Kairav, Akshara and Abhimanyu

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Posted: 3 years ago
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First of all, I don't even wanna put their names together. Blah 😤


Now, this is I trying to analyse yesterday's and today's episode, majorly yesterday's. I don't know, let's just see where it goes.

@solembaum, read your post. I was planning to make one, and this might also have a response to yours or at least my take.

I have to talk about Kairav guys, before we jump into Bakrira 😅

Why is Kairav Goenka trying to be another Abhimanyu Birla? It didn't occur to me first. Now it makes sense. His beloved sister disappeared for 6 years and he didn't go look for and was angry with her because she didn't come to HIM? He made her misery about HIMSELF. And now he has gone ahead and has done his marmaani with his sister's child without even consulting her and her husband in the name of protecting them. Also, the tashan at Muskaan's alliance meeting. He could have calmly talked. No, he had to make a scene. Take the phone and freaking break it? If i can remember he has manhandled Muskaan too a couple of times. Doesn't it remind you of ours truly? But do people love Kairav for it? Nah, he is a sidey and not as hot as Betamanyu, right?


Now, let's talk about Akshara and the accusation she faced that she was taking revenge on Abhimanyu by hiding her child? Lol. This dude is obsessed with himself. Any decision anyone takes has to be centered around him, right?

I will probably start sounding like a broken record now but so is freaking Akshara and Abhimanyu. Anyway, Akshara was thrown out mercilessly like a tissue paper by Abhimanyu and his mom. To do that to a woman who just miscarried is nothing less than mental abuse and domestic violence. Does anyone who truly loved you, would do it you? I have read Abhimanyu loves Akshara, it just that he loses his control when gets angry and once he calms down he keeps coming back to her. It's not love. It is a toxic co-dependent relationship which is literally what Abhira's relationship is. Because he loves his mom and he has never let his anger inflict direct pain on his mom. Never ever blamed her for things she outrightly, explicitly did.

Now, Akshara is a broken shell of herself, discarded by probably the most important person in her life. And she finds a glimmer of hope when she realises her baby is alive. So, she reaches out to Abhimanyu. I honestly do not think she was thinking far ahead in the future at that point that Abhimanyu will come running and they will be a happy family again. She was completely in the moment. She realised her baby is alive and wants to let the most important person in her life know, so she calls him, begs him for a chance to talk. The harsh way Abhimanyu behaved made her realise how much hatred he has for her. She is witnessing someone at their cruellest and it is like a hard realisation that is hitting her on her face that her existence means nothing to this guy that he isn't even willing to give her 5 minutes of his life. So she gives up. She closes the door towards a past life where no one wanted anything to do with her. That's all about it. I don't think from her perspective she was looking forward to have a happy family with Abhimanyu after all the tragedy. It is just that need to share the glimmering hope in their life.

But again, I wish she disliked her maternal family as well. And of course she doesn't owe them any information considering they didn't give a damn about her either. She does have self respect because she decided not to let people use her like a baby churning machine. Like her importance is not just associated with her ability to make babies. She was at least sure of that. But I dislike that she doesn't stand up against Goenkas.


And Abhimanyu, what do I even say about him, guys? The same old, the same old. Even when he turns 90, this is guy is not gonna have any character growth. Self obsessed narcissistic piece of shit. Like you could have texted, emailed and told Rohan? Really? Is this guy for real? He can discard people according to his whims but everyone else around him should bent down backwards so that he can fulfill his duty? What does this guy think, yo? That the universe literally revolves around him? I think yes, because Akshu not revolving around only him was his main trauma in life. 🙄 The audacity to expect people to do everything for him and the privilege that reeks. Oh, God!


And Manish, what a piece of shit again. I liked him much better when he detested Abhimanyu. I don't understand where his love for Abhimanyu is even coming from that he is even against Kairav and Akshara? Manjari is so obssessd she can't see anything else other than her son and her pota now. But Manish also need to be obssessd with Abhimanyu? Dude, freaking take care of your grand children. Enough of obsessing with a deranged psycho who threw your grand daughter to the dogs few years back. What the hell is wrong with the families in the show? And why isn't Akshara questioning him. I can't.

The only sane family in this show was Sharma family and I am not even getting that. 😔

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Word.

When fans are like Akshara yeh kr skti thi woh krskti but no one is asking Abhimanyu bhi toh bht kuch theek krskta tha.

Everyday i visit forum first and then decide if it's worth to even read the Written update.

Yesterday i watched and was so disappointed like AbhiM has zero character growth what happened to that shaanth guy in Kasauli or is it better he stopped believing in Shiv ji that time coz ever since he started believing again he is the worst.


I watched a glimse of Katha as someone said to. I liked it. Most probably will start watching that 🙌🏻

Posted: 3 years ago
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This show isn't worth so much of magaj ka dahi!! This show has totally destroyed the whole basis of family bonds of yrkkh...


Do you not know Abhimanyu is god? He is the center of the universe and so called - Keesmat is always by his side! Akshu herself said that and I am 110% sure her words are inspired by Twitter and IF... 😆 The way they dealt with Neil was abrupt and Abhimanyu's constant jaap of Ruhi and Abhir being his Dil and Dhadkan, bhai kaunsa family member iska brain hai? Majiri? Like Arohi is currently being little more sensible right now... All her and Akshu's fears were absolutely right!! Abhimanyu has started totally ignoring Ruhi and all but atleast Abhir is trying to mend the way!! He really does love everyone, Abhir is seriously cutest of all, and I love Ruhi too! She is a child, everyone needs to stop tagging her as villain, it's all about upbringing. !


Also, the message kar sakti thi, email kar sakti thi nonsense from Twitter, I am sad that Akshu didn't hit back on how could she do that when he herself said that he would have treated Akshu as badly if she was mother of his child and wouldn't talk to her!! C'mon yaar, I am glad Akshu actually stood up for her self-respect.


And this whole idea of khoon ka rishta is over the top... Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata hai should finally answer the titular question - Yeh Rishta Khoon Ka Kehlata hai!


Again, the promo was misleading because it showed BP to be with Akshu, it should have seriously highlighted Kairav instead if not Abhinav! I never liked Goenkas in all honesty because there has been some glitch since previous generation! Swarna was probably the only character I liked back then too, and now even she is just a furniture...


About Kairav, there has been some discussion about his anger issues on forum and see if he is turning in Abhimanyu. You are right he isn't gonna get footage itna, but I am surprised with amount of presence he is getting too... I posted this tweet in another post on this forum here, posting it again : Kairav as a child


I don't think he has ever manhandled Muskaan so far but Muskaan and Kairav ka pair development isn't even that great🤪, he seemed little more interested in her - like staring like looking at her during Gangaur, or feeling bad when she was mad at him and all... But now it seems like he doesn't care at all😆 being interested in her is dur ki baat...

I hated the way he treated rishteywale log - I felt that the new guy being rude will be reason for Muskaan to call off alliance without any guilt but how is Kairav any different?




Abhir is a child, he is mature, but he does seem to be little facinated by fancy things.. But hopefully he will realize that no one can ever love him like his Super papa! It's only Abhinav-Abhir for whom I even care to follow this story😆

Edited by shahsb_26 - 3 years ago
Posted: 3 years ago
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This BP is the worst among Goenka’s , how he can not even feel for his grand daughter who went through so much pain . He is not even ashamed that his grand daughter chose a stranger over them, he still didn’t realise and that expressions were 😡. I wish Ak will give him back some day for this.

I liked Ar’s dialogues today she is practical and she is what she is selfish, self centred and she wants the same thing for her kid too.right or wrong but she was frank unlike this Selfish Manyu who thinks he can Abhir into the house and Ar n Ruhi will accept immediately. He would have not gone to PTA if Ar have not roasted him. So he failed as papa to Abhir on the 1st day itself ,he couldn’t even attend the court /meet whatever.

If Ak have to take revenge she wouldn’t have hid Abhir’s truth for so long , she would waited for him to come and see and her kid even during delivery time, she thinks of AbM when she was almost unconscious after the delivery. Why will she never wanted AbM to know the truth if she wants revenge. Ak rightly pointed out that he and his mom self victimise themselves. Now this lady cannot live without her potha who she doesn’t even want to touch 2 days back .

Edited by Chaitu.V - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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See, you have to understand that Abhimanyu is a very decent guy at heart. Unfortunately because of his worthless dad, he has so much TRAUMA associated with his childhood that it has caused him to develop severe anger issues.. He doesn't show anger on his mother because that is the one relationship he has learnt to trust, that he knows will never leave him. He was looking for that with Akshu, and Akshu if she truly loved her doc man, should have understood that he will react extremely in anger but give him some time then he will simmer down and be ready to listen to his Akshu and be reasonable. But Akshu just walking away in that moment broke him you know, so that must have increased his TRAUMA even more. That's why he was just a shadow of himself while Akshu being a stronger person was able to move on and make another family for herself. That shows she never truly loved Abhimanyu. Because she doesn't understand his trauma.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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What is Abhi planning to do with Abhir’s life?

I just need to understand this….here are some facts that I have known till now…

He has filed for abhirs custody.

He is engaged to arohi and has promised Ruhi that he will become his papa. He has promised arohi that ruhi and abhir will be his dil and dhadkan

Arohi has clearly mentioned that Ruhi is her priority and she will not make ruhi learn to adjust.


Suppose he wins the case, abhir uske saath rahega.

He will marry Arohi. Arohi will be abhir”s step mom. Usne clear kar diya hai ki she will prioritize ruhi.

So Abhi plans to bring abhir up in this environment?

Am I missing anything?



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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: austen-eliot

See, you have to understand that Abhimanyu is a very decent guy at heart. Unfortunately because of his worthless dad, he has so much TRAUMA associated with his childhood that it has caused him to develop severe anger issues.. He doesn't show anger on his mother because that is the one relationship he has learnt to trust, that he knows will never leave him. He was looking for that with Akshu, and Akshu if she truly loved her doc man, should have understood that he will react extremely in anger but give him some time then he will simmer down and be ready to listen to his Akshu and be reasonable. But Akshu just walking away in that moment broke him you know, so that must have increased his TRAUMA even more. That's why he was just a shadow of himself while Akshu being a stronger person was able to move on and make another family for herself. That shows she never truly loved Abhimanyu. Because she doesn't understand his trauma.

😃😃😃

Arohi understands his trauma and he understands hers… Dono Akshu ke satayee hue prani hain…both will sing together…

Hum bane tum bane Ek duje ke liye…

Hum Dono ko hi Akshu ne itne dukh diye!!!


Waise aaj he acted as such a wonderful papa for abhir… he assured his would b wifey that ruhi and abhir will be like his dil and dhadkan ….would be wifey ne usse kaha ki ruhi will be her priority… he kept quiet… but actions speak louder than words… so he showed his priority by attending ruhis PTA… kya papa hai!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Kairav did have a temper issue although in his family the old version of Kaurav was a pacifier .. but in Tilak 1.0 I thought he screwed up an already messy situation and escalated things when it could have been discussed a little more calmly considering every stakeholder had missed something of the other .. and even later during the KM Harsh Anniversary fiadco - although it was his love for Alshara that made him want to take her out of a hostile environment , it was not the best decision .. and then a couple of instances in that separation track when Kairav was being juvenile in his anger .. so he did have a bit of a temper which flared especially when it came to Abhimanyu vs his sisters .. generally the pre white day Kairav was more calm than the current one .. but yes he does seem to have major temper issues .. May be this is his trauma 😬 but yeah that muskaan’s rishta was so badly handled .. do they really think audience will like only this phod and no one will appreciate situations being handled maturely ? You can have drama even when you maintain a certain elegance in dealing with shifty situations ? 🤔 May be I am a dinosaur in an age of instant gratification .. I don’t remember him manhandling Muskaan though .. not a big fan of her either at the

Moment .. but he definitely is a slightly toned down version of Abhimanyu at the moment ..

Akshara - she doesn’t look prepared for the fight she was apparently preparing for the last 6 years .. I wish they could show a smarter Akshara at least as the case moves forward … but I think she expected the fight to be May be within certain limits because she probably still had some hopes that Abhimanyu can be decent too ? Not sure .. anyway I am not seeing her strength reflecting in her actions and May be the environment of concealed hostility and accusations from BP is also making her not so strong .. but hopefully the build up about Abhir ki Maa ki ladai won’t be wasted ..

Now the hero and villain of the story .. Mr. Birla .. what to even say .. absolutely no realisation, no remorse , no apology . At least not the kind that his actions warrant .. and he just treats Akshara so badly even now .. I hope Abhir gives him nicely soon .. I would love to see that .. but reading some theories here and looking at how Akshara continues to be the gorillas favourite target for bashing , for all you know it will be Akshu at the receiving end of that too .. but I am hoping to see the kid really give it to Abhimanyu .. every time from Tilak 1 this man is always focused on how someone else is always at fault .. when he found Arohi’s lie before the wedding , the 30 plus top cardiac surgeon asks the just out of studies girl .. tumne mujhe jaane kaise Diya .. main kisi aur ka ho jaata tho? I mean really ? Why do you not even ask yourself how did I make such a stupid decision .. before blaming someone else why you didn’t save me .. why don’t you grown ass guy save yourself ? Take some responsibility for your actions .. but here again I have no hopes of ever seeing this .. and today again he prioritises PTA over custody .. where exactly is his brain I don’t know .. I wanted him to not ignore Ruhi , but balancing is not going where she wants you to .. but doing what is required and right and ensuring the child doesn’t feel left out .. but the great doctor chose PTA abd sent his deranged by hare mother to the hearing !!

bade papa - I want a good Dhulai by someone where they take the audience questions to him .. which father figure will just return from Pathankot knowing his child must be in a really bad state .. without even bothering to meet her and ascertain her living conditions , how is she placed financially and how do you sleep at night not knowing all these ? Isn’t that what parents do ? Even if the child says I don’t want , parent will still try to make sure that they are fine .. how could he go back without meeting her and how he never travelled more frequently to meet her even if she married ?

So many questions, so many loop holes , so much injustice which will never get addressed .. how I wish at least in stories I could see the good winning .. Akshara is still paying for helping those girls and for all these bloody idiot people who were once a part of her life .. Rant over for now .. and thank you for these threads 😊

Edited by solembaum - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yeah how did he miss custody hearing for PTA! No brains Birla as always .. he just has no sense at all .. always overcompensates and then screws up

Originally posted by: India_TV

😃😃😃

Arohi understands his trauma and he understands hers… Dono Akshu ke satayee hue prani hain…both will sing together…

Hum bane tum bane Ek duje ke liye…

Hum Dono ko hi Akshu ne itne dukh diye!!!


Waise aaj he acted as such a wonderful papa for abhir… he assured his would b wifey that ruhi and abhir will be like his dil and dhadkan ….would be wifey ne usse kaha ki ruhi will be her priority… he kept quiet… but actions speak louder than words… so he showed his priority by attending ruhis PTA… kya papa hai!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: solembaum

Yeah how did he miss custody hearing for PTA! No brains Birla as always .. he just has no sense at all .. always overcompensates and then screws up

He is prioritizing ruhi… apni would b wifey ke liye… 😃😃

Wonderful papa hai Abhi!!

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