I don't think Sai is wrong in being kind to CN folks and informing them of her decisions. Thats the core difference between Sai and them. She values whatever little she got. She knows that they are all biological family to her kids. And she seeks cordial relationship with them all as a result of that. She's been more respectful to them than V. V did not even think about informing his parents about divorcing P. But Sai will tell them things in a clear way. She's not telling them to get their opinions or feedback. She's made up her mind but she wants peace. She shows her maturity, grace by giving respect to the oldies who 100 % dont deserve it but still Sai treats them well.
Such a woman will never do something disrespectful to Amba amd co either.
But Amba is right that Sais past is very complicated. She has 2 kids and V is their father. So she cannot cut V off. She cannot cut off her kids. So if Satya marries her he needs to realize that her responsibility to the kids will always come first. Him and his family will be second to kids. V is NEVER in her priority so he needs to remember that prioritizing kids does not mean she's prioritizing V.
Satya needs to take a Time out and think. Does he really understand what he's signing up for. Its a huge step. He's doing this voluntarily so he better understand the issues.
Unlike Anu Aunty where Anu loved Anuj but was still pulled in between him and her kids in her ex husband home- here Sai does not love Satya.
She may grow to love him in coming days but he needs to know she's got a lot of responsibilities. She has a past but its not exactly something that will not impact him unlike his dead GF who isnt around to impact hus life with Sai.
Sai has been really clear about her priorities. She's been transparent even about her residual feelings but categorical NO to being with V. So how much he trusts/respects her it will be tested a LOT. The people in Sais past are not normal decent humans. They are a selfish, manipulative bunch.
Sai will never cheat anyone , she's gone through a lot and she'd never unintentionally also take someone for granted. But her kids are her priority. Nothing will change that.
Ambas concern for Satya is valid. But her declarations that Sai will "cheat" like her lover did is not fair . She could simply stop by saying Sai has baggage and with kids involved she cant cut off V from her life. That is true.
V is behaving like a jerk. Sai is clear in her refusal. If Sai sought to be with V, she has the chance now to do so. She'd not be running away fron hin and wanting to get married again if any part of her thought the idea of reconciliation even deserved a consideration
But Amba herself choosing to be involved with a married man- thats honestly her stupidity. If she was in the wifes place, would she be cool with being abandoned by her husband for another woman?!
Theres no comparison between Sai and a cheating man who lied to Amba and had an affair behind wife's back.