C'mon Abhi, you can't just forget that you are father to Ruhi too!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I feel like Abhi is being such an a$$ just because he can. Poor Ruhi spent all morning trying to convince her deeda to take her to Abhi's birthday party and he literally could have told her that he will take her or worse she found out that he planned a party with so many cool things and she didn't even get to come!

I mean as a kid, that has to be so painful. Yesterday, Ruhi was everything and he would drop anything and anyone to be with her. He was evening willing to enter an unwanted marriage for her sake and today she is nothing. It's like flavor of the day with him. He picks up and drops people like it's nothing. When he likes you, he makes you feel like the most important person in the whole world, that's why it's more devastating to people when they get the opposite treatment. She would have had so much fun doing that for Abhir too and get to party with him. Why is it just one or the other with him?

I was really thinking he's beginning to reflect on his behavior or realize that he played a big role in why his son was kept from him (even though yes that was not right either on Akshara's end but I understand why that choice was made)

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Again proving that extreme emotions can be unhealthy.. Abhimanyu never had a balance in anything. He was extreme in everything.. be it love.. hatred. Abhimanyu kind of person as my partner is nightmare.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Fatima_Khan

I feel like Abhi is being such an a$$ just because he can. Poor Ruhi spent all morning trying to convince her deeda to take her to Abhi's birthday party and he literally could have told her that he will take her or worse she found out that he planned a party with so many cool things and she didn't even get to come!

I mean as a kid, that has to be so painful. Yesterday, Ruhi was everything and he would drop anything and anyone to be with her. He was evening willing to enter an unwanted marriage for her sake and today she is nothing. It's like flavor of the day with him. He picks up and drops people like it's nothing. When he likes you, he makes you feel like the most important person in the whole world, that's why it's more devastating to people when they get the opposite treatment. She would have had so much fun doing that for Abhir too and get to party with him. Why is it just one or the other with him?

I was really thinking he's beginning to reflect on his behavior or realize that he played a big role in why his son was kept from him (even though yes that was not right either on Akshara's end but I understand why that choice was made)

That's the whole issue with him. It's the reason I never liked the ckt., even when he's played by Harshad. I myself can not handle a person in my life (man or woman) who's that volatile & emotionally unstable. Being intense or being extreme in one emotion can be managed.. but as per one's whims, one's judgement if someone's behaviour, actions keep on fluctuating that's nightmarish. Abhimanyu Birla, since the start, is the kind of guy who can fight the world to hold your hand when he wants to, but can slap your hand away n leave you when he gets displeased. . . . (Even tho mummy is an integral part of his every discussion, I'm refraining from including her bcos I've had enuf of writing posts on mummy today.)
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Posted: 2 years ago
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He just need to learn keep balance. I don't know what was the story before 2nd divorce. But he lost everything and I feel bad for him. First his solace was Ruhi he still love Ruhi but the thing is he also forget her when he was purposing AK. He himself accepted this. Now again he ignoring Ruhi for Abhir. Ya that's good if he want to spend some time with Abhir but he has to include Ruhi also in that time.

First he lost AK due to his impulsive anger nature.

Second he also lost fresh friendship with Nav by degrade him. He was the one who understands his pain. Abhimanyu himself was enjoying his friendship.

Third he will loss Abhir for sure due to his horrible past.

Forth he will also lose Ruhi believe due to his ignorance for her. Mind it she is the only person who is close to Abhimanyu

After lose everything he would learn to keep balance. He will learn to set his priority. He will learn to live for himself, learn to keep everyone happy without hurting himself, learn to differentiate between rights & responsibility. He is not villain, he is just lost somewhere. Once he will get himself he will be happy.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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No one deserves a partner like ABHIMANYU BIRLA

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priyrabha

He just need to learn keep balance. I don't know what was the story before 2nd divorce. But he lost everything and I feel bad for him. First his solace was Ruhi he still love Ruhi but the thing is he also forget her when he was purposing AK. He himself accepted this. Now again he ignoring Ruhi for Abhir. Ya that's good if he want to spend some time with Abhir but he has to include Ruhi also in that time.

First he lost AK due to his impulsive anger nature.

Second he also lost fresh friendship with Nav by degrade him. He was the one who understands his pain. Abhimanyu himself was enjoying his friendship.

Third he will loss Abhir for sure due to his horrible past.

Forth he will also lose Ruhi believe due to his ignorance for her. Mind it she is the only person who is close to Abhimanyu

After lose everything he would learn to keep balance. He will learn to set his priority. He will learn to live for himself, learn to keep everyone happy without hurting himself, learn to differentiate between rights & responsibility. He is not villain, he is just lost somewhere. Once he will get himself he will be happy.


I wish .. Here we can use Nav.. He can care for Ruhi when she is ignored and then Also love Abhir..

Show Abhimanyu what is balance.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: umawanderer


I wish .. Here we can use Nav.. He can care for Ruhi when she is ignored and then Also love Abhir..

Show Abhimanyu what is balance.


Hehe u expecting little more.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: umawanderer


I wish .. Here we can use Nav.. He can care for Ruhi when she is ignored and then Also love Abhir..

Show Abhimanyu what is balance.

I would love to see Ruhi and Abhinav scenes , that girl Hera is so cute smiley42.




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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priyrabha


Hehe u expecting little more.


As they say.. there is no tax spent in wishing😆😉

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Posted: 2 years ago
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He made so many promises to Ruhi only to forget them in few days , giving tough competition to Virat Chavan 😆

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