restarted calling her ' Akshara' and not 'Aksharaji' after the release. She very well knew what AbhiN means when he is shifting back to calling her 'Akshara'.. He is taking it as a sign that even though she was madly in love with AbhiM in the past, she wants to move on.

3. AbhiN has never ever made physical advances in this relationship. It is AK who has given him hopes on multiple occaisions reg. the same. Today, AbhiN made the physical advance for the first time, but that too after AK gave him pep talk about how much she wants him physically, emotionally healthy and present in this battle where everyone is against her including Goenkas. One could clearly see that AbhiN took it as sign of love and hence, asked her if he could hold her hand.

4. If AK is doing what she is doing to AbhiN out of gratitude and out of need of a person who would be by her side as a rock, knowing very well how it feels to be in love with someone, is highly selfish and cruel.

5. Abhir and his Bolebhale Papa are two pure souls in this show. The way Abhir said to his papa, ' Aap mere sab kuch ho..' was bliss. Atleast someone loves each other for the sake of love in this show.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Thank you, for sharing your POV. You are on spot, when you said that AK should leave AbhiN ASAP if she is doing things out of gratitude.

The writing is very inconsistent and I think they want to keep both ships sailing with future options open... twin- flames or companionship love...more of twin flames though..

1. AbhiN has been very explicit is expressing himself. He said after accident case that ' The bond between AK and AbhiM is real', whereas theirs is not. He also said, ' I can't give you that grand love story' to which AK replied that she does not want that grand love story which can be taken by simple person like AbhiN that she wants to move on. I don't think AK said this statement out of gratitude.

2. When AbhiN withdrew emotionally ( he was doing all his duties though), AK panicked. She told Nilamma that will their relationship just remain for the namesake just like a picture. She also said, ' She wants full emotional involvement of AbhiN' that time. She also was in tears that time saying ' Aap mere pas hai par mere sath nahi hai..' She did not like his emotional detachment at all. She went overboard to get him released from jail. Before which she said, ' Apako hamesha mere sath hi rehana hai'... She was very much delighted that AbhiN restarted calling her ' Akshara' and not 'Aksharaji' after the release. She very well knew what AbhiN means when he is shifting back to calling her 'Akshara'.. He is taking it as a sign that even though she was madly in love with AbhiM in the past, she wants to move on.

3. AbhiN has never ever made physical advances in this relationship. It is AK who has given him hopes on multiple occaisions reg. the same. Today, AbhiN made the physical advance for the first time, but that too after AK gave him pep talk about how much she wants him physically, emotionally healthy and present in this battle where everyone is against her including Goenkas. One could clearly see that AbhiN took it as sign of love and hence, asked her if he could hold her hand.

4. If AK is doing what she is doing to AbhiN out of gratitude and out of need of a person who would be by her side as a rock, knowing very well how it feels to be in love with someone, is highly selfish and cruel.

5. Abhir and his Bolebhale Papa are two pure souls in this show. The way Abhir said to his papa, ' Aap mere sab kuch ho..' was bliss. Atleast someone loves each other for the sake of love in this show.

Yes i may have missed those scenes but reading it just felt this. she has one main characteristic which is evident from the beginning of s3. She can easily lie and make some one believe that she is not lying and she is happy. Abhira story itself started with a lie where she openly told infront of birla's she don't love abhi.

But silently she was dreaming about abhi, expecting him to be there with her and silently was arranging his birthday party.

The reason they have not give her any pov is because they want navra fans and abhira fans to hold on to this show. Abhira fans very well know she lies most of the time so they don't take her words seriously.

Even recently bp also pointed out again to tell her because of your lies your life has messed up and her telling abhir not to tell anyone what arohi said and lying to goneka about nav's accident gives that vibe that she still lies for others.which i see as something that again will get highlighted in future and she will get all the blames for ruining multiple lives.

And some scenes i have skipped but whatever scenes i have seen she constantly reminds herself abhir abhinav ke bina nahi reh saktha. Abhir ko neend bhi nahi aathi.

She is trying every possible way to control herself and getting intimate will put a fullstop to her heart as once that's done she might be thinking her heart will stop thinking about abhi and accept abhinav.

There were many scenes where akshu's dialgoue hinted that

"6 saal pehle bhi tumne issi tarah mera phone nahi uthaya tha" - if akshu was really moved on she would have felt happy that abhi did not picked up her phone and she met a better person. But she still seems to regretting loosing that life which she would have got if abhi picked up her phone. And her problem is not that abhi left her on white day her dialogues are majorly focused on abhi not picking up the phone calls as that would have changed her life that day.

There are some more such dialogues i don't exactly remember but where i felt she was still regretting on her decisions.


This is what i felt kal patha nahi writers kya dikhayenge 😂

Edited by firewings_diya - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
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Ak is this since day 1 how can someone trait gets changed.


Aarohi said after fire accident I want to marry abhi blue blue blah blah and ak in her gratitude on sirat kept quite neither saying yes or no. Making viewers confused what goes in her heart what she wants. Poora 3 months that time guessing game for us.


Now also same the person who she has gratitude is different until end moment she is pushed to corner nothing comes out of her mouth.


The one time she bursts she gives heart attack to all.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: hari15

Ak is this since day 1 how can someone trait gets changed.


Aarohi said after fire accident I want to marry abhi blue blue blah blah and ak in her gratitude on sirat kept quite neither saying yes or no. Making viewers confused what goes in her heart what she wants. Poora 3 months that time guessing game for us.


Now also same the person who she has gratitude is different until end moment she is pushed to corner nothing comes out of her mouth.


The one time she bursts she gives heart attack to all.

true. She is one of the unpredictable character. We can only determine her real feelings if we ignore her words and focus on her actions 😆

By looking at her actions she definitely not in love with nav. As she even lost her true self and finding excuses to tell ppl why they have not moved on in their relationship where as when she was with abhi she herself did lot of things to have those romantic moments which is clearly missing here.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

true. She is one of the unpredictable character. We can only determine her real feelings if we ignore her words and focus on her actions 😆

By looking at her actions she definitely not in love with nav. As she even lost her true self and finding excuses to tell ppl why they have not moved on in their relationship where as when she was with abhi she herself did lot of things to have those romantic moments which is clearly missing here.


Exactly ak and abhi both lost their true self only when they come near each other they show their zidd, anger, love, haq on each other rest all they adjust and sit like statue.


In abhira relationship when they cry or feel broken they understand eo they hold each other and cry hug or if they don't want to touch then also both stay away simply.


Nav ka relationship mein it's always dosti for ak. She only wished for her friend to open up and be the old friend she knew.


But nav took all initiative in that relationship. Be it a simple hair tie of ak Or when ak fell from jhula he initiated to come near ak at that time and ak had the same teary eyes she had today when nav asked her to hold hands.


How many times ak can tell nav again and again he is her friend friend friend. Next time if nav makes advances she has to shout at his face not to touch her.


When they are clearly showing heart connects with abhi what's with her loving nav. Nothing is more yuck than that.


More than akshu words what she does and how she reacts are the one that's needed. As her words are all nonsense but when it comes to actions the girl cries and makes us cry.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Akshu ka love Arohi aur Nav ke liye ek jaisa hai

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: hari15


Exactly ak and abhi both lost their true self only when they come near each other they show their zidd, anger, love, haq on each other rest all they adjust and sit like statue.


In abhira relationship when they cry or feel broken they understand eo they hold each other and cry hug or if they don't want to touch then also both stay away simply.


Nav ka relationship mein it's always dosti for ak. She only wished for her friend to open up and be the old friend she knew.


But nav took all initiative in that relationship. Be it a simple hair tie of ak Or when ak fell from jhula he initiated to come near ak at that time and ak had the same teary eyes she had today when nav asked her to hold hands.


How many times ak can tell nav again and again he is her friend friend friend. Next time if nav makes advances she has to shout at his face not to touch her.


When they are clearly showing heart connects with abhi what's with her loving nav. Nothing is more yuck than that.

As i know her from the beginning she gets into mode of sacrificing everytime.

1. When abhi openly confessed he loves akshu but when she saw arohi wants abhi she chose to lie for her happiness.

2. Now she waited for 6 long years in the hope abhi will come back and take her but eventually she got into a mess where abhir started loving abhinav and now she is feeling guilty to seperate them. She was waiting for abhi to reject abrohi marriage but abhi agreed as for him roohi is his only reason to live. When they asked akshu she realized she can not spoil arohi's life and the family that is built so she said she don't have a problem but when she saw abhi on death bed her feelings got triggered for sometime but all thanks to manju maatha for scaring her more.

3. When abhi proposed her she would have agreed if it she was not married, abhi was not engaged and manju would not have shown her extreme hate.

For her to express her feelings she needs a big trigger which can be either her son accepting abhi over abhin or abhin harming her son or something big happens like why abhi did not came to meet her or nav himself backs out telling her that she does not love him and makes abhira realize they love each other.

That's when she will open up. Even abhi's he needs a big trigger too as he also goes into baba manyu mode when situation goes out of control.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: hari15

Ak is this since day 1 how can someone trait gets changed.


Aarohi said after fire accident I want to marry abhi blue blue blah blah and ak in her gratitude on sirat kept quite neither saying yes or no. Making viewers confused what goes in her heart what she wants. Poora 3 months that time guessing game for us.


Now also same the person who she has gratitude is different until end moment she is pushed to corner nothing comes out of her mouth.


The one time she bursts she gives heart attack to all.

ayyo we know our akshu darling very well. She held sirat gratitude, deaths on mind and pacified ar till abhi got his realisation. The moment he questioned she confessed running o Kanha from window. She didn't look back at ar. She looked for her happiness. Next track mata harsh ka anniversary. She made a kachumber of them without knowing their past. Abhi got super angry and she jumped to gvs to avoid his wrath.Next day hd ran and shd hugged.Manju accepted her properly. Later on her job idhar udhar what she did is of her wish never listened to Abhis pic because it's her self esteem to get job. Finally she joined back after mahis request. Thd one who threw her got her back so she jumped to abhi. Next is kuku maya track. Kept on gun point , ak saved abhi and gave her voice to maya.She let them loot her voice in her name but she kept promise and held sick kv. She could have given evidence to police directly but gave her loved pati and mahima used it for her purpose. The moment kuku maya colours are out she ran leaving them on roads never cared anything. When ani truth is out she trusted abhi and he revoked it.The moment he confessed she jumped again.now great nav baba . Does he know what ak is or abhira love. Abhi already confessed ak and called her to him. If abhi said let's run away she could have thought immediately. Abhi knows her Patti connection and nothing there simply doing dance holding him . Nav is like a dog near grass heap .he feels he has food hd can't eat but won't let others eat. Coming next is by abhi that ak chale bhaag chale with abhir. And ak will jump no doubt. We love our abhira who are flawed but they kept their love strong.🤗
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

ayyo we know our akshu darling very well. She held sirat gratitude, deaths on mind and pacified ar till abhi got his realisation. The moment he questioned she confessed running o Kanha from window. She didn't look back at ar. She looked for her happiness. Next track mata harsh ka anniversary. She made a kachumber of them without knowing their past. Abhi got super angry and she jumped to gvs to avoid his wrath.Next day hd ran and shd hugged.Manju accepted her properly. Later on her job idhar udhar what she did is of her wish never listened to Abhis pic because it's her self esteem to get job. Finally she joined back after mahis request. Thd one who threw her got her back so she jumped to abhi. Next is kuku maya track. Kept on gun point , ak saved abhi and gave her voice to maya.She let them loot her voice in her name but she kept promise and held sick kv. She could have given evidence to police directly but gave her loved pati and mahima used it for her purpose. The moment kuku maya colours are out she ran leaving them on roads never cared anything. When ani truth is out she trusted abhi and he revoked it.The moment he confessed she jumped again.now great nav baba . Does he know what ak is or abhira love. Abhi already confessed ak and called her to him. If abhi said let's run away she could have thought immediately. Abhi knows her Patti connection and nothing there simply doing dance holding him . Nav is like a dog near grass heap .he feels he has food hd can't eat but won't let others eat. Coming next is by abhi that ak chale bhaag chale with abhir. And ak will jump no doubt. We love our abhira who are flawed but they kept their love strong.🤗

Kal agar koi akshu ko boldhe abhi jeene marne ke kagaar par hai hamari akshu phir devdas ki paro ban jayengi 😂 aur sab chod chad ke chal degi.

I still doubt abhira ka divorce paper submit hua hai ya nahi. Considering they have kept nav as not so well educated akshu ne shari ka tham jham bhi khud kiya hoga.

Pura story ghoom jayega if they show on court day abhi ne divorce paper submit nahi kiya na akshu ne marriage registration paper 😂

Ye dono ussi ke liye jaane jaathe hai silently accha kaam karne ka 😂

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