Originally posted by: nikita05
Bhaad me jaaye Vinu and uska birthday... Koi bhi cheez zaroorat se zyada achhi nahi hoti...kids should be sunshine like savi, not have such dark demeanour like Vinu but i guess uski bhi galti nahi hai...but it's been months since they are showing the same thing.
Savi's birthday came one fine day, was clubbed with Sai V anniversary and picnic, idhar Vinu ke birthday ka itna build up etc, all is too boring.
I agree. Savi is a doll. She is also impacted by all these changing equations but she listens to the elders, especially Sai and also others. She gives them all respect and love- whether V, P, BK, NiNi or all the Adhikari women. She also has childish demands and is baba obsessed but not at the cost of being annoying to the degree of Vinu. Although I keep worrying endlessly that Savi will be misused and flipped into antiSai by makers suddenly (my worst nightmare- because Savi is only and only Sai's)
I honestly dont care for Vinu. he is relevant only coz Sai and savi both love him. but he is such a tantrum thrower and so one-note. I get that he is attached to P and is upset -naturally. but he never listens, he just keeps up his tantrums, always manipulating elders- asking them to promise things and then throwing a fuss. why isnt he pissed at P for breaking her promises to him and leaving him alone?! her issue is with V- not with him- her "socalled" son- so why isnt Vinu shown thinking about that. If in the past she was taking him to London to meet her "family/friends" then now why is she claiming she has no thikana and she is leaving him in CN so that he has a roof and people to care for him. thats factually inaccurate. Vinu is a child but he is not supposed to have amnesia or be stupid. why doesnt he consider all these things.Infact he was shown as a sharp, perceptive and mature for his age kid initially so I really dont understand why they have made him a caricature now who simply throws tantrums to get his way and has a P obsession with no questions about his biological mom, how Savi and him are related by blood, how come V is his real father if he adopted him, how did P come in the picture- NOTHING, he has no questions, no curiosity and this despite him telling Sai about how his classmate parents got divorced etc. so he clearly is not functioning at the level of a toddler. he has some understanding of relationship dynamics.
i dont understand why no one including Sai will explain to him that V and P were faking happy marriage all this time and that even if he wants a "happy family" with VP- its upto V and P, not her. and he needs to accept reality and find happiness in his unconventional family that he still has. theres no use lying to the kids and trying to paint an illusion for them.
Sai i think to her credit has tried to broach these complex conversations in many ways but is always interrupted and situations airse where she can never fully discuss it. Even in her most recent analogy of 2 paudhe in 2 gamle, she was trying to explain the concept of 2 families mutually coexisting happily -but never could complete that explanation. Both kids were really understanding it before V interrupted. In the past it has been P or BK or somebody coming to ruin her explanations. She also has never wanted to over commit to Vinu. All she wanted to do was to take herself out of the equation and promise him that she will try her best to protect his family for him. and she has already done that by saving V, P lives multiple times, being cordial with P despite her fake allegations targeting Sai's career and respect and by also doing what P and most CN folks wanted in a sense- moving out of CN, and rejecting V proposal. She has done everything in her power to keep things peaceful and happy for both kids fulfilling her end of the promise.
Yet everyone is constantly blaming Sai, having more and more expectations from her, pressuring her, taunting her. What can she do?!
I get Ambas frustration but her unnecessarily stinging venomous dialogues are not needed. she was there to witness Sai being insulted by BK and she knows Sai is only handling and tolerating it ONLY for her kids. she heard Sai give back to BK also. then why does she keep on going a tad overboard in her taunting dialogues. It'd be more decent if she walked away with an angry silence instead of this BS of comparing her Sattu to a 8-9 year old child! C'mon. if her son is SO precious and important to her then will the mother Sai be expected give up Vinu or Savi for anything/anyone?! Yes she is not pleased that Sai has a past, she is not pleased with the BK connection, but this is not Sai's fault. Sai gave full disclosure and also told Amba she wouldnt marry Satya if Amba objected, she also had no idea of BK-Amba connection.
The only rays of light are SaiYa scenes and interactions, Aaji and Savi doll! :)
Edited by Nja91 - 2 years ago