Ruhi the innocent sufferer - Page 3

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

That’s the point he can’t balance relationships . He goes extremes either ways. How can he expect a 6 yr old to understand all this. He have to explain her that like he did today and now he is already feeling bad n guilt thinking Maine Roo ko danta? When her poppy lifts someone on the shoulders she feels left out n ignored.. He went over board. Though his feeling r real he should understand his extremes will harm both the kids .. we saw Ruhi’s reaction by pushing Abhir today.

Ak didn’t support her in her wrong doings,she didn’t say anything because she is only her Maasi not her Ma. It’s Ar’s responsibility to teach her some manners. Carrying on shoulders it’s very common in kid to feel jealous when their parents carry someone like that. Ak said the same

He is not expecting Ruhi to understand this that's why he was feeling sad afterwards for reprimanding her

I blamed Arohi for using Ruhi and Akshara, IMO was wrong in speaking between Abhimanyu and Ruhi and supporting Ruhi's wrong behaviour

Ruhi is a kid and her feelings are justified

Originally posted by: NoraSM

He is not expecting Ruhi to understand this that's why he was feeling sad afterwards for reprimanding her

I blamed Arohi for using Ruhi and Akshara, IMO was wrong in speaking between Abhimanyu and Ruhi and supporting Ruhi's wrong behaviour

Ruhi is a kid and her feelings are justified

Originally posted by: NoraSM

He is not expecting Ruhi to understand this that's why he was feeling sad afterwards for reprimanding her

I blamed Arohi for using Ruhi and Akshara, IMO was wrong in speaking between Abhimanyu and Ruhi and supporting Ruhi's wrong behaviour

Ruhi is a kid and her feelings are justified

When akshu does not like to hear abhi's opiniom even though he is father as well as doctor when she took decision of going to USA. How her behaviour is justified.

Arohi can speak she has every right. Akshu do not even have 1% right to speak in roohi's matters. As she is not even roohi's mom.

When abhi tried telling her it's not good for abhir's health she started with bacche ke pappa mummy decide karenge. You are no one to tell.

But abhi was calm and composed. He did not even shouted at akshu for talking such things infront of roohi. He is proven better parent than akshu. Who takes wise decision for kid, do not fight infront of kid, corrects kid when kid makes mistake.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

That is what he does , he does things 1st and then feel bad. He goes extreme , he need to balance that. Though His feelings r genuine his extremity makes everything wrong. Yeah she did say that May be she can’t say anything to Ruhi for pushing Abhir she might have reacted that way to avoid something more dangerous as Abhir is alreasdy unwell. I Don’t know why these makers r hell bend and trying to trash AbM, looks like they forgot he is the lead of the show. Now matha will come n give Gyan to AbM n disgusting look n lecture to Ak

They are actually not trashing or ruining Abhimanyu, the writing is very clear

1 They didn't show Abhimanyu going out of his way to be with Abhimanyu, many scenes between him and Ruhi were added in this camp, they didn't even show that he has followed Abhir to the camp which would make sense but they decided to go for "destiny" factor to take away the blame from him

2 They added scene between Abhimanyu and Abhinav to explain how he is yearning for the time he lost

3 Today when Abhir asked for a promise, he didn't make any because he breaks them

4 They gave 2 scenes showing Arohi is manipulating Akshara

5 They added a scene between Arohi and Ruhi, where Arohi said that she is using Ruhi

I don't think they can do for Abhimanyu, they are even adding scenes to show God is on his side. I don't know about other characters but writing for Abhimanyu is on point

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

When akshu does not like to hear abhi's opiniom even though he is father as well as doctor when she took decision of going to USA. How her behaviour is justified.

Arohi can speak she has every right. Akshu do not even have 1% right to speak in roohi's matters. As she is not even roohi's mom.

When abhi tried telling her it's not good for abhir's health she started with bacche ke pappa mummy decide karenge. You are no one to tell.

But abhi was calm and composed. He did not even shouted at akshu for talking such things infront of roohi. He is proven better parent than akshu. Who takes wise decision for kid, do not fight infront of kid, corrects kid when kid makes mistake.

Exactly

She had no business speaking there.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

They are actually not trashing or ruining Abhimanyu, the writing is very clear

1 They didn't show Abhimanyu going out of his way to be with Abhimanyu, many scenes between him and Ruhi were added in this camp, they didn't even show that he has followed Abhir to the camp which would make sense but they decided to go for "destiny" factor to take away the blame from him

2 They added scene between Abhimanyu and Abhinav to explain how he is yearning for the time he lost

3 Today when Abhir asked for a promise, he didn't make any because he breaks them

4 They gave 2 scenes showing Arohi is manipulating Akshara

5 They added a scene between Arohi and Ruhi, where Arohi said that she is using Ruhi

I don't think they can do for Abhimanyu, they are even adding scenes to show God is on his side. I don't know about other characters but writing for Abhimanyu is on point

Originally posted by: NoraSM

How about not using a disability like blindness for petty fandom fights? Lets be a little tolerant to different opinion, we can't all join "Jai Jai Abhinav" or "Hay Hay Abhimanyu" bandwagon

@Bold

Except he did it for his son's victory and told Ruhi that Abhir won or she won it is the same thing as they are siblings

If I am not wrong he said this later after the mess.

He had to say this before going crazy.

Bhai logo ke 2 bacche hote hain toh kya 1 ko ignore kar dete hain to celebrate dusre wale ki victory?

He should have firstly congratulated Abhir then instead of going crazy should have talked with Ruhi, at least 1 hug de deta.

But he did nothing just ran away like Ruhi doesn't matter.

Maine toh real mein aajtak kisi parent ko aisa karte nahi dekha, shouting like this when there is kisi aur ka baccha who lost.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

That’s the point he can’t balance relationships . He goes extremes either ways. How can he expect a 6 yr old to understand all this. He have to explain her that like he did today and now he is already feeling bad n guilt thinking Maine Roo ko danta? When her poppy lifts someone on the shoulders she feels left out n ignored.. He went over board. Though his feeling r real he should understand his extremes will harm both the kids .. we saw Ruhi’s reaction by pushing Abhir today.

Ak didn’t support her in her wrong doings,she didn’t say anything because she is only her Maasi not her Ma. It’s Ar’s responsibility to teach her some manners. Carrying on shoulders it’s very common in kid to feel jealous when their parents carry someone like that. Ak said the same

Exactly

Kabse dusre ki maa kisi aur ke bacche ko daatne lagi ya bolne lagi?

I remember once ladayi hue thi meri kisike saath and dusre wale ki galti thi still mumma scolded me usse acche se baat kar rahi thi.

Jab pucha ki mujhe kyu daata toh she said tujhper haq hain dusre per nahi.

This is the thing but kisi bhi tarah Ak ko blame karna hain.

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

He did overdo there was no need to dance taking abhir on shoulder and shout mera betu has won he could have consoled Ruhi at the same time which parent jumps like that on other kids win. But you will not see that blind fan effect

I mean everyone here is blind tbf

Noone is seeing that Akshara was not right in encouraging Ruhi either. What Ruhi did was wrong, she needed to be reprimanded but Akshara goes on to say you are right beta. Would she teach her own kid the same values?

Abhi is wrong too. Yes, he has missed out on his son's journey but he should also understand that he has played Neil's role for Ruhi and he cannot just jump to Abhir so soon. It's like having a second child, you cannot simply give all your attention to the second child and forget the first. Balance it.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

If I am not wrong he said this later after the mess.

He had to say this before going crazy.

Bhai logo ke 2 bacche hote hain toh kya 1 ko ignore kar dete hain to celebrate dusre wale ki victory?

He should have firstly congratulated Abhir then instead of going crazy should have talked with Ruhi, at least 1 hug de deta.

But he did nothing just ran away like Ruhi doesn't matter.

Maine toh real mein aajtak kisi parent ko aisa karte nahi dekha, shouting like this when there is kisi aur ka baccha who lost.