• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 88

Idk why calling out for displaying regressive mentality & misogyny is violation of rules considered personal attack but not insinuation of things like child molestation isn't when nothing of that sort has been shown on the show or any indication... Or shaming women by using deliberately nachnewali as a slur.

What you should call when it's okay justified if a guy (especially to his brother's widow & tormentor of previous wife so-called love) shares same bed sleeps under same blanket, cuddles on bed, what not but woman needs to let go all of that, shouldn't do any of that what the guy did, it's sin shouldn't be called regressiveness!

I too can't stand ASB troll her but to the extent I see a vengeance against her as BlueSha couldn't happen in real or she's hated, her husband's behaviour blame is put on her as she's the antagonist. Just like her on-screen ckt. And saying things like she's making it look like Pakhi is seducing Vinu on-screen what not!

What kind of rules is this!

Originally posted by: nikita05

Is it just me or anyone else feel the same?

1. The irritation i feel for Sai, is getting deflected to Ayesha as well, i mean i know she is doing her work and script writers are deciding it but still and her acting chops are also not upto the mark. At this point, Ayesha/ Sai are following Neil/ V footsteps, in my mind and people really know what i feel for latter, not that it matters but still (no offence to Ayesha stans)

2. When we craved for SaiRat scenes when they were in prime, they showed toxicity, rushed through the re marriage phase with that senior thorat, Jaggy, Sammy's death, surrogacy and separation, now they are showing recently shot scenes as flashbacks which evoke disgust in me, seeing them.

Vanku first lost his golden goose SaiRat, now he also lost the OG Sai, can he soon lose all the TRPs, anyways all his other shows are either off air or soon will be, this one should too.

No matter how much people deny but actors (especially TV actors) are good as their characters.

Many actors who stereotyped into playing negative role are hated by most audience despite them being gentlemen in RL - many heros who are trash in RL are still hailed heros cause audience cant break free of their onscreen hero images- unless they actively engaged w audience through SM and never defended the negative shade they played

What makes them likable in real life is their interaction with viewers as themselves and not characters- and when they do that they need to be open and acceptive about character flaws. Most actors who ate loved for plying grey black characters are the ones who never defended those characters and proudly said we are playing a character-something no one should be.

That is where Bs and PH failed. Play whatever shade on earth you want but just don’t come and defend those actions- that was the issue. A lawyer giving IV saying his character locked his wife as disciplinary action and he is not wrong in his place sets tone. Even if you are asked to do that by PH- there are personal boundaries people draw.
Like I will pay you to say/do this- but its my choice if I agree to do that or not.

And he always seem to have a choice- he chose not to promote Sairat- I am sure PH would have not denied him from doing that- so he has a choice to do it or not do it and out of all he choose to defend abusive character and give ‘positive’ POV of abusive actions. Again- Good for him!
But doing that he lost a place in my eyes.


With Ayesha- she seem to go for- dont indulge, do your work and be done. Which is fine and how it should be in most cases but here its issue because its known for a while that her character is most loved/accepted but since long that love is only misused. Kind of lure viewers with Sai and show triggering victim blaming, shaming and ww of abusers. My only wish is - kash she used the love and support she was given to demand some change in ‘narrative’ not story but ‘narrative’. One qhere you show wrongdoings as they happen in real life but also show- It is wrong! Instead of glorification of it.

If I know my employer is wrong and still I choose to play along, especially when I am in position to leverage my wight and still stay silent- its my fault.
However - I am not done with this still- I still feel a person like her would not stay true to such regressive content. I have a positive prediction and I will wait till this generation story ends to see if its true or we are fooled again. That will make me admire the person Ayesha.

As actor she has more strength than weakness IMO but Ghum’s crass story since Shruti track has not utilized it.

Few of her scenes that I would watch again n again are- Her breakdown after Aba’s death, Her first night in CN(alone in room), Her breakdown post Vinu’s rejection, Her scene w Virat when she was dancing in her room first time (mohe rang do lal wala- mostly for ahort conversation after), Few more scenes post her marriage w Virat where she shows confused with his ever flip flopping behavior

Closing my post (rant, opinion, blabbering or whatever you call it) with one of my favorite VM of Sai tht captures all minute scenes of Ayesha I loved - I wish someone makes an extended version of it.🥺

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CLtmH9XHq4o/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Originally posted by: Sab07

No matter how much people deny but actors (especially TV actors) are good as their characters.

Many actors who stereotyped into playing negative role are hated by most audience despite them being gentlemen in RL - many heros who are trash in RL are still hailed heros cause audience cant break free of their onscreen hero images- unless they actively engaged w audience through SM and never defended the negative shade they played

What makes them likable in real life is their interaction with viewers as themselves and not characters- and when they do that they need to be open and acceptive about character flaws. Most actors who ate loved for plying grey black characters are the ones who never defended those characters and proudly said we are playing a character-something no one should be.

That is where Bs and PH failed. Play whatever shade on earth you want but just don’t come and defend those actions- that was the issue. A lawyer giving IV saying his character locked his wife as disciplinary action and he is not wrong in his place sets tone. Even if you are asked to do that by PH- there are personal boundaries people draw.
Like I will pay you to say/do this- but its my choice if I agree to do that or not.

And he always seem to have a choice- he chose not to promote Sairat- I am sure PH would have not denied him from doing that- so he has a choice to do it or not do it and out of all he choose to defend abusive character and give ‘positive’ POV of abusive actions. Again- Good for him!
But doing that he lost a place in my eyes.


With Ayesha- she seem to go for- dont indulge, do your work and be done. Which is fine and how it should be in most cases but here its issue because its known for a while that her character is most loved/accepted but since long that love is only misused. Kind of lure viewers with Sai and show triggering victim blaming, shaming and ww of abusers. My only wish is - kash she used the love and support she was given to demand some change in ‘narrative’ not story but ‘narrative’. One qhere you show wrongdoings as they happen in real life but also show- It is wrong! Instead of glorification of it.

If I know my employer is wrong and still I choose to play along, especially when I am in position to leverage my wight and still stay silent- its my fault.
However - I am not done with this still- I still feel a person like her would not stay true to such regressive content. I have a positive prediction and I will wait till this generation story ends to see if its true or we are fooled again. That will make me admire the person Ayesha.

As actor she has more strength than weakness IMO but Ghum’s crass story since Shruti track has not utilized it.

Few of her scenes that I would watch again n again are- Her breakdown after Aba’s death, Her first night in CN(alone in room), Her breakdown post Vinu’s rejection, Her scene w Virat when she was dancing in her room first time (mohe rang do lal wala- mostly for ahort conversation after), Few more scenes post her marriage w Virat where she shows confused with his ever flip flopping behavior

Closing my post (rant, opinion, blabbering or whatever you call it) with one of my favorite VM of Sai tht captures all minute scenes of Ayesha I loved - I wish someone makes an extended version of it.🥺

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CLtmH9XHq4o/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This vm makes me even more angry at Sai..She forgot what she hasd to deal with in a deal marriage and does not even once tries to think how Satya might feel given she has gone through it all.

i also hate what Sai has been reduced to.

theres a slight difference though in the 2 deal marriages. In Sai V deal- he was "committed" but he still used to lead Sai on. he'd be touchy, he used to deny feelings for P, he used to have interactions with P behind Sai's back which he knew was inappropriate and despite being privy to the stuff P said, he used to pretend as if Sai was delusional when she accused him and P of being more than friends. In the Satya Sai relationship, both said that they cant love another person again. Sai doesnt lead him on- infact she is upfront about not being ok with many of these things- touchiness, puja, dinner, dates, honeymoon etc and even asked him- are you getting feelings for me - because she wants to be clear about not giving any wrong signals to him. And theres nothing behind Satya's back. jo hai, saamne hai even though its kinda sad. she is not hiding anything from him.

they are butchering Sai by making her tolerate V the abuser and condoning his behavior and putting innocent people through the consequences of Vs tamashas- but even in Sai's worst phase right now V is still the most despicable character ever.

Vanku yaad hai naaa...

Originally posted by: Sab07

No matter how much people deny but actors (especially TV actors) are good as their characters.

Many actors who stereotyped into playing negative role are hated by most audience despite them being gentlemen in RL - many heros who are trash in RL are still hailed heros cause audience cant break free of their onscreen hero images- unless they actively engaged w audience through SM and never defended the negative shade they played

What makes them likable in real life is their interaction with viewers as themselves and not characters- and when they do that they need to be open and acceptive about character flaws. Most actors who ate loved for plying grey black characters are the ones who never defended those characters and proudly said we are playing a character-something no one should be.

That is where Bs and PH failed. Play whatever shade on earth you want but just don’t come and defend those actions- that was the issue. A lawyer giving IV saying his character locked his wife as disciplinary action and he is not wrong in his place sets tone. Even if you are asked to do that by PH- there are personal boundaries people draw.
Like I will pay you to say/do this- but its my choice if I agree to do that or not.

And he always seem to have a choice- he chose not to promote Sairat- I am sure PH would have not denied him from doing that- so he has a choice to do it or not do it and out of all he choose to defend abusive character and give ‘positive’ POV of abusive actions. Again- Good for him!
But doing that he lost a place in my eyes.


With Ayesha- she seem to go for- dont indulge, do your work and be done. Which is fine and how it should be in most cases but here its issue because its known for a while that her character is most loved/accepted but since long that love is only misused. Kind of lure viewers with Sai and show triggering victim blaming, shaming and ww of abusers. My only wish is - kash she used the love and support she was given to demand some change in ‘narrative’ not story but ‘narrative’. One qhere you show wrongdoings as they happen in real life but also show- It is wrong! Instead of glorification of it.

If I know my employer is wrong and still I choose to play along, especially when I am in position to leverage my wight and still stay silent- its my fault.
However - I am not done with this still- I still feel a person like her would not stay true to such regressive content. I have a positive prediction and I will wait till this generation story ends to see if its true or we are fooled again. That will make me admire the person Ayesha.

As actor she has more strength than weakness IMO but Ghum’s crass story since Shruti track has not utilized it.

Few of her scenes that I would watch again n again are- Her breakdown after Aba’s death, Her first night in CN(alone in room), Her breakdown post Vinu’s rejection, Her scene w Virat when she was dancing in her room first time (mohe rang do lal wala- mostly for ahort conversation after), Few more scenes post her marriage w Virat where she shows confused with his ever flip flopping behavior

Closing my post (rant, opinion, blabbering or whatever you call it) with one of my favorite VM of Sai tht captures all minute scenes of Ayesha I loved - I wish someone makes an extended version of it.🥺

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CLtmH9XHq4o/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Originally posted by: kashmayurfan

This post 🙌 How do you always put it out so nicely ? 😭 Whatever your prediction is, I hope it becomes true !

Awee thank you ❤️
With each passing episode and spoiler- the hope is getting low but lets see.

I am so upset with this one more month thing- why can’t they just end it? One more month means one more month of whitewashing Virat, justifying PL and blaming Sai.

You know what’s frustrating?

PL was shown full blown negative - but they whitewashed her. Legit 2.5 years and 800+ episodes of her meddling in Sai’s life, Virat letting that happen BUT he gets free pass as lover. BUT Sai’s decision to remarry will be highlighted again and again as wrong, Satya will be shown negative and all blame of broken relationship and kids life falls on Sai!

I just hate such one sided narrative.

I feel so betrayed and frustrated- Having patiently seat through Virakhi era to see something good happen to Sai, her get justice but instead we get to see her being established as wrong! Every thing Virat and PL did is being justified through her!! All those long emails from Channel about PL being established antagonist and bla bla bla was just to fool us so they serve us this twisted story.

How low they can stoop?? If they always wanted to show Virakhi positive then why make them do all crimes and kaands? I really wish someone held this PH, team and channel accountable for this pathetic narrative.

I even hold actors responsible too- for whatever reason - them agreeing to story that is setting such regressive end message . Once again Not against them playing regressive shades- but to play characters that justifies that shade in name of love or whatever.

Showing whatever Sai and Virat had is great love is disgusting, to show Sai’s efforts of breaking free from him as mistake and zamane ka thappad is even worse, to show Sai learn lesson that whatever PL did w Sam or Virat did w PL - I just cant . They should never have shown so much abuse and toxicity if this is what they wanted to show in the end.

I wish this PH dries out or is banned n is not allowed to make any shows coz they have made regressive shit inly- KKIS, CS n now TMD are all examples.

Agree 100%

I'm hoping that in the month left we may get a few good scenes of Sai with kids though and Sai Satya bonding at least as friends before the BS ending.

It's definitely super frustrating that Sai only gets blame for doing the right thing always.

Its super frustrating that she will conclude that she should go back to her abuser.

Theres definitely no accountability for such trash content and thats the most frustrating bit. That abise is casually glorified as love and no one except some of us in audience is even batting an eyelid.

When mainstream content reinforces such narratives it causes problems. People don't realize the impact all this content has on the people especially women watching.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Agree 100%

I'm hoping that in the month left we may get a few good scenes of Sai with kids though and Sai Satya bonding at least as friends before the BS ending.

Seeing what they have shown so far its better they show Sai move on alone- or atleast wanting to do that and then dies un accident.

But her still being in love and pinning is so out of place while all she is getting till date is verbal abuse and hate from her so called love.

They should kill off Sai or make her MIA - then show Virat DDP if they wish to show him so heart broken bla bla for rest of the weeks.

Just put an end to this parallels and justifying of Virakhi.