Originally posted by: Ashane25
Ma'am I was mainly talking about how she behaved with Satya in his cabin and when she smiled of Satya's flirt instead of getting hesitated or annoyed, when he came so close to her in canteen that's it according to me these two were much more than flirt with hidden feelings ,when you are not restricting to the behaviour that you generally act like and if you saying of regular accusing I agree with this that Virat is having as big jealousy factor but I can also understand his end everytime....when you say he doubted her with friends what I felt wrong about is that why you should not know your boundaries specially when you don't even consider him as your husband I mean boundaries here as respecting sentiments of your partner, family and society....which she never did in being adult child and it resulted in big problems....
And if you like constant tendency of accusing of having affair is not right because Sai also accused him in Mahabaleshwar and in Shruti track without any evidence or any resource to rely on from his side.....on the other side when Virat did all this, situation was so different and accomodated by a series of conflicted events whether you consider Ajinkya, Jagtap and Satya now, in all of this a strong background made him do that.....Virat really trust Sai, you can see it in a way that when he ever gets heard of Sai's character assassination by others like kaku, Vitthal, Gulab rao, some of his family members, Pakhi he always gets offended and defends her but after a time his jealousy crosses lines and he starts bursting out unbelonging words to her....
And I don't think he was right to directly say that but Sai was wrong first as I have said that she didn't even hesitate in all that she could have dealt it in another way possible nothing was emergent there but she acted the way she wasn't and didn't even think of drawing the lines there it was definitely care as friend but at the some time crossing lines......I am also the guy who believes in opposite gender having good friendship ,but with specific limitations, as everyone is aware about that and it shows the difference between relationship and friendship between opposites you should prioritise stepping back instead of spontaneity in this when it is anything about herself/himself and specially the ones related to him/her and this is what Sai forgot and didn't even think once I am also in college I have some girls in our group we don't even shake hands with girls if they aren't comfortable so let aside this of blowing dust off a girl's eye if it's not that serious....you viewed it so fair in positivity that you ignored it's negative end just because your intentions weren't wrong doesn't mean you were right and others will see it in your way, that's why I felt Sai wrong there as compared to Virat....I was saying the flirt not here but in above two situations and openly in hospital friendship is totally a different element a pure term but Sai was much more than that as she also got stucked in the eyes of Satya during their catch and fall scene so after all this she is not allowed to insult Virat on his proclamations...
And definitely as you said Love is not enough you should have trust and respect both should know this not only Virat..... because as far as I can see he is with the thought that if Sai wanted to marry someone else why didn't she in all these years he just said all that in anger after getting insulted that's it he believes in Sai from his depth of heart there is no doubt in this....
I didn't say you narrow minded infact I commented on your message of Virat as narrow minded I think I have clarified it I don't want to discuss further but other side also exists this is what I wanted to say Thank you....
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