Originally posted by: Snowfally
Unhappy with the downfall in Sai's character - mainly her not remembering Virat as an abuser and thinking of him as her first and last love. I know she loved Virat - Vinayak and Savi are proof enough. However, for a woman as strong as Sai, her memories of Virat would have got permanently tarnished with Virat handing Vinu to Pakhi as a point of no return. Her not informing Savi before marrying Satya is also a big no - no in my book. Sai and Savi are a team who have faced every hardship together, Savi deserved to know before.
For me the reason to watch this show was Sai, not any romantic ship. I was (still am) totally against SaiRat though even before Virat handed over Vinu to Pakhi. The PH did not handle the new character (Satya) properly - giving him ss and then showing psycho Virat continuously. Sai has also been destroyed since the Holi Track. I don't know whether TV audience will enjoy the show or not but I have lost interest is seeing Pakhi - Virat ddp and Sai's pain for Virat. Vinayak is a flipper with Dr. Aunty being an angel one day to being a witch another day but I feel sad for him to see all the tamashas Virat and Pakhi do. Savi's deep love for her baba is not understandable to me at all, however, she has the saddest track with her moving from family to family. SaiYa romance alone doesn't interest me unless they genuinely show Virat - Pakhi repenting for all the torture done + Vinayak & Savi choosing SaiYa over Virat and leading good lives. Virat didn't spare a single thought for both his children in his psycho lover stage and that man creeps me out.
Actually I didn't want to come on this platform again after how cruelly Sai married to Satya in front of Virat ,when he was begging love and family which wasn't wrong from my perspective specially when her heart itself addressed that she is doing all this in her ego, which in real sense is not allowed to after the moments you shared with Satya.....But when I read this message I just wanted to give my POV so I am here....
A man who had everything in his life whether you consider academic excellence, money, power, family, etc then definitely he would have got married to an ideal lady specially being an IPS but whom he married- Sai an 18year immatured girl who didn't have any idea about life and marriage with a lot of flaws attached with her personality........
He didn't even once thought that what he deserved, infact started loving Sai though she termed their marriage as deal and was always bad mouth....He started giving everything to her, he fulfilled each wish that her aaba promised to her daughter, the guy who never uttered a single word in front of his elders started fighting with them for Sai's rights and education, he was the one who filled the place of guardian in Sai's life after his aaba, he was the one who cared about her needs and health though being not considered even as husband, he was the one who cherished each moment in Sai's life whether it was her entrance, birthday, results, etc, he was the one who had given Sai everything and didn't want anything in return... .how he was pathetic and abusive, I don't understand this, what he wanted is just a daughter from her and you know how he got that....who says to show gratitude towards Virat to whatever he did for her, she didn't even respected his feelings towards her, I don't know how many times she insulted him for no reason just in her firm beliefs which were wrong, she never respected his sentiments as father towards children, she never respected his emotional side which was a result of pain from a long time, etc instead she always leaved him from MBBS days and now have leaved him for forever......what I always felt wrong about her is that she wanted Virat to understand her end when at the same time she wasn't understanding his side.....
What I feel bad about is that just because this man believes in forgetting the past and live in present and doesn't show his side of pain infact masks himself with anger he is considered as wrong guy.....
My main question is that why nobody feels his end just because he doesn't show that...... a man who got married to a kid though she was adult just for that her life should not get ruined by Vitthal and JT, a man who didn't get love in return in his relationship for 5-6 long years when he was giving everything in their marriage, a man who always apologized and was targeted of abusive stuffs just because of Sai's insensibility towards him, a man whose brother died in rescuing Sai, a man whose wife was about to be raped by a criminal, a man whose child died even without seeing this world in the womb of the woman whom Virat termed as the love of his life, specially a man who got news that his wife will never be a mother of their child, the woman he wanted from a long time to be called as the mother of his children, a man whose wife didn't respected his love towards his son and put the condition of taking the child away from him just because his kaku a mother like figure for him wanted a changed Pl get back in the house because of family's reputation, a man whose wife didn't even stop after he gave condition of his love to not leave, a man whose wife and son got died in an accident and he was in mental trauma, suicidal, alcoholic for around 1 year because he lost the love of his life and their epitome of love, a man whose wife didn't even inform him about being alive after that horrible accident and leaved city being pregnant though they both said that they will not gonna meet each other again but that guy came to find her and Sai didn't even call, a man who lived his life only for an adopted kid and for the compulsion married to a woman of his family as suggested by elders, a man who even after the death of his wife never moved on in his life and still remembered Sai in every moment, a man who saw his wife being alive after 7-8 years and having a daughter, a man who got informed about his wife's relationship with the murderer of his brother by everyone when she in some sense allowed him in her life, a man who got to know from that guy that he also had a daughter in this world, a man who got to know that his son is still alive but in a condition that he didn't want to, a man who wanted the family he always dreamt for but nobody cared about that, a man whose love got married to someone else in front of him.......is not having pain just because he covers it with anger and his side is shown so bad....
When I see people abusing him for his post leap bahaviour the only thing that comes in my mind is that what else reaction you expected from a guy belonging to his position...
How your husband will gonna accept you after 7-8 years when he went through such pain in all these years that nobody in this world even dreams of and is associated to a family now, why he will not be angry at you when JT will be stalking you from a long time and you didn't do anything for it, why he will not become angry after knowing the truth of Savi's existence, why he will not be angry or pyscho when you will again be leaving him with his daughter because of all the horrible past he have in his mind, why he will be understanding your side when you will not even a single time showing your end to him till Vinayak's truth getting out, why he will be giving Vinu to you when for Vinu Pl is his mother and you want to snatch him so easily, etc.....
It's really sad that for maximum female audience as the show runs according to their mentality, a man is born with responsibilities should also die in responsibilities, a man only exists to treat you as queen whether you treat him even as a human or not that doesn't matter, he should always be there for you whether you respect his flaws and his emotional state or not, he should be perfect though being a human and he should never expect anything just follow the duty and farz as he doesn't possess a heart, he should compromise and sacrifice every dimension of life for you but you will never be sensitive towards him. I have a lot to say on how these shows are so biased in portrayal of FL's side and hide ML but I am restricting myself to this, sorry if anyone got hurt not against any stan or shipper but the way the makers use a man like a crap and throw him after a time it really seems pathetic.......there is big difference between being the one and becoming the one and he wasn't like this he became like this and everyone knows about this but nobody cares......😔
I just commented here as this thread is meant for bursting out frustration as everyone is allowed to share their end I did the same to what I see and get disappointed of pls ignore my message if you are Saiya fan or Sai stan.....
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