Originally posted by: Snowdrrop
You are proving me right when you for every wrong doing of Virat blaming someone else but Sai’s reaction to them are her ego according to you. Why can’t Virat take the responsibility of his actions.He is not a child where other peoples are who are making him do things.
I don't know how I proved anything, I would have said the same thing but I am not interested, as also the action-reaction part which you stated was my message. I will not be here stating the difference of these two and ego you can see yourself but if you are saying that Virat is not a kid that you are taking his charges over others.... So definitely he isn't but did I say this??? What I said is that how his circumstances, destiny and the people around him made him do that and on the other hand Sai took her own decisions, this is basic funda that Virat's more than half of deeds are because of conditions put against him and not his own will and on the other side ,Sai's whole life mostly revolved around her own choices .....
He was the one who give a stupid vaada to Pakhi who he didn’t know for 2 days properly. They didn’t knew each other full name at that time. It was he who propose a deal marriage and told Sai to not have any hope because he have Pakhi in his heart. He was the one who always protected pakhi’s respect and threw Sai under the bus.
First point that you should see is that Virat didn't propose deal marriage he was like as you said will never be moving on in his life because he promised someone so she should not expect anything from him but he did a lot more than husband and she also expected a lot of times from his side and on the other hand Sai was the one who said it's a deal marriage and I will gonna leave you after my education is completed. And if you are talking about Pakhi's respect so you also know that Pakhi's present state was a result of Virat's decision as things went so wrong so prioritising her was his responsibility not only against Sai but against anyone and I think there were countless scenes during Sai's mbbs days when Virat sidelined Pl over Sai and always termed her as his wife..... and this is really argumentive that he always threw Sai under the bus how can you say this???? He never did anything without any reason it can be Sai's mannerless attitude, Sai's side being hidden or what is there is front of him that he responded like that he never disrespected Sai's self respect for no reason......
Maybe his intentions were not wrong but his actions were.His surrogacy decisions also was not wrong because Pakhi and kaku didn’t leave a choice but after that when Pakhi made Sai stay away from fetus then he was wrong to accompany Pakhi. Ashwini can take care of Pakhi. He was wrong to not sign contract when Sai wanted it. He had to realise Sai’s insecurities that time. And Sai was proven right when he snatched Vinu from Sai and gives him to Pakhi. But na he did because of family. He can bail out Pakhi but it was not needed for her to come back to Chavan house she can go to her mothers house but na he brought Pakhi home because of family.
Just see this way that Pakhi was doing suicide drama there and the reason she mentioned was Sai and accompanied it with the pain of Samrat's death and her present solitary situation so if because of Pl, he and Sai will become parents which was a vanished imagination once and in this if she wants Virat to take care of her in pregnancy, he wasn't wrong and Sai had trust on Virat definitely Ashwini would have been able to do all that but I don't think so Virat would have crossed the lines in her care and certainly he would have taken the help of ladies of family for some situations.....and signing contract understand this pls that Virat was suspended for illegal surrogacy and they were regularly visiting hospital so definitely evidences were there if anything would have happened and if you consider Virat's end why he will be understanding the things the way Sai see , specially when he is not aware about the whole scenario, for him Pl was a totally different women so accepting these insecurities which didn't even start from the start but in between is not understandable and if you are not giving any proper element that can make him even believe a little in what you say then why he will gonna overrate all that. Virat gave Vinu to Sai I think you also know the reason behind this and Sai suddenly came that Pl said that before but tell me how he will be believing when she is a suicidal widow wife of his brother all alone and just want for few days the child of yours and how you termed it because of family I don't know.....the last point he brought pakhi back in house was it Virat's will or Kaku's emotional drama and definitely family's reputation get totally affected by these things so why are you blaming him when all the elders wanted wnd went for bailing Pl , Sai didn't even hesitate once to put the condition of taking the child away from him when Kaku said all that so why he will not become angry and abusive, is it a joke to take the child away from a parent when you didn't even listen once to what measures Virat and family would have taken there but in being emotional started fight and ended your relationship by heart there.....I don't understand this that how if Sai not listened or dealt in a matured way ,when her husband was being blackmailed by his family is a victim, is she a kid that everything in her life will go the way she wants or she is allowed to play with every dimension of Virat's life if he doesn't agree.....
After leap also I don’t have problem with him for marrying Pakhi but now I have problem because if he wants to stay with Sai he should clear the entire mess first. He doesn’t have go after Sai before that. Yes he pushed Sai with that first from house then city and with his public announcement marrying Satya. You are not ready to see it because according to you he did it because of his love. He didn’t want to loose Sai again but he didn’t want to correct things before that. Sai was not going anywhere if he made things right slowly. Virat is pushing Sai from himself.
I am ready to see everything but it's thin layering doesn't overlap the altogether situation.... for you Virat is pushing Sai, so just tell me isn't Sai an adult who is aware about all the rights she have in the present situation and can see things in a neutral manner so if Ashwini is saying Sai that pls don't be a homewrecker ,if Pl termed her as dusri aurat and Vinu being a small kid saying all that emotional things so for all these you will gonna sideline Virat whom you term as the love of your life and certainly if all the above stuff are one sided and in itself a rubbish with no base, nobody can force you means nobody can force you to get married to someone but here is the justification which is not understandable ,she is doing all by her will as her inner self also addressed the day before yesterday that you are satisfying your ego because Virat doubted your relationship with Satya but my question is that is she even allowed to possess that fidelity point dissatisfaction after the peak level behaviour they shared in hospital so she is just not addressing what she did wrong and her restricted mentality towards what she see as right and just going with that if you say that you ever loved someone then you will never be able to see him begging love and definitely not to marry in front of him to someone else it seems heartless.....I would have not justified Virat if he would have done all that being connected to his inner self instead he performed all that being emotional and on rush and on the other hand Sai is doing all this by her own understanding when she is in neutral state....
Virat was wrong when he was....If I am giving reasons doesn't mean for everything I am claiming him right but just giving his end so that ppl can understand and if I am blaming Sai I don't mean that she is the one who is always wrong but definitely she also possess her share of faults...
What I believe is that generally hate is for three type of guys first the one who is wrong, second the one who became wrong and the third one who is not right and Virat falls in third category or you are not positive doesn't mean you are negative there is zero in between which gets ignored......Sai once said that they are like banks of a river which can go alongside but cannot meet you know what..... that river is Sai's ego as her heart indirectly addressed.....Virat never leaved Sai, Sai even after flirting with Satya played victim card and want Virat to respect her fidelity...... rubbish and is now going with this fake reason just imagine if Virat will get a clip of Sai and Satya's cabin bond how he will gonna react luckily this is ITV and Virat is only there for getting insulted...
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