What we wanted to see vs what we are actually seeing - Page 3

Originally posted by: chaipaani

How is Abhir's surgery will effect their wedding.

Lets assume Manish knows that Abhir is AbhiM son biologically then also he could have solved the issues years ago instead of it coming to this point where Abhir's parentage is affecting Aru their precious child who was in touch with them all these years and was kn touch with Mahima to spying on her i can die for them family.

As an elder don't you think he should have tried to mend Akshu AbhiM relationship (here i am assuming he knows she was pregnant with his child that means he knows she is pregnant when Akshu made a call regarding her marriage) and even if he didn't wanted Abhira didn't he know how complicated her pregnancy was that Abhi was not ready for the risk with all amenities and yet he left her to fend coz Akshu ne bola nahi aana ghar. Mere ghar wale thappad maar k laate that too agar maine sach mein bhi khoon kra hota yeh toh useless sa blame tha and actually goenkas bhi laaye the Kairav ko they didn't actually know k humare ladke ne maara h k nahi just a believe that kairav can't do this.

And if he doesn't know about Abhir's parentage how on earth a 5 year old's surgery will effect their wedding plans. Like is ek month aur bhi logo ki surgery karega na the great Dr Birla will that effect his wedding too. I really want to know why was Manish given this dialogue.

They should atleast show Akshu to bombard on them or else what's the use, what's the logic why this nonsense.

And why how are you like supporting this particular scene

I agree with you Manish should have resolved the issues much earlier but Akshara was always shown as women who doesn't want to keep connected with her Maayka. When Aarohi was torturing her before marriage also she ran away for 3 years. Then after first divorce too trusted khera more than goenkas. Then after second divorce trusted stranger than goenkas. And Abhir operation too abhinav contacted them not she. Aarohi though never ran and was with them always. So will Manish not think about both their daughters. And surgery has to do with wedding because probably Manish knows the truth about Abhir.

I am not defending goenkas but just telling that I found that scene ok . That's my perspective but everyone can see it differently.

Hey, IMO next week ki script must be in the writing depending on the TRP they are going to pen it🤪. When the PH and channel are keen to play with the emotions of legacy viewers 👏only wise thing we can do, is not to take sides and make fun of every character and their flaws.🤣.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I felt so bad for Akshara today. She literally has no one and I mean no one other than Abhinav and chances are he might be taken away too. Kairav is supportive for now but his relationship will be tested once Abhir's truth comes out and honestly I do not have high hopes from him. The scenes with bade papa wanted to make me puke. 1) you are expecting her to share everything with you yet you fail to build that bond with her and 2) she's here for her son who has a deadly illness yet you care about Arohi's wedding and happiness. Its simply not about wh you favor, at least look at the situation right now.

We wanted to see Manjari feeling some type of remorse for her actions and what she did with Akshara 6 years ago. She spoiled her son's life and continues to interfere but what do we get? Her screaming and insulting Akshara and in return Akshara is begging her to let Abhimayu treat her son? Did she forget her son is a doctor and that's his job? He can't pick and choose who he wants to treat unless the patients are not abiding by the hospital laws. Is she so heatless that she doesn't care about a little child?

I think instead of the show being named yeh rishta kya kehlata hai, it should be named yeh rishta kuch nahi kehlata. Those who talk about the importance of blood relations should see how these relationships are unfolding but we still we are busy in hating on Abhinav because he's not the biological father plus 100 other reasons.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I agree with you Manish should have resolved the issues much earlier but Akshara was always shown as women who doesn't want to keep connected with her Maayka. When Aarohi was torturing her before marriage also she ran away for 3 years. Then after first divorce too trusted khera more than goenkas. Then after second divorce trusted stranger than goenkas. And Abhir operation too abhinav contacted them not she. Aarohi though never ran and was with them always. So will Manish not think about both their daughters. And surgery has to do with wedding because probably Manish knows the truth about Abhir.

I am not defending goenkas but just telling that I found that scene ok . That's my perspective but everyone can see it differently.

I am understanding your POV she too was distant emotionally with them. But in that way we have also not seen Aru's deep emotional bonding all we know that she didn't went for three years but was asked to leave or say she was in hostel and for 3 straight years wasn't even asked to come home on holidays as their precious daughter Aru didn't like it.

Won't you feel emotionally disconnected with such people. Yet Akshu has shown very loving towards them.

I agree that Akshu has her own flaws obviously everyone is flawed. About Khera that's a different topic altogether and obviously the way it happened was for pure drama only ITV people can do like this. Usually people talk even if they're being blackmailed and all.

But about this particular scene considering the gravity of the situation and logic(itv mein nahi hai) but still.

Akshu isn't here to confess her love to AbhiM or to tell him hey we have son wanna co-parent. She is here coz her son isn't well and dr recommended Dr Birla for the surgery.

This situation and your family is worried about a wedding of compromises. And how on earth will this impact their wedding plans. Nothing is changing the fact that Akshu is married to someone else.

Also, if she wants like Manjari and all are blaming her she can take AbhiM in a blink of an eye. He is a goner for her we have all seen it.

So this scene for me doesn't make sense unless things like that lead on to her emotional outburst coz currently feels like everything that's wrong in Aru's life is coz of Akshu when in reality it's the other way round and Aru we all know has been selfish, manipulative, cunning she didn't left any chance to destroy Abhira and here we are now.

Originally posted by: Sanju_9

PS I got ur view pt. & what I'm writing here is totally my opinion 🙂.For me, in all practicality not taking help from in-laws but selling cars isn't a reasonable decision. In dire situations, when one is in urgent requirement of money, outsiders just tend to take advantage. Same was shown in d show that Nav had to sell his car at half d price. Moreover, selling his cars meant a direct blow to his family's livelihood. Up till now Sharmas have been shown to face financial strain with all of their belongings. Now in a situation, where one isn't aware of d total expense they'll have to bear with such a serious n long-term disease, cutting one's only stable source of income isn't going to lead to any good. However, I also understand Nav's hesitancy in approaching Gs and I believe that he wasn't blind to d second-hand treatment Ak got from her family. The way Gorillas behaved on (immortal 😅) mimi's bday or kalash ceremony or post Ab's accident, spoke volumes in itself n he was quick in reading d room. But just as he convinced Ak, they'd to do it for their son. I loved that he took d initiative of contacting Gs afterwards but I would've totally stood with his decision of calling them even before Abhir's surgery.

I agree. I feel like that’s why family is for. I was a little upset first that why are they reaching out to random strangers rather reaching out to Kairav or bare papa for the loan. I guess they just wanted to show how difficult it can be to arrange money last minute when you’re not filthy rich.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Honestly I did not find Manish worrying about Aarohis marriage wrong. Because Akshara has always kept distance from them and never involved them in any thing but all these years Aarohi is living with them. Even when Kairav didn't speak with her all these years for same reason, she still hid them when Abhir was in hospital. And they have seen Abhis marriage breaking all the time especially with Abhimanyu and the complications. They also saw character growth in her after Neil's death. And if the marriage breaks too all blame will be again on Akshara and both sisters relation will turn into hatred again.

They know akshara is settled with abhinav in Kasauli. And now want to Aarohi and Roohi to get settled so checking if there are other options.

Firstly fixing Aarohis marriage with Abhimanyu is only wrong as he keeps flipping between sisters and they saw that but Aarohi ko Abhimanyu hi chahiye and Abhimanyu ko Aarohi for Manjiri tho koi Kya hi karega 😂

Yeah completely understand. I think it was just not the right moment to mention all that. The last thing on Akshara’s mind is to have to do with Abhimanyu right now. She’s too invested in her son’s health like any mother and would go to any extent ti make sure he’s okay.

Originally posted by: Krinya

I totally agree with you..akshara shouldn't be hesitant to ask for help from goenkas , but she said na why, she didnt wanna come.bk facing the same taunts..

And abhinav..well..its the same dilemma as the day of Neil's death ..I don't agree with their actions entirely but I appreciate his efforts and his intentions ....life can be rebuilt again n they can plan it out later , but it was imp to save abhirs life with whatever means possible.. he also knew akshu won't be happy taking monetary help as her husband pride is imp for her ....but not more than her sons life so that's why all of them r in Udaipur na..till the time he cud manage he did , when it was imperative to approach abhimanyu, he did it....if goenkas have a heart they will help abhinav in rebuilding his business , or even better, offer to set.up one in Udaipur..

Ultimately it's the responsibility of the parents to make their children feel secure ..to have such a relationship with them that they come to them when they're in trouble...goenkas need a reality check seriously ..they're partially responsible for her miseries. They just stand there doing nothing to support akshu..

Completely agree to everything you said. He wanted to do what he could and then reached out for help when he knew it was needed.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

How is Abhir's surgery will effect their wedding.

Lets assume Manish knows that Abhir is AbhiM son biologically then also he could have solved the issues years ago instead of it coming to this point where Abhir's parentage is affecting Aru their precious child who was in touch with them all these years and was kn touch with Mahima to spying on her i can die for them family.

As an elder don't you think he should have tried to mend Akshu AbhiM relationship (here i am assuming he knows she was pregnant with his child that means he knows she is pregnant when Akshu made a call regarding her marriage) and even if he didn't wanted Abhira didn't he know how complicated her pregnancy was that Abhi was not ready for the risk with all amenities and yet he left her to fend coz Akshu ne bola nahi aana ghar. Mere ghar wale thappad maar k laate that too agar maine sach mein bhi khoon kra hota yeh toh useless sa blame tha and actually goenkas bhi laaye the Kairav ko they didn't actually know k humare ladke ne maara h k nahi just a believe that kairav can't do this.

And if he doesn't know about Abhir's parentage how on earth a 5 year old's surgery will effect their wedding plans. Like is ek month aur bhi logo ki surgery karega na the great Dr Birla will that effect his wedding too. I really want to know why was Manish given this dialogue.

They should atleast show Akshu to bombard on them or else what's the use, what's the logic why this nonsense.

And why how are you like supporting this particular scene

I feel like he doesn’t know but you never know. He might come out in Akshu’s support saying he knew all along. I think he’s hesitant because he know Arohi and Abhimanyu are only doing this for Ruhi and Abhimanyu can flip anytime with his past history lol.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

exactly .‘I don’t see how abhirs revelation will unite abhira..akshara is married to abhinav..and before abhirs illness we saw her and abhinav wanting to have a complete marriage …so why Should that change.. I don’t see akshara leaving abhinav..the only way I see abhinav exiting is through death..as abhir won’t leave his father as well. Do people think abhir is just going to dump his father abhinav as soon as he finds out his biological father is abhimanyu..is abhimanyus money and status as a doctor going to make abhir dump his poor working class father.’’’I don’t think so…😐

Exactly and I know that’s what some people want but that won’t be possible. Abhir likes Abhimanyu as his docman but him accepting him as a father will be a whole different thing. Abhir is shown as a smart kid who is proud of his parents so the luxuries will never sway him.