Is any Abhimanyu mature enough for coparenting

We Know Ak is not even thinking about co parenting And Nav is somewhat OK with it.

But Abhi is shown as a person who cannot balance relationships..

Co parenting requires a level of maturity to work it out.. so that it doesn't affect the children. I am not much confident because of volatile emotional outbursts.. But There is no rule stating that emotionally unstable cannot be parents.. Then mothers may never have PMS or mood swings. He has every right to co parent Abhir.. but will he be able to..

There are 3 Abhimanyus according to forums.

Pre leap Abhimanyu

White day abhimanyu

Post leap Abhimanyu

Which of these three Abhimanyus would have been more suitable for co parenting.

I’m sorry but none are suitable, all are the exact same! AB will always be AB!

I would say pre leap. Not that he was very emotionally stable and all but in comparison to what he has become

Originally posted by: chaipaani

I would say pre leap. Not that he was very emotionally stable and all but in comparison to what he has become

None, pre leap both Abhi-Akshu were immature, though we got some good moments of Abhi during Ak’s pregnancy track, but still pre leap Abhi was controlling, so even as parent seeing him to be way too controlling; white day Abhi is undeserving of anything and everything; post leap Abhi still seems to carry a possessive side to him, and considering how spoilt Roohi is not sure about his parenting either; so yeah, his character needs to grow; also considering he is a doctor, he should self prescribe himself some therapy because the guy is incredibly toxic

Abhi does not even understand what co-parenting is because he always wants everything done according to him on his terms

Abhi is a man child who has never grown up. He was the spoilt golden child of the Birla house. Was always indulged and allowed to have his own way. The way he talked to not just his dad but a lot of people in his house was plain rude and obnoxious at times. His mother did a piss poor job raising him. There are times when parents have issues but guess what, parents are the adults. the job of a parent, the most important job of a parent is to shield and protect their kids. You cannot play the helpless damsel and victim in front of your kid all the time. You also cannot use your son as a surrogate for a life partner which is what Manjari did. As a result Abhi has always been extremely entitled, possessive and impulsive. It has not changed at all. When he fell in love with Akshara he actually expected that she should forget her life long relationships for a man that she met a month back. When he married her he kept getting mad at her for not agreeing to him and very little to no trust in her. She sacrificed a year of her life and her voice for him and yet he did not see or appreciate it. This time he dumped her in a fit of anger and then when he saw her again wanted her again despite knowing that she was married and had a kid. When he found out about Abhir instead of actually listening to what Akshara said and having an ounce of regret or empathy, his first thought was "my haq". Even now after some time has passed he has not once apologized to Akshara. How will he ever see or respect any opinion that Akshara and Abhinav have if it does not match with his or he does not agree to it. Unless he realizes how he has gone wrong and the damage that he has done not only to Akshara but his own life and really apologizes for it there is no redemption for him.

I will say I am Abhira fan. I like watching Harshad and Pranali because

1. I think Harshad is super hot

2. He and Pranali have very good chemistry

I also think the character of Abhinav is too bland because his character has no shades and I personally do not like watching whiter than white characters. I also think with the right creatives the character of Abhimanyu can have a wonderful redemption arc and will make for a very interesting watch. Unless Abhinav's character has some shades for me it was always be bland. Good to watch as a supporting character but not as a main character

If abhi stays away from birlas he can give good life to his kids orelse he will mess up. No need of any kid or parenting to him. He can sit and do juice service to his mom daily

Originally posted by: umawanderer

We Know Ak is not even thinking about co parenting And Nav is somewhat OK with it.

But Abhi is shown as a person who cannot balance relationships..

Co parenting requires a level of maturity to work it out.. so that it doesn't affect the children. I am not much confident because of volatile emotional outbursts.. But There is no rule stating that emotionally unstable cannot be parents.. Then mothers may never have PMS or mood swings. He has every right to co parent Abhir.. but will he be able to..

There are 3 Abhimanyus according to forums.

Pre leap Abhimanyu

White day abhimanyu

Post leap Abhimanyu

Which of these three Abhimanyus would have been more suitable for co parenting.

No one. He only loves his mama. So he is suitable for cry in mama's lap.

Mammas boys should be banned from getting married ..kids is a far fetched thought..its for everyone to see how good a father abhimanyu was all these years..

Reading my friend justju on page 1 , I felt likeI if we replace abhimanyu with ruhi, it will make complete sense ...the kid turned out to be obnoxious , rude , obsessive possessive which is very sad.......n this is where the writing is consistent ..bec it's true that kids take on parents traits and the atmosphere in which they are raised / nurtured makes hell of a difference...What is arohis contribution in it ? She herself is like that , what will she teach ruhi?

Was abhim overcompensating for Neil? Yes it may be true..But imp aspects of ruhis disturbing behavior was overlooked by him , that's why I can't give him a clean chit...

For sure abhinav is a better parent than abhim , bec he is a better person than him ..

So the question.. is abhim fit for co parenting? He needs therapy first , fix his house , his mummy, arohi , ruhi and then think of co parenting ..

With mummy & arohi taunting n blaming abhirs mother all the time , with ruhi pulling stupid stunts to show her possessiveness, he shouldn't think of doing it.