Real test of rishtey

Today episode was surprisingly good. As I said I do not find any ckt borring or irritating. I am just try to understand everyone circumstances & reaction. Everyone r reacting as expected. Surprisingly Abhimanyu seems mature today tried to understand Akshara, handle both of kids. Abhir don't want to disappoint Ruhi. New track is also added without ending last track. Muskan kairav love story. Everything is perfectly on their place. So the execution was perfect.

The test is begin b/w AkshNav relationship. They handle eachother for 6 yrs as a friend or as a parents. But husband wife relationship is different. So their compatibility test had begun. AK was right Nav just overburden himself to want to compare himself with Abhimanyu. As I also understand his monologue. But how can AK do the personal attack? Wo thode na gareeb aur pagal hai. May be some family history. Unke karname hi itne bade hain.

Plz abhir ki surgery karwa do ab. Just finish at least one track.

I feel like they will come through this just fine. Abhinav knows how to console Ak. He also knows how to manipulate her. I think Ak may feel doubts, but Abhinav will play AA and convince her it's okay. Whatever he is doing is for them. That has been the trend with them. Whenever Ak has problems with Abhi, they fight about it like children ( even before ). Whenever Ak has problems with Nav, he convinces her and tries to work through her stubbornness instead of going against it. Besides, in a lot of ways, Ak feels burdened by Nav's goodness and cannot go against him too much.

I will take AKs words literally, abhinav has been supportive, we can’t use the words manipulative there. As per what’s shown, he has never forced her to do anything except for coming to Udaipur for abhira treatment.

Talking it out and giving his PoV in a calm manner is not manipulative. Plus post leap AK has never held back, and she wouldn’t stop voicing her opinions or concerns.As far as I have seen, a good quality about him is he listens and he respects. Now in this new world where he has no roots , things are shaking up and it can go anyway

AK is feeling burdened because she isn’t in love with him as he is, not cos of his goodness.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Don't come at my post if u want to degrade Abhinav without any reason. I don't know why u people r so stubborn who can't digest this fact he is a better person. Can't u expect something good from ur favourite ckt. I can't defend him anymore. I am seriously trying to understand every ckt. For me no one is -ve.

Who is manipulator for u he is sorted person for me. It's his ckt that's why I like him.

There has been a lot of instances where it is clear he manipulates her (first Udaipur trip for example). I wouldn't put it in the same category as Arohi's manipulations or anything that vicious. Most of the time he does it to get through Ak's stubbornness. I am not blaming him here. I am saying they fit better together cause unlike Abhi who just resorts to blames and anger, Nav actually listens. But more importantly he knows how to deal with Ak.

In my opinion, Ak is extremely stubborn and self righteous. It is hard to talk sense into her when she has her mind set on something. Abhi never understood that, he always tried to reason with her and that pretty much never worked and then he would be like why don't you ever listen to me. Nav on the other hand, manipulates Ak into realizing that she herself is wrong. It's different ways of dealing and that is all I was illustrating.

And Ak is burdened by Nav's goodness. She doesn't consider him her husband or an equal, but actually as a saviour. We have seen this multiple times where she attributes her life and her child's life to Abhinav. Let's take for example, when Abhi saved Ak's life and sacrificed his hand by mistake. Back then Ak didn't feel indebted to Abhi, she just felt like she wanted to help him get better. But here, every action that Abhinav takes makes Ak feel indebted to him. This gives Nav a huge power on Ak - he never uses much less abuses it. But at the end of the day, Ak still feels it. This was my other reason for why the issues won't be too big and Navshu will handle them at least at the moment.

I don’t think AK going against what Abhimanyu has told her is because of her being stubborn .. she does not set out to go against him in her zidd or anything .. mostky circumstances and her nature of wanting to make people feel better or smooth out ruffles is how I have seen it .. but I could be missing instances where her zidd caused problems between them ..

Originally posted by: lagjagale

There has been a lot of instances where it is clear he manipulates her (first Udaipur trip for example). I wouldn't put it in the same category as Arohi's manipulations or anything that vicious. Most of the time he does it to get through Ak's stubbornness. I am not blaming him here. I am saying they fit better together cause unlike Abhi who just resorts to blames and anger, Nav actually listens. But more importantly he knows how to deal with Ak.

In my opinion, Ak is extremely stubborn and self righteous. It is hard to talk sense into her when she has her mind set on something. Abhi never understood that, he always tried to reason with her and that pretty much never worked and then he would be like why don't you ever listen to me. Nav on the other hand, manipulates Ak into realizing that she herself is wrong. It's different ways of dealing and that is all I was illustrating.

And Ak is burdened by Nav's goodness. She doesn't consider him her husband or an equal, but actually as a saviour. We have seen this multiple times where she attributes her life and her child's life to Abhinav. Let's take for example, when Abhi saved Ak's life and sacrificed his hand by mistake. Back then Ak didn't feel indebted to Abhi, she just felt like she wanted to help him get better. But here, every action that Abhinav takes makes Ak feel indebted to him. This gives Nav a huge power on Ak - he never uses much less abuses it. But at the end of the day, Ak still feels it. This was my other reason for why the issues won't be too big and Navshu will handle them at least at the moment.

Sorry, but I am just going to disengage. I have no interest in defending Abhi or dissecting Ak's motivations. The initial post referred to Navshu facing challenges in the next couple of days and I think they will come through them even if in the precap it seems Ak is angry with Nav. I gave my reasoning for why I believe that. That's it. If you have a different opinion of Navshu as couple, we can definitely talk about it. But this Abhi vs Nav debate is getting too much. Everything doesn't need to be Abhi vs Nav. We all have different ideas, but the current discussion is about how the story will move forward. Not which character is good/bad or who Ak loves.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

There has been a lot of instances where it is clear he manipulates her (first Udaipur trip for example). I wouldn't put it in the same category as Arohi's manipulations or anything that vicious. Most of the time he does it to get through Ak's stubbornness. I am not blaming him here. I am saying they fit better together cause unlike Abhi who just resorts to blames and anger, Nav actually listens. But more importantly he knows how to deal with Ak.

In my opinion, Ak is extremely stubborn and self righteous. It is hard to talk sense into her when she has her mind set on something. Abhi never understood that, he always tried to reason with her and that pretty much never worked and then he would be like why don't you ever listen to me. Nav on the other hand, manipulates Ak into realizing that she herself is wrong. It's different ways of dealing and that is all I was illustrating.

And Ak is burdened by Nav's goodness. She doesn't consider him her husband or an equal, but actually as a saviour. We have seen this multiple times where she attributes her life and her child's life to Abhinav. Let's take for example, when Abhi saved Ak's life and sacrificed his hand by mistake. Back then Ak didn't feel indebted to Abhi, she just felt like she wanted to help him get better. But here, every action that Abhinav takes makes Ak feel indebted to him. This gives Nav a huge power on Ak - he never uses much less abuses it. But at the end of the day, Ak still feels it. This was my other reason for why the issues won't be too big and Navshu will handle them at least at the moment.

Again manipulation if he knows that how to deal with the situation so it's manipulation. Why this particular words used by these people? What wrong he did? AK is his family. Wo uske liye Jo bhi karega wo ehsaan nahi farz kahlayega same go with AK.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Sorry, but I am just going to disengage. I have no interest in defending Abhi or dissecting Ak's motivations. The initial post referred to Navshu facing challenges in the next couple of days and I think they will come through them even if in the precap it seems Ak is angry with Nav. I gave my reasoning for why I believe that. That's it. If you have a different opinion of Navshu as couple, we can definitely talk about it. But this Abhi vs Nav debate is getting too much. Everything doesn't need to be Abhi vs Nav. We all have different ideas, but the current discussion is about how the story will move forward. Not which character is good/bad or who Ak loves.

Honestly I'd no intentions of attacking or dissecting anything. TM's post wasn't even about Manyu or Nav.. you mentioned stuff like Manyu reasoned, resorted to blame, saved Ak. Nav manipulated since UD.

I've no issues if you've diff opinion of Akshnav or any ckt. This forum is literally divided in half. I just disagreed with what u said and hence gave my reasoning.

I think that's it. Have a good day.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

There has been a lot of instances where it is clear he manipulates her (first Udaipur trip for example). I wouldn't put it in the same category as Arohi's manipulations or anything that vicious. Most of the time he does it to get through Ak's stubbornness. I am not blaming him here. I am saying they fit better together cause unlike Abhi who just resorts to blames and anger, Nav actually listens. But more importantly he knows how to deal with Ak.

In my opinion, Ak is extremely stubborn and self righteous. It is hard to talk sense into her when she has her mind set on something. Abhi never understood that, he always tried to reason with her and that pretty much never worked and then he would be like why don't you ever listen to me. Nav on the other hand, manipulates Ak into realizing that she herself is wrong. It's different ways of dealing and that is all I was illustrating.

And Ak is burdened by Nav's goodness. She doesn't consider him her husband or an equal, but actually as a saviour. We have seen this multiple times where she attributes her life and her child's life to Abhinav. Let's take for example, when Abhi saved Ak's life and sacrificed his hand by mistake. Back then Ak didn't feel indebted to Abhi, she just felt like she wanted to help him get better. But here, every action that Abhinav takes makes Ak feel indebted to him. This gives Nav a huge power on Ak - he never uses much less abuses it. But at the end of the day, Ak still feels it. This was my other reason for why the issues won't be too big and Navshu will handle them at least at the moment.

@bold True

Abhi saved her and kids in jungle before the leap. She did not felt indebted to him.

Abhi lost his potential to perform surgery she did not felt guilty or indebted to him.

Abhi has saved lot of her family members (bp,arohi, mimi and herself) she did not felt indebted to him as she loved him.

Akshu saved abhi from fire

Akshu saved abhi's hand

Akshu was his emotional support.

That's how they made it even. But here i don't think akshu is showing that effort except sacrificing her law exam and sacrificing her luxurious life.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

@bold True

Abhi saved her and kids in jungle before the leap. She did not felt indebted to him.

Abhi lost his potential to perform surgery she did not felt guilty or indebted to him.

Abhi has saved lot of her family members (bp,arohi, mimi and herself) she did not felt indebted to him as she loved him.

Akshu saved abhi from fire

Akshu saved abhi's hand

Akshu was his emotional support.

That's how they made it even. But here i don't think akshu is showing that effort except sacrificing her law exam and sacrificing her luxurious life.

Exactly my point. It's funny that a lot of people have talked about Abhi having saviour complex but Ak never viewed him like that. I am not saying if Abhi does or does not have saviour complex. But Ak does feel like Abhinav is her saviour and she is indebted to him. Someone has also mentioned it might be because she is not able to reciprocate his love and of course that is also a part of it. But what he did for them during her pregnancy is always going to overshadow their whole relationship.